Dua know as prayer or something ask from our god. Every Muslim should have the belief that there is no fault of Allah for not accepting our dua. That is, the fault is ours and Allah cannot be blamed for it. Apparently we may not find fault with ourselves so we think we are praying. But Allah may not be accepting the supplication on purpose.
In fact, this is not the case. Allah accepts the prayers of a non-Muslim even if he is oppressed, oppressed, oppressed. If a helpless Muslim prays there, Allah will not accept it. It cannot happen. Because, Allah's treasure is infinite. Even if you give to someone for life, it will never be empty. So, the first thing to believe is that we are incapable of pleasing Allah with dua, He is not incapable of giving to us at all.
The second mistake we make is to spread the word of our Nafl Amal to others.
Have you ever wondered who you are making this accusation against? And who are you making this accusation against? One of God's insignificant creations and another insignificant creation of man is accusing man of its owner? Subhanallah!
Another mistake is that all the other nafls, including tahajjud, are done by a Muslim only for the pleasure of Allah. And these nafls are a secret treasure. Suppose you have 10 baris of gold; Would you tell people about it? No, no one will talk about such invaluable resources. Without a fool?
Nafl is also a very secret resource for a Muslim. It is a resource that no one knows except the owner and the slave. All the people who have become saints of Allah have become the most aware of the secrecy of their nafl deeds. It's a pity that no one knows about it, but rest assured that your relationship with God is definitely different than the other 10.
[My supplication has been accepted, Alhamdulillah. There is nothing wrong with saying this. However, it is wrong to say that the dua has been accepted because I have recited Tahajjud. In this way, my secret worship is revealed. If Allah keeps someone's secret sin or secret worship secret, it should never be preached to others. ]
Thirdly, asking for something wrong: asking for a girlfriend / boyfriend, praying for a certain person to be your husband / wife Do it]
Praying for haraam earnings; All these are one and the same thing as gaining the wrath of Allah. These should be refrained from seeking. Also, seeking only worldly things rather than "Paradise" is disliked by Allah. We have to ask for both the world and the Hereafter, so that the Hereafter may prevail.
Fourth, to seek liberation from sin by persevering in sin. For example: just asking Allah without making any effort to get out of persistence in haraam relationship. Or praying to Allah for halal earning without leaving the job of earning haraam. Halal-haram is clear. If you want something halal / sacred, you have to purify yourself first. If you say, where will Rizik come from? It means you don't have faith in Allah.
[This problem is serious for those who are married and have children. In this case, the wife can be explained, for the sake of Allah, all this. Allah will pay for it. The sorrow of the world is small. You can send her to your father-in-law's house for a few days. You can fast one day after another. Business is blessed so you can start earning halal with business. It is better to keep saying, don't rush down. Take the advice of experts, understand the environmental situation, determine the place, what product, then go down in the name of Allah.
And yes, do business honestly and halal products. Do not keep it in the store because the business of haraam products is profitable. Ruji may be short at first, there may be a push.
To be continued..
Thank you.
Great one