We have given an a portion of ourselves to image that we are suppose to give to our realities and it is misleading our lifestyle. Our head holds a larger portion of who we are not because we give our thoughts what to think about. Therefore if we put too much of image in our thoughts, we become an imposter and we start living in the shadow of who we are not because the image will paint it so.
Sometimes we give to others what was painted and not the reality we imbibed, so its more of like we are selling our fakeness to reality which cannot sustain balance in every field of life so in this article called 'mentality', I want to expose some loop holes where our mentality has made us loose something great because we imagine ourselves in a certain kind of ways...
MARRIAGE: whatever you give to each other during courtships either sustains or destroys the home. Because of how much we desire a happy home, we do all sort of things to make it happen, even presenting the image as our reality and our mentality for vagueness. So if what we give is not cleared and its duly absorbed, it becomes a threat to the home tomorrow. It becomes so late cos your reality has been pressed down to be surpassed by the image leaving u different. And our mentality to achieving the preset goals is failing because we didn't get what we bargained. If we don't change our mentality, the reality will change some very important aspects of our lives and at critical times.
WORKPLACE: There is a very typical mentality running through every mind of staff, that if one person don't go down, no one climbed and it is by that, that growing is duly achieved. Wrong!!! We don't need to be evil minded to the boss because of position or title.. Life does not have a permanent seat for anyone and as simple as that sound, life will always do the permutation according to what the time express... Time will not give you what you don't deserve, If you fail in something you were better at, is because time has instigated a failure to prove that there are other greatest power than self. If you put self first before anything, time will give you a name that depicts the product of self and then, your mentality become so exposed to what your mind devotes to.. Change your mentality cos even if you bring everyone down, life will still keep you where you belong when the time comes.
There are more to be written about mentality, that has kept man in tight situation and position in life. If you have a loose mentality, then you will produce an ill result. Let your mentality give you the name you were made to have. Leave him and sell your reality cos life is all about REALITIES.