During the early age of babyhood that we first develop from our parent from the very first day we come into life, as the sexual self constantly changing at early puberty, we develop unusual feelings towards others we started to get intimate with the opposite of our gender and this is also the stage where we have people we admire. We are naturally curious about everything especially when it comes to our self we become experimental on our feelings most of the people who are in junior high school have their crushes and we tend to have a different approach towards the person that we admire some of us become shy around them or even become clumsy this is because of the sudden butterflies feeling in our stomach when we are around of someone that we like.
Attachment, attraction, and love may be a good indicator of what kinds of relationships we tend to get into. Together with the movies and novels that we encounter which gives us an idea about entering into a relationship we gain insight into what we want in a relationship. We build our expectations like in the fairytale-like which always have the happily ever after but every human being on this planet will disappoint you because they cannot fulfill the unrealistic expectation that we had. Learning these three core of sexual self-development provides us further insight into ourselves and making a relationship with others. We had different experiences in each of these three, some of us maybe once or thrice had been into a relationship but this kind of relationship that we had at this age are cannot be compared to the relationship of the adult this is why we always end up of trying to find others.
Founding a relationship is not just about the similarity of your traits or experiences, or the or just because you like each other and to fulfill each other desires this is more about freedom in a relationship to build their dreams together, defining each other to be the best version of each other and felt at home to your partners’ comfort. The heart alone is not enough to define who we are it needs brains guidance in all, this topic reminds us that it is not about the experiences that we use but also the importance of the knowledge that we can gain to understand every little aspect of our feelings that we build toward socializing with others.
