Can we all be equals? **How often does your day start badly and end very great?** I went into the new week with so much determination and strength but things didn't go as planned from the beginning on Monday morning but it end great. It is not a usual thing for me to turn the table from the bad to the good side with has to do with mood because I find it a bit hard to handle mood swings, it started with no electricity and my power generator refused to come up. I called the engineer who didn't show up because he was busy so I just did other things in the house.
Immediately power was restored in the afternoon, I went to do the fish sorting I mentioned on Sunday night in my post on noise cash. It started with washing the pond, my brother also came around later to support me.
It would have been more stressful if he didn't show but I am glad he did, we went into the proper deal after washing the three ponds. While moving the big fishes from the black pond to the white pond since I needed a bigger space for the small fishes.
I noticed this small fish among them and I observed that it didn't grow.
Due to its stunt growth, it is difficult for it to feed among the big fishes because it doesn't match the other fishes in body size or strength. I took the fish out not knowing what to do with it because even some of the new fishes have outgrown an over four-month fish.
While looking at it, I started having various thoughts about life because this same thing happens among humans. The first thing that comes to people's minds talking about equality is gender, people get wild with the conversation but that's not the case here. ***Let look at it from this angle, were the people you were born with on the same day or year on the same level with you?*** I am considering the differences based on the physical, mental, financial, and any other aspect you can think about. The truth is "no", we can never be equal in life. Even identical twins that share the same umbilical cord don't grow at the same pace in life because we end up having different views and approach to life which eventually give different results. Planting two seeds at the same time doesn't mean that they will both grow at the same time or bear fruit at the same time and some wouldn't even grow at all. **These differences occur as a result of different reasons.** One is natural, it happens naturally because we can't control the growth and the other differences are caused by us. The things we did and failed to do made us different from others and it doesn't necessarily have to be bad, the differences can also be a good one for us. Being a victim of smaller growth doesn't make you any less than a human and you shouldn't see yourself doing badly but you have to be sure you are doing your best effort in life, that's the only thing that will justify your growth. Your growth shouldn't stop you from pursuing bigger dreams, it might be slow but it would be possible if you put your mind to it. Don't let your negative thought hold you down, you can always do better than your growth rate. It feels great knowing that you are doing better in life and these sometimes get into the head of people, it makes them misbehave badly. For no reason should you be a bully to people you are better than because we don't know what tomorrow has in store for? No growth is too big in life and for that reason you should keep moving.
While sorting, the rain started and we had no choice but to stay in it just to ensure that the task was completed.
Despite the rain, we were able to separate the big ones from the small ones and we got cold and aches at the end. I had to say behind until 9pm to feed them and also ensure they were okay after the sorting. I still feel the impact of the work on my hand muscles but it would be gone soon. I hope you guys had a less stressful day than mine? I am sorry I haven't been very engaging here, I wish you guys would know how I feel. Thanks for understanding
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Well we all can't be equal because even life itself is not equal May God just count us among people who are growing in everything in life
We can't outrun destiny, we just need the grace to grow in every area of our live.
Yeah that's true
I think I can't make that job. It's too tough. Just the sorting alone. You are really hardworking George
After this batch, I will get an apprentice. Someone I will train and set up the business for the apprentice as well because that's the purpose of the project.
Everyone can't be the same, it's a kind of what makes some of us unique
It beats down to our uniqueness as an individual.
You're right, some people were brought of the same I was but some are still struggling to fit in now and we all are aiming for different things
You are right, having the same upbringing doesn't guarantee that we will both have the same life.
Just like i said in my article this morning that two people can never have the same behavior. We are equal and we can't expect us to act the same way. If we do not grow at the same time, it may be due to some factors either in nutrient, lack of finance and some others but we should understand that our time is different. We would grow at our own pace. I think this fish business is so tedious? Sorry about the pains
Not painful, I just get stress at little thing but I am good. We have differences that makes our growth rate different but that shouldn't stop us from growing according to the resources we have.
We understand the reasons for your absence. You don't need to apologise. Great lesson from the growth of those fishes. Lot of things to learn.
Thanks for understanding man, it seem I am back to life already.
Physique, temperament, behavior, weight, height can always differ, this is not only true for fish or other animals, but also for humans.
We share lots of things with the animal kingdom, some are very stronger than us but we are wise and that's what's make us different from some so we shouldn't be surprised when we see them exhibit traits like human.
We are born with differences from each other. If we were born equal, we cannot see the meaning of life. We may all not be equal but we are unique. Each of us is one of a kind. There's no need to worry about having the same level as the others. If you think you're at the lowest level, lift yourself.
That's awesome, I mistakenly tipped you before reading your comment but I didn't regret it because your comment is awesome. If we ain't satisfied with where we are, we should move forward ourselves.
Thank you very much 💜
We may differ in each other nor not equal as we are living here on earth. Though one thing I am sure of, our worth is equal to our God
Yeah, we are all one in the sight of God. Our differences ends here on earth except for how we have walked in his presence while on earth.
That's a very big fish o. You sure know how to feed them well enh. See how huge that one is. I am glad you got help with your brother showing up. I've always been worried how you get to do all that without help. Well done, brother.
Thanks man, it is not easy doing it alone going from one pond to another. His help did a lot because I could have gotten more tired than I am.
Absolutely. Three gbosas for him.
Keeping fish and then caring them in this way not possible for most of us. You did a splineded job , cleaning the pond , separate bigger from smaller , rearrange the category and lot . Our lord create us each and everyone with specific capabilities and potential . We can't be equal because if it happens this world will be disastrous.
We have all been created to be different and sometimes we can't change what has been destined.
I believe we can be equals, no matter of shape, size, race, or whatever :) Glad that you were able to separate the fishes according to their specs :) Fishery seems fun although I don't really like the smell of fish hehe