Always find something good in yourself.
What a strange game Waller has in this world - he who can lift a sack of rice cannot buy it and he who can buy it cannot lift it. Those who speak bitterly, not sweetly, are your true friends. History has shown that salt has not caught insects till today !! The best way to succeed in life is to follow the advice we give to others. And it's very deep so understand it well-
Obstacles come only for the living. Because everyone leaves the road for the dead. Think so much that the work is done. Don't do so much again that life ends. Be prepared to hurt yourself after hurting someone. Because you will get back exactly as you did !!
Always find something good in yourself. Because the people around you are enough to make you feel bad. If you have to go, then go to the front. Because there are thousands of people to pull back. It sounds bad, but it's true - Many people drop out of school due to lack of money, give up their dreams but no one has ever given up cigarettes, gaza, alcohol !!
Better a poor horse than no horse at all. It will give you peace. Stay calm all the time. You will find yourself much stronger in life. Because- iron becomes harder when it is cold, it can be shaped as it is when it is hot. The man who lost his life said many beautiful things-
How beautiful it was when I was young - then life was a toy and today life has become a toy. The one who has the ability to make too many losses can gain more. Be it in business or in any relationship !! It is not that grief has increased today. Only the endurance has decreased and the one who has learned to endure has learned to survive properly.
Someone rightly said - at what age I will earn and at what age I will study, it is not you who will fix the situation. You can't hold someone back by crying, you can't forget someone after losing again. Everyone gets time to change lives. But life cannot be found to change time.
(So please don't west your time) !! The patience of some people is his silence. Although he has a lot to say but even after that they remain silent. Because they don't want to quarrel with the people they love. Silence is a beautiful habit, when you are with bad people. Being silent also says a lot about your grief, anger, stubbornness and gratitude. Relationships cannot be shown or observed whether he is far away or close !!
The reason many relationships are ruined is that one cannot speak correctly and the other cannot understand correctly. No matter how beautiful the purpose is - people will judge by looking at you outside and no matter how beautiful you are outside, people will judge by looking at your purpose !!
The world only asks him - who is already good. Otherwise, the mobile number of the person who is in trouble is lost. Don't be angry if someone hurts you because - it's a law of nature - the sweeter the fruit of the tree, the more stones are thrown at it. Never hurt anyone's mind because even after apologizing, his mind still hurts. (E.g. marks remain after removing nails from wall)
People never forget the two looks -
(one- that was with you in your bad times. The other- that left your company in bad times) You are not the one who comes to you after crying. You are the one who will not let you cry !! Try not to let anyone else hurt you because you have suffered. Be it relationship, happiness or peace !!
When you go through a bad time in your life, a good thing happens in your life - you can finally recognize the people who told you that he cares a lot about you. When life gives us something, it doesn't count. When it takes it back, please don't.
God says- don't ask me to pray for your happiness by hurting someone but if you make someone happy then don't worry about your own suffering !! It takes love, not a gift, to take its place. The one who truly loves you will not want anything from you !! Thanks!
Woe to the soul
Even if you don't curse, there is a saying "Woe to the soul", which is called "Revenge of Nature". In the language of the Qur'an which is called "Kifarah". This is mentioned several times in the Qur'an. Which we have to believe. We may not always realize that we are being punished for doing the right thing We forget unknowingly by hurting someone, by crying someone, by talking to someone, but we don't forget nature,
Nature does not forgive. "A man thinks you're fine with suffering! Wrong it is, no one can ever be good at crying. Do you know the reason? Because in the heat of your every breath, it will burn to ashes. Either way, not the other way around. "
Even the one you are dealing with unjustly at the moment may not protest, but alas for the soul that has come out of that ordeal and will make an understanding with you at the right time. Believe me, duplicity never brings good results! Today you are harassing others by seizing the land, but tomorrow this land will sit on you and you will see your own harassment through the good exchange of Allah!
Even if you want to explain to someone, just explain, you don't have the right to cut the stain on their heart. Use the best of any relationship to have time, let someone get another cheek if someone slaps you, your inner soul but knows how you are so purify yourself.
Never make a hole for others, if the writing of destiny is reversed, your abusive life will change but it will change! So be careful, prioritize time ... Because the Creator does not deceive anyone, he is not alone. Duas are never wasted-Call upon your lord humbly & in secret (Al Quran 7:55)
Thank you, I loved your words, that's what I always try to do, find something good in myself