I have a brother who got married after living with his girlfriend for how many years. They had civil wedding. That's the first time that we met my sister in laws family but my dad go to their province with my brother to ask for their daughters hand and blessing.
We really don't like her. My brother cried on my mom because he really want to marry her. He said he loves her and we can't do anything about it. That he'll marry her no matter what happens.
Don't judge us. That time the girl is already pregnant but the baby is not from my brother. That baby was from her ex boyfriend. The girl cried so much when we confront her. I hugged her and said"Don't cry. It's not good for the baby". I love babies that's why I don't wanna see her crying. It might affect th baby.
The girl went back to her home town and my brother followed her. He really loves her. Then we accepted her. My brother loves him and all we can do is support his decision. Who are we to stop him right?
After few months she gave birth to a healthy baby girl. She's so cute. We treated her like that our own blood. My family and her family knows about it.
They decided to stay at my sister in laws home town. They built a house there and start a small business piggery. My family invested on it by buying piglets and my brother will take care of them. I don't know how are they going to divide the income. At first, it seems like he's fine living there with my sister in laws family as their neighbor.
Then he had job there as a construction worker. We thought that everything was fine since he didn't say anything on us. My family didn't get their investment from that piggery but we didn't complain. Then we found out that my brother is working in another town. After that he went to the city.
My sister in law continue her studies. My brother sometimes visit them. Then they had a baby boy. He is so handsome. I'm sure he's from my brother but who cares if he's not right? It's okay since he was a baby. We love them.
My brother still continue working in the city. Then we found out that my sister in law think that he's having an affair. Together with the kids they had a vacation on us. I told her that "If you think that he's having an affair, why don't you stay here with him? If he can't afford to buy you meats then eat vegetables. Teach your kids to appreciate vegetables and also we're here if you can't feed them. We'll help you." But she still insisted to go back to their home town because that's what her mother want.
While with us, we found out that their daughter whose already six year old doesn't know how to read. We're surprised because she's already six but doesn't know how to read? Our nephews and nieces know how to read when they're four years old. That's why I ask my teacher sister to teach her. But she's crying everytime my sister tried to teach her.
Then I and my sister in law had a talk about it. I asked her "why did you let her to be like that?". She just told me "The kid will be pressure and she really cries everytime I tried to teach her. She's my child that's why I know her strength and weakness. Also in our home town you can enter grade school even if you're not good at reading." That's when I stopped because it's her daughter.
Then, she goes back to her hometown with their kids. She worked their. But it didn't stop her thoughts that my brother was having an affair. She checked my brothers facebook account and she found out that my brother still exchanging messages in his ex. The girl even sent her picture in my brothers messenger.
My sister in law was bothered by that. I told her live with her husband in the city but her mother won't allow it. So she escaped with her kids. But it's already too late my brother doesn't want her anymore.
My brother and I even fight because of this. We didn't talked. He keep on saying, you don't know my story. Even if I keep asking him about the kids, he really doesn't want to go back to his wife anymore.
What can I do? I want the kids to have a complete family. Why does the kids have to experience this pain? Why them? I grew up in a complete happy family that's why I don't know what happened to my brother. All I can do now is pray for him to come back to his family.
