@Gaftekloriginal
We are closer than each other.
I was talking to my childhood friend, I can call her my baby cos we are closer like no other. She is my very good friend right from small, I met her when I was in primary 2 and my age then should be that 5 or so, I can't really remember. Although after some years, we lost contact due to advancement in our school level, I had to attend a different secondary from her and blah blah like that. So after many years, we met again and we were both happy to see each other. We exchange contact and that's how we got back to our old friendship ways. A day in a week won't pass without seeing her but at some point, I couldn't see her again but we do chat on WhatsApp and messenger. There are days she comes to my place to greet me and I also do the same for her. My mom knew her very well cos my mom was her teacher during her primary school days. That was what even make the bond stronger cos my mom knew her and she is free with her. Why all this my rant; I didn't mean to tell you about anyone being my friend or tell you about her in person but I am trying to explain something. The fact that we are close doesn't mean I didn't have other friends or she doesn't have another friend. We both have other friends and we are also closer to them but on a different level. I have coursemates that are my friend but I have some people I am closer to than the others. There are some people I will only greet and after that, it has finished and there are some people I will greet and still play with and that's all. There are also some people I will greet, play, and eat together with and that's all and there are some I will greet, play with, eat and have some close conversation with and it wouldn't stop there. I will even move around with them, chat and do all sorts of things together. All of them are my friends but we are closer to each other than the others and that's what I am trying to say. The way I will talk to HappyBoy will be different from the way I will talk to Olasquare and the way I will talk to Princessbusayo is different from the way I will talk to Tomi- Ajax. It's not because we aren't friends, we are friends but we are closer to each other than the other. Back to yesterday; So we were talking over the phone and she asked about my friend whom she met through me and I said he is fine, he is always asking of her too. They live closer to each other, just a street beside each other but my friend can't just go there to greet her, why? They only met for some weeks when I do meet her very well at her grandma's shop then. They didn't really converse but they knew each other and will always say Hi and ask after each other. And after those weeks, they haven't met more than twice and they don't even have each other contact and that's because they are just casual friends. So she was telling me that if I was the one living closer to her house, she would have come visit every day and also spend more time with me. And I also said yes and that I would be spending most of my time at her place because our friendship isn't casual, it is a friendship of a long time and years. We aren't casual, it's more like a brother and sister friendship. In conclusion; You have that particular friend that's closer to you than the others. We can't have all our friends closer with the same level of intimacy. Thank you for reading, God bless us all. Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.
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There are some we categorize as acquaintance, while some are friends that are closer or not to us. I have friends I am so close to and there are some that aren't in that level with me. It's a matter of finding someone you can click with and your bonds would be worth it.
Yes, you are right dear. Some people will just fill that space of closeness.
I remember my close when I was a kid my friend. I missed her a lot. Now we didn't meet because we are busy with our own lives.
That's what life can do, life is good at separating loved ones.
Yes my friend it's life. It's part in our life. There are some situations like that.
That's true. Sometimes there's that friend who's closer then a brother. That's why they always say that one should always marry their best friend. Even though the money never comes, the love would always be there and their marriage would be a role model to other richer couples
Yes, I wish I can marry this one oooo cos she get bf ooo😅😅😅
Has her dowry been paid? No! Bro, she's snatch-able. Go guy!🤣
😅😅😅😅you sha want to put my hand in fire
Yhhhh I have one friend who is closer to me than other ones. I think everyone has that kind of friend
Everyone does have that particular friend.
Of course... Just say Levi... Why you come dey dance around in circles? 😂😂🤣😂
He's my close friend too
We know already 😂.
Wahala 😅😅😅, exactly my mind ooo
Don't mind her...she wan dey cut corners for us.
Omo ogbon😅😅😅
🤣🤣😂🤣😂
It is really a joy when school life friends suddenly meet. I also met such a friend with whom I studied till 5th standard.
Yes, the joy is entirely different.
For sure, there are friends that we enjoy their bonding more than anything. The free access to each other is unlimited. With the way you started this narration, I thought something good would end it, or there's something you're not telling us? Lol🤗
😅😅😅😅good ending like we now started dating abi, yeye. She even come my side today.
It's a good link up... She recently came into the picture and it's natural to connect more as you find new things to talk about and even find a common ground to unite you both. You are right, we can all be friends but some would always be closer to one than the other. It's natural.
Yes, we all have that particular person that is close to us.
Absolutely...that's just life.