People's Responses When You Talk Mostly on Social Media
Increasingly here, social media platforms are increasingly mushrooming. All of them offer the convenience of sharing everything with your friends and other people you don't even know. It's nice again if what you share is not only interesting but also useful for others. It's not impossible that from social media you can be better known to many people, aka an impromptu celebrity, such as a celebrity or celebrity tweet.
But sometimes if you're not careful using social media or just posting it like a personal story. You must be prepared to bear the consequences. Especially if it's not the response of people you don't expect yourself to be. What kind of response will you get when you occasionally vent on social media?!
• Considered a lack of attention from friends or family, therefore looking for sympathy through complaints on social media
What is the purpose of venting on social media? Especially if it's not to get the attention of friends or people who are friends or follow your account. But if you talk too much, people can automatically analyze how your real life is. It could be that you are a person who is actually less close to the people around you such as friends or family. Didn't even get their attention. As a result, you also seek sympathy through venting on social media, which actually doesn't always succeed in attracting people's attention.
• Too much like a drama queen, as if the burden or difficulty in her life is heavier than other people
Occasionally post complaints. Sometimes also trying to look tough from the vent that smells of wisdom. But the essence of all your stories remains the same, which is to show everyone that you are the only person who has the heaviest burden or difficulty. As if your life is filled with trials and tribulations. While out there there are many people whose life is more difficult, but they choose not to indulge or complain. Rough opinion, when you are busy venting about your difficulties on social media. People out there are actually struggling to overcome or get out of all the problems that are choking their lives.
• Like most celebrities who think that their life story is important for people out there to know
Before you share your story again on social media. Try asking yourself, is this outpouring of your heart or your life story important to other people? Isn't this story of yours sometimes a disgrace to other people? While you yourself are not a celebrity whose life must be scraped by people, whether fans or haters. So it's not wrong if people easily think you're a 'celeb wanna be' or pretend to be a celebrity.
• Disturbing other people's timelines, especially if your comments are only angry or spreading hatred
Most people play social media for entertainment or just to fill their spare time. But what if that moment is actually ruined by your rant which contains a kind of anger or just spreading hatred? Isn't your story like trash that interferes with the timelines of other people who are friends or follow your personal account? Just imagine, what if that moment happened to you?
• It feels like showing off when your post is all about achievements
You also have to know, not everyone likes or is interested in the achievements you have. That is indeed something to be proud of. But you still have to sort out which achievements to share, which ones are enough to keep for yourself or only those closest to you like family. Because if you share everything, people will think that you are just showing off.
• Lack of work, because almost every time you post a rant
Logically, if you are really busy, how can you post a story almost every time. Surely posting on social media will only be once a day, not even at all. But if like you, this is the story, which can be said almost every time, even countless times a day, isn't that a lack of work? Because you don't have a lot of activities, you spend more time venting and venting. In fact, there is still much that can be done besides posting on social media.
After all, if you really like surfing or playing social media, it should be diverted to something more useful. Like maybe you can open an online business that offers something through your personal social media account. You can also explore your other hobbies, maybe like photography. At least from now on you can use social media in a good portion. Not only sharing this and that story, so that people will like your personal account.