Equal Distribution

Shahana Begum is sixty years old, she has one son and one daughter. He married his daughter three years ago, and married his son about five years ago. Shahana Begum never discriminated between a boy and a girl. He always tried to give equal opportunity to boy and girl in all matters.

Before marrying his son Tamal, many people talk about marrying his daughter Trina, but he marries the boy first, according to him, the son will marry the eldest son first, the wife will come home, how happy she will be, after the girl finishes her studies, what will the girl do? If you want to enter, you will enter, then who will marry the girl.

There is another reason behind marrying a boy, of course, is that the girl who likes Tamal, the girl's parents were anxious to marry the girl, they say the girl has to get married before finishing school, otherwise the girl is old Once done, it is difficult to find a good pot.

Shahana Begum agreed to the marriage only with the boy's choice in mind, but when she was ready for the marriage, she asked the girl to wear the ring.

-Mom, I want you to finish reading after marriage. I will take all the responsibility of your studies.

A few days after Tamal's wife Nazia became his wife, while talking to her mother-in-law about the marriage of Nanad Trina, Shahana Begum did not like it at all.

One day Nazia tells her mother-in-law

-Mom, my mother has a good ingredient in her hand, she told me to keep a picture of Trina and biodata, she will let you know if she finds a good boy.

Then Shahana Begum got upset enough and told Nazia straight away

- Listen to Nazia, who will tell Bayain, I am not thinking about Trina's marriage yet. Trina will finish her studies first, start some work, then we will think about her marriage, and Trina may have likes and dislikes about marriage.

From the time of Shahana Begum Tamal's marriage, she realized that there was more discrepancy between the people of Nazia's house and their mentality. Nazia became pregnant before she finished her studies and did not finish her studies. Nazia's parents are very happy with the news, they say, this is the right time for girls to have children, and what will happen after studying so much? Their daughter doesn't have to work anymore. Tamal's only son does a good job.

Shahana Begum is also happy with the news of the arrival of a new guest, she is caring enough about Nazia, even after that she always notices, if she gives any advice to Nazia, Nazia talks to her mother first. She doesn't like this thing. Again, he thinks his daughter will do the same? Maybe the relationship between wife and mother-in-law came in this age, why? Losing more confidence?

During Trina's wedding, the same amount of money was spent on Tamal's wedding, she also noticed that Nazia was busy with her face while shopping. While buying Trina's wedding sari, Nazia said,

-Will we give mother Trina's wedding sari? Will not come from her groom's house?

Then Shahana Begum said very annoyed. Listen Nazia, I divided the money for the wedding expenses of Tamal and Trina equally. I spent the money for Tamal's wedding. Now I am spending the money for Trina's wedding. What has the sari given to us got to do with the sari that will come from Trina's father-in-law's house? I will give their two brothers and sisters one equal to the best of my ability, then they will follow their best.

Long before the onset of today's crisis, this society has been deeply ingrained in the society of creating divisions between boys and girls according to its benefits, a way of looking at boys and girls differently. What Shahana Begum saw in her time at her father's house.

Nineteen years ago. A friend of Tamal's father came to the house one day and said that a place would be sold, adding that there was no adulteration in the place and the price was lower than the market price. Shahana Begum lived in the government quarters then.

To be continued.

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