You reflects your Partner, Your Partner reflects You

Did I confuse you with the title?

Or did I make you realize something?

For years now we are fighting for equality between men and women. Women wanted to have the same right as Men and be able to work jobs that were supposed to be for men before.

Todays generation you can see women driving a taxi, a jeepney or a pedicab. Some women would also carry baggages especially on piers. There were women as well who applied as Carpenters which is one of the toughest job of a man.

As generation continues our beliefs, culture and norms have evolved as well.

Now, let us talk about MARRIAGE. With all these fighting for Women's right and the likes, how do you manage it with your partner? Before, the Men should work while Women should be at home taking good care of the kids but it is way different now.

How do you manage time and different values/opinion?

Do you let your wife work? If not, why?

Would you know that your partner's looks would reflect you?

If your husband looks untidy that would reflect you as a wife.

How do you care for him?

How do you check your clothes?

That may also mean you are untidy while on the other hand if your partner looks neat then that would reflect to you as well. It can mean you take good care of your partner.

The same goes with your kids. Both the parents should be united with the house rules or how to take care the babies. Parents should have proper conversation with everything as much as possible and it should be clear.

So I am always concern with how my partner looks especially when we are going somewhere same goes with my babies. I would love to see them looking formal and neat as possible. Of course, I want the same thing for myself. With that, I check our clothes every month so to make sure that if there is any clothes that I do not find good to wear would be placed into our storage room and not be used by my partner or kids anymore.

I do not have the right to judge but I am still hoping that through this article those selfish partners who only care for theirselves would realize something. It is nice to take good care of your family and see that they are happy.

This does not mean though that loving and taking care of our family is expensive. It needs not to be.

Date Published: February 1, 2022

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I hope this makes sense. I love to see families walking together so neat and presentable though I cannot blame those who cannot afford to buy decent clothes because there are more important stuffs to attend to.

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