Long Distance Relationship
Have you been in a Long Distance Relationship? What was your secret to remain close to your love ones even you are far from each other? What is your main ingredient in order to make your relationship last forever .
Well, Before i answer those questions just let me first explain what is LDR means .
LDR-Long Distance Relationship is what we called Distance Communication because of Geographic Distance between you and your partner ,but the connection was still there .
Is it Really Hard when you are in a LDR ?For me :Yes it is really hard because of the distance between the two parties. When you need somebody to lean on especially if you have a problem ,that you need her/his comfort ,but it's impossible because of the Distance .When you need somebody to be with you in your especial event ,but it's not possible again ,because of the distance .
When you are in a LDR make sure that you are strong enough to face the challenges alone .Why ? Because the one you are expecting can't be there with you .And again it's because the distance between you two. One more thing and really hard in a LDR was the truth that you need to take care of yourself even if you have sick ,because he can't take care of you .
If you need shoulder to cry ,if you want to kiss and hug Him/Her ,still impossible because of the distance between you two.You both can't accompanied each other because of the distance that separates you. But .....Despite of how really hard being in a LDR there are many relationship that last .Why ? Because they choose to fight and believe that someday ,somehow they can be together and sleep together.
You know what is the main ingredient in a long Distance Relationship to make it last?
1.God -Let God be the center of your Relationship .Entrust everything to God .Ask His guidance for both you.
2.Trust - You need to trust your partner wholeheartedly . How can you Trust each other? Of course be transparent to each other . Don't keep secrets .And always find time to talk and communicate with your partner .
3.Communication -Be sure to prioritize your partner .Do not let Him/Her overthink .Give Him/Her an assurance that your relationship wasn't only in virtual. Make sure that you have plan that you two will be able to be together .
4.Honesty/Loyalty-Be honest to your partner weither you did wrong or something .Do not be afraid of telling your partner the truth .Be Loyal to Him/Her .Do not entartain someone that might affect your relationship .Do not let other people enter in your life especially if this people has obviously has something for you.
5.Don't get tempted- Stay away from any temptation .Always think of your partner everytime that there is someone who wants to temp you . Remember if you Love your partner always Choose her over temptation .
Why There are Failed LDR ?
Simple because the couple don't have plan to be together ! Maybe because their love is not that strong .Or they got tempted by who are near to them .Lack of communication . That's all was the possible reasons why most LDR failed .
REMEMBER This:
If you want to be together despite of the distance between you two -Learn to value your feelings .Always choose each other over and over .Do not get distracted by the distance .If you really love the person you've meet wether in facebook, or any social media platform ,have courage to fight for Him/Her .Distance doesn't really matter if you two love each other for real ! Just take my advices in order to turn your LDR to Last Distance Relationship .
Last Distance Relationship means you two already together because you fight for your love ,because you two plan to stay together and be with each other .And Last Distance means-No more long distance relationship .
I hope this simple content of mine will help those you will read it that in a LDR.
I am also Proud and loud to say that Me and My Husband was once be in that situation (LDR ),but we both plan to be together and now we are happily married for two years and counting .
Thank you Guys for reading my Content 😊❤️ God bless you all 🙏