Different Forms of Cheating

If you noticed whenever there is any movie or show that includes cheating it would then become very trending especially when the wife is more of a fighter than the mistress. Why?

Let me share to you some story.

I spoke with my previous colleagues who's been married for like about 13-20 years and I asked them if their husband ever cheated on them?

My colleagues answered made me shiver. She said YES. Then added, a man is born as polygamous, if you take a look at the history even those of our Gods and Goddesses, men would usually have a lot of women. She believes that in a relationship there would always come to a point when one would cheat but it is seldom that a woman would do so, mostly it is the man.

It is much painful to realize that but despite all these things happening though to keep the relationship intact one must be strong enough and be willing to forgive then forget. But if you are that woman, would you be able to forget? A man cheating has become a norm but a woman cheating? A lot of people would start to judge and mock her. It is hard to decipher but this is the sad truth.

There are different forms of cheating that you might not have noticed.

🚨Flirting

Yes! Flirting is already a form of cheating because it promotes a feeling to the other party that you actually like him or her and when it would feel mutual then starts an affair.

🚨Watching Pornographic Videos/Pictures

Human has these sexual fantasy but doing this is already a form of cheating. Imagining that someone is with you who is not your wife or husband.

🚨Paying Prostitutes

Even when there is no strings attached but knowing that one would have an intercourse towards opposite sex by paying the other still it is a form of cheating.

🚨 Engaging with Opposite Sex

This one's when there is already mutual understanding between two parties. When there's already an affair while the wife or husband is blind.

🚨 Fantasizing about other Women

You fantasizing your neighbor, your friend or anyone you know despite having a partner is already a form of cheating.

...end thoughts...

I watched a certain movie before and there is this part of the movie that says humans are the most pitiful being. Because we tend to experience all the painful and miseries of life.

Human will experiencing losing someone be it in a form of death or by just falling apart. We also experience being betrayed and we have a never ending day to day problems.

I somehow believe this, sometimes being human is really a burden. It would feel like there is a heavy cross on me but I have to get going.

Also, someone told me that in a long term relationship who looks strong one of them is the one holding tight.

And to this day, I have come to realize how true it is.

I woke up today on the wrong side of the bed and I felt like writing this article. I hope and pray that everyone gets to have their own peace.