Your mid 20s to early 30s have got to be the most exhausting age of your life.
You’re trying so hard to prove yourself in everything!
Education,
Career,
Relationships,
Starting a family,
Whatever it is you’re trying to achieve,
You’re killing yourself for it.
And you need to understand,
That it’s okay if for one day,
You’re a bad friend,
Or a clumsy employee,
Or a dramatic partner,
Or a lazy son/daughter,
Or a horrible student,
Because as a human being,
There’s no way in hell you can excel in all that everyday.
And for perfectionists like myself,
This is torture.
But you know what’s an even worse torture?
Not patting yourself on the shoulder,
For all the other days you manage to juggle all that like a pro.
Not seeing how outstanding you are,
How extraordinary,
For trying your very best every single day,
And shining a little more by the second.
Some of us are not appreciating the things they have and some of us are still praying with patience for the things everyone around them already have.Some are constantly facing bad days but still hoping for best while some are having happy days but getting used to want more and more.
Some are loving a few sweet memories they have had while some are making new mesmerizing memories everyday but still considering life unfair .Some of us occasionally have what they wish and feel blessed while some always have what they wish ,yet complaining existence is painful.
It's all matter of your inner contentment.If you set your happiness goals low ,you remain happy in any situation.Contrary to it your soul could never be satisfied if you keep on increasing your desires day by day. A time would come when you would be exhausted and would have breakdown that would bring constant gloominess .Avoid that and be thankful for the blessings of Almighty .Pray for the things you need badly along with appreciating the things you already have.
❤Love yourself
Never be ashamed of yourself . Never try to fulfill the standards of others. Never change your originality in pursing others and for gaining love from others that never meant for you . Never play game to yourself.
Always accept yourself.Always adore yourself as much as you can . The one who really love you will never leaves you ; they will accept you with whatever you are .
Never take the trouble to pretend and never create complications.
Accept yourself as the way you are , never run from yourself because you can’t no longer pretend what you are not . Be original and real that’s your power . Never chase something that never meant to be yours . Beauty lies in your soul . Just believe in yourself and accept your flaws and love yourself .
That’s enough for you .