There must be someone in your life to fight for
What we experience in some stages of our life distances us from society and people. We turn to ourselves and put a distance from everyone and everything. We try to forget the experiences and to treat ourselves the wounds that have been opened in our souls.
We heal some wounds, but some get infected and become chronic. Of course, it's not the physical wounds I'm talking about; psychic wounds. You can say that mental wounds are infected, but they do and become chronic. Man is a social creature, being a member of a society keeps him healthy in every way. If we cannot adjust the dose during the purification process, staying away from people will make every wound we receive from those people chronic and infect. Chronic loneliness. Here is such a situation.
We humans are much happier when we become heroes in the lives of others. We don't say it, but we are. A mother is a hero in the lives of her children, lovers are the heroes of each other's lives, you are the hero of the life of every friend you call. We could write pages of these heroics.
These people and these heroisms connect us to life, of course, our existence is loaded with meaning for other people in our lives.
The biggest problem of the extremely chronically lonely people is that they have trouble getting someone or something into their lives. Over time, you forget how to communicate with other people, how to be a friend, lover, friend in an unmanned life. Loneliness evolves into a strange tale of selfishness. After a while, it starts to poison you. This poisoning manifests itself in slow stages. Every day, every moment, in a split second, minute, hour, in small doses, it poisons your mind and body. It is so difficult to realize that, when you realize it, it will be too late.
Yes, there must be someone in one's life.
Although you tend to act with the slogan of less people, more peace, there must be someone who will be your hero, your hero. A spouse, lover, children, friends, family members. They are the most organic and spiritual ties that bind us to life. When we are free of it all, we fall out of the strange web of the universe, become disconnected and become dead neurons. We are labeled as dysfunctional. After this point, we can never get rid of burnout anymore.
Take care of your life. If you get used to being alone too much, you realize that there is no such thing as life anymore, that the monotony is slowly gnawing and consuming you with its sharp teeth. This monotony cuts off all your life ties one by one, giving you the hallucination that it will be very good for you. This is the biggest lie that man creates for himself.
The people you can entrust your life to, who can entrust their lives to you, are actually our greatest bonds with life, karma and the universe.
I will agree with you my friend. I guess, we should really have someone to lean on. May it a family member or someone serve as your lifetime partner. He/she should be that someone where you can share your problems or someone that who can be with you through ups and downs..