The Voice of the Middle Child Known Always loses. Really?
He said the eldest son must have strong shoulders. He said, the youngest child must be a talented cover. So, how should the middle child play a role?
He said, the first child is most loved by the mother, the youngest child is the most loved by the father. So, whose middle child is it?
If the eldest child must be respected by his siblings and the youngest must always be loved and the older child must always lose, then what kind of sweet treatment does the middle child receive?
Sometimes I feel different myself, either the most alone or the most closed
Usually the middle child is known as a quiet and obedient child, besides being in the middle position sometimes makes you feel 'pinched', there is the success of the older brother who is the center of attention, and the parents who always pay attention to the youngest who is considered more talented.
It's better to be alone because parents are busy taking care of the eldest and the little brother who wants to be pampered
Not infrequently the middle child feels alone, because the people at home are too busy boasting the eldest and busy taking care of the youngest.
Sometimes you wonder if my parents favored me like my brother and favored me like my sister?
Middle children often feel, is he really wanted to be present in the midst of parents? Because it seems that parents are too busy thinking about the future of the older brother and busy pleasing the youngest.
If the burden of the eldest child is to be an example for his younger siblings and the youngest son must be better than his older brother, then my burden is to be both
The middle child must position himself to be able to be guided and at the same time be able to guide, meaning he has a dual role. He must obey and imitate his parents and first child, but he must also be an example for his younger siblings.
I used to be the youngest child who was loved and cherished, but everything changed when the little one came back
The middle child used to be the last child who stole the most attention, was most pampered, and loved. Not only do your parents shower you with affection, your sister also feels responsible for your life.
Everything went so perfectly, until finally…“We want to have another sister, you know…” Yes, but what can you do, you can only accept.
My older sister has more and more needs, the development of little sister always steals the attention, and I choose to be a spectator and enjoy being alone
Your sister always gets first-class facilities. While your sister always steals the attention of your parents. And you, because you are considered more mature and independent than your younger siblings, it is better to give in and obey what your parents say.
The eldest child is known as the parents' first love, the youngest is known as the family warmer, then am I just a complement?
The middle child sometimes feels inferior because the first child is often proud of, while the youngest child is always praised when he gets an achievement. The middle child is confused about what role to play and where specifically.
I already got used goods from my sister but I had to lose too
Usually the middle child gets a lot of things that are still good but have been used by his older brother, the reason is that it is too dear to throw away and it is wasteful to buy new things with the same function.
But it doesn't stop there, the middle child also has to give in when his sister wants the same thing. Be patient, middle child...
The eldest child is busy with work, the youngest child is busy lazing around. Be me who is often the target to replace all roles
Not infrequently, many middle children replace their roles as first children and parents at home. When the eldest child is busy working or is independent with his family, and the youngest child is busy with his world, again the middle child has to give in. Busy thinking about the needs of the house and both parents.
But this condition made me not to be an unstable human, even my emotions tend to be more stable
The thing that stands out from the middle child is that his emotions tend to be more stable because he has multiple roles. That's what makes him special.
Not inferior to the youngest and eldest children, I have a diligent and diligent personality
The positive thing about middle children is that they tend to be more diligent and diligent. He also has a more patient nature and can appreciate the process. He will be diligent and diligent when doing a job, not infrequently because of this nature, he often gets praise and is given a golden child. Make the middle child a daughter-in-law.
Thank you, my eldest and youngest children, thanks to your presence, I have become a strong human being and always strong to survive even though I often feel injustice
For you middle child you are great and very strong. Having a very meaningful role in the family, being able to succumb and being able to hold back anger, able to overcome the sense of injustice that is felt within, but the great thing is, you are able to endure and not hate.
