There are many things we can be proud of as Filipinos. Pinoy Pride ika nga. However, we also have things to be ashamed of. Let us not look away. Let us admit that there are times when we do not even notice ourselves. Come to think of it, we are the representatives of all Filipinos in the people we meet.
Here are some of the Filipino habits that we should not be proud of and that we should change.
1. Crab Brain or Crab Mentality
A person is called a brain crab when he wants to rise in life but by pulling others down. In short, Filipinos do not want to be overpowered. This can be seen in some people who because of envy or jealousy destroy others or sympathize with sin.
2. Ningas Kugon
Ningas kugon means that at first a person is enthusiastic, beautiful or good at a task. Eventually he could not continue it or he could not finish it. Just think that this is your coworker at first bibo then when it lasts, just words.
3. Filipino Time
This is one of the worst diseases of the Filipinos. The so-called Filipino Time means being out of time or late. Suppose, when Filipino Time is said, it is 30 minutes or more late in real time. Therefore, in Philippine festivals, it is noticeable that the invitation time is 30 minutes to an hour in advance to definitely start at the desired time.
4. The "It's up to you" or "Later."
This is the habit of the Filipinos where laziness comes out. It can mean that the Filipinos really believe in the ultimate power of God's guidance but it can also mean that the Filipinos can easily give up or give up easily. Another version of it is "It's up to Batman."
5. Colonial Mentality
This means enjoying patronage. This attitude was acquired by the Filipinos from the foreign occupiers of the Philippines. It will be noticed that we usually think less of ourselves than things from other countries. It is slowly changing now and hopefully we will continue to enjoy ourselves.
6. Non-compliance with the policy.
I don't know if it's because the Filipinos are just stubborn or really lack of discipline? This can be noticed in the daily movements of people on the road. This is probably the cause of the traffic problem in the Philippines. Whether people are walking or driving, there are always reprimands.
9. Balat Sibuyas
Like a thin-skinned onion, when a person is said to have onion skin, he or she is sensitive to negative comments. We are happy when we hear praise but different talk when criticism is heard. It is easy for Filipinos to personalize criticisms or negative comments even for the good.
8. Corruption
One result is the corruption of gratitude habits and the Godfather system. In gratitude, we may favor those we owe more to than those who are more deserving. Likewise in the Padrino system, favor, promotion, or political office can be obtained through family relationships or friendship. If it weren't for these two, it could have been caused by the habit of giving "status" to get what you want.
9. Double Standards
Most Filipinos are aware of a society that favors men. The treatment of women and men is quite different. If you remember Pantene's commercial about Double standards, Boss is the name of the man who is good at work but Bossy is the name of the man when he is a woman. The description of men is always positive but different when it comes to women, it is a bit negative.
10. Always have a Party
Filipinos love to party. It was also one of the influences of those who occupied the Filipinos then. Every parish or town has a festival where everyone is preparing. Many have become accustomed to it. Here you can see that Filipinos are really satisfied but you can also see the luxury and popularity here. Some are already struggling, still borrowing just to prepare, whether for a festival or birthdays.
Let us recognize and accept that we have bad habits. We need courage and understanding to do this. It is really difficult but it is not impossible to change for the betterment of all Filipinos.
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