"What you allow will continue"

I feel tired after i washed our laundry today, and i wanted to have a little rest while my son was sleeping.

When suddenly our neighbor that was currently living in the first floor makes some noise that makes my son awake. I slowly swing my sons hammock so he can turn back to sleep.

The noise was made by their seven years old son. Seems like he was running around the house and then he drag something. I wasn't sure if it's a chair or his toy's and it makes a rumble sounds.

They used to drag something that cause rumble, and that was actually disturbing.

There were times that even it's already late at night they are still making some noise. I wasn't really sure what's there up to, for doing such actions. Seems like they are not aware and they don't care, that they disturb their neighbors who was living underground.

There were times that their sixteen years old son, invited some friends foro sleep over and the whole night they were alive and wide awake. We hear them talking and laughing.

Of course it's not possible that we can hear them, because we're just in the ground floor and they talked so loud. They are such a disturbing neighbor. Not just to us, but also to our other neighbors too. But I don't know, none of our neighbors try to complain.

I actually complain once, because I really can't tolerate the noise that time, so annoying. Specially if you were tired and you wanted to rest but you can't because your son is having some tantrums.

It was afternoon when my son wanted to sleep but he really can't because their son and it's playmates are keep on running around the whole house. Maybe they are playing hide and seek.

My sons starting to have tantrums because he was too sleepy but the noise disturbing him. So i went outside and try to talk the neighbor.

I saw our neighbor at their balcony, and since she was upstairs, I just call her and tell her to please let her son stop from making noise because my son can't go to sleep. I wasn't yet finish talking, but she already turned her back from me and scolded his son. I was like"okay thank you"!

And then one of our neighbors said, "good you talk to them as they are also disturbing my grand child because of their noise", I just didn't say anything as my partner always reminded me, to not to trust them as well, as they are also can't be trusted. I just smiled and hurry back to my son.

I thought they already realize that they are disturbing their neighbors and the noise won't be happen again. But at my dismay, it become worsen.

The parents just tolerate their kids for doing such noise. I was a bit annoyed for their actions as they know that they have a neighbor's.

See? I told you? They won't stop, instead they will continue and worsen. My partner said.

I don't want any trouble and I'm not being a war freak. All i want is some respects and considerations as they know that we have a baby.

If we won't do anything and just tolerate their actions, it will continue.

My partner and I starting to argue again. (Sight)

Today I complain again, and our neighbor just scolded her son again and I hear her murmuring, but I can't hear it clearly.

Was it wrong if I complain because I wanted some peace and considerations?

I hope they can realize how disturbing they are. Otherwise I will see them in our barangay.

I can't tolerate wrong actions. What you allow will continue!

Closing thoughts:

For me it is not wrong if you won't tolerate your neighbors wrong doing. Don't just let them continue what they think was right.

Specially if they are already disturbing everyone in your neighborhood.

All of us wants some peace, respect and consideration.

Don't allow anyone to disrespect you.

Don't let them continue their wrongful action.

If you won't speak out, you can't be heard.

Remember that what you allow will continue.

These would be my last article, for this month of September.

❤️ Thank you for reading ❤️

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Written by yours truly;

GarrethGrey07

September 30 21:05