Don't put the key to happiness in the hands of one person

Most of the people who are deprived of happiness, if we look into their lives, we will find that they put the key to happiness in the hands of one person, this person may be a friend, husband, wife, son or relative. This person is the reason for their happiness in life, while happiness has many ways and has many keys to being happy.

There are many destroyers of happiness that make you lose the keys to your happiness and make you sad and depressed because of it, such as having a keenness to control everything in your life, controlling your friends and controlling your relatives, husband and children, this control and love of control reduces the happiness rate in life, and the other thing that expels happiness from your life is to be Keen on the satisfaction of all people and this is impossible, so you grieve if you do not achieve this goal, and the right thing is that you are keen on the satisfaction of the Lord of people and not all people, and the third thing that repels happiness is to explain events and situations in a negative way or in which there is a misconception, so you analyze things in your way and they are contrary to reality, or that you do not You see the good and the bright side in every event,

The fourth thing is that you make friends with negative and pessimistic people whose words are all criticism of reality or life. Happiness is transmitted from one person to another, negativity and pessimism are also transmitted from one person to another, and the fifth thing is to make all your time and your concern in one thing such as collecting money, this saddens you and worries you and does not make you enjoy your life and live happy Happiness is that you distribute your time and schedule with several work and activities in which there is a commercial aspect, a health aspect, a faith aspect, a fourth sports, a fifth social family, a sixth entertainment, and a seventh special time for you, and thus you will be happy. Make sure that everything that enters your mind, your eyes see, and your ear hears contributes to your happiness, and the eighth thing is not to be addicted to social networks. Make you happy, the most important decision you should take to be happy is not to open your phone every minute, and leave yourself the opportunity to sit with yourself, talk to yourself, meditate, reflect, and read. These things, even if they are simple, are among the secrets of psychological happiness.

The ninth thing is to do charitable or voluntary work, for helping others makes you live happy, and seeing the smile in the faces of those you were the reason for his smile makes you happy and satisfied with yourself. For one person, just as the concept of happiness varies according to the stages of life, what makes a child happy is different from what makes a young person happy, and what makes a young person happy is different from what makes an old person happy, and what makes a woman happy is not necessarily a man,

In order to be happy, you must design your life in your own way, and the key to happiness is not to be in the hands of one person, but to have several keys to happiness and not one key. One of the keys was not a reason for your happiness, and perhaps the most important thing to ensure your lasting happiness in this world and the hereafter is to make the biggest key you have with God Almighty

Success does not bring happiness, but happiness brings success, so love what you do and you will succeed