A muslim girl's thoughts

(Note: Please don't give any other explanation for this article. My article is responsible for the rape of a woman's dress, not related. I have only highlighted the thoughts of a Muslim woman from religious values.)

One thing that catches the eye on Facebook these days is that countless women become vocal against the veil of women. I just can't support it. They may want to promote it as the development of a progressive mindset or establish themselves as feminists. (I don't mean veil, I mean modest clothing - which people of all walks of life can look at easily if they are wearing it.) A little backward backdated !!! And sad but true, women have more of this mentality than men! They call themselves ultra-modern! Progressive! Educated! Feminist! Think. Maybe they think, to cover the body of a woman, to cover the head means to completely cover the feeling / intellect / consideration of a woman !!! That is, as soon as the body is hidden, the woman will be forced to hide her freedom, education, awareness, happiness - everything! Is that really so?

A few days ago a picture went very viral on Facebook. A Muslim woman wearing a sari without a blouse, wearing a vermilion tip made a harsh remark about a woman wearing a burqa to prove herself a feminist / defendant. Many people also made many comments for and against this woman. Anyway I have no interest in him. Because there are countless women who try to prove their independence by tarnishing their own true honor! Many do so even though they are highly educated. But it is true, there is no conflict between a woman to move forward with decency. Even after a modest dress, one can reach the pinnacle of success. Of course, the interpretation of polite clothing is different for each person! It depends on the individual's point of view. I would say that there is a lot involved in a person's family education, religious values ​​or lack of religious values. From childhood onwards, the way or the environment in which he grows up, the influence of that environment and his mentality plays a role in creating a lot. Otherwise, how can a very open dress for someone be decent in his eyes, a tight dress for someone, a torn dress for someone reach the level of decency? Due to its own tastes, the pattern of taste may change! That day in the elevator of the apartment I saw a (good health) girl wearing very tight jeans and skin tight ripped three quarter jeans, and a girl aged 18/20 and an old gentleman got up from the floor. The girl is wearing a salwar kameez. Then the girl next to me, the girl in the salwar kameez, looked comfortable to me. Since you can't look in the mirror around the elevator, you can see it.

I was talking about the attitude towards clothes in general. So there are a lot of families and women who have a decent dress - which at least everyone can look at when they go out on the street later. No uncomfortable gaze will surround him. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. Those boys / men are nothing but deranged, mentally ill ..... they are poisonous insects for the society. Strict laws are needed to destroy them.

Yes, feminists can say that no one is safe, from the youngest 5-year-old to the 80-year-old. Or women covering their bodies are also being subjected to many humiliations. True but relatively low. If someone shows his body openly and thinks that no one on the street will pay special attention to him, it seems wrong (in Bangladesh). Because in the context of our country, people are not accustomed to seeing it all the time. Due to religious reasons, there is no room for such generosity of attitude (as if no one agrees) otherwise due to lack of good education, most boys / men cannot easily accept or digest it. Visual protection applies to both men and women. But women should also have a role to play in earning respect. The comparison of our country with the developed world is inconsistent here. Because the law there is much stricter and stronger. Open dress is not forbidden for their religion. Since birth, all children have no curiosity about women's bodies when they see them openly. Moreover, there is no need for anyone to do anything for the free freedom of association of men and women. But Islam is very strict in this regard. This restriction is designed to protect and honor women / to protect women from the evil eye of man.

You see, the physical constitution of a man and a woman is completely different. A man can walk on the streets at three o'clock in the night (in Bangladesh) but no matter how educated, modern, brave a woman is, why can she walk alone at three o'clock at night? No matter what is said against it, it is an absolute fact that women are not equal to men because of their physical constitution. It is also mentioned in the Qur'an. Now if someone tells me, am I not a believer in women's freedom? Of course, it must be a believer, but it must be worthy of respect and honor from others. Why in our religion women are not barred from getting education. Even Bibi Khadija (R) used to do business. So women are not tied to outside work. But it must be through the veil and decency. At the same time, men also need to change their mentality / attitude. Among them, religious values, education to respect women should be inculcated in them from a very young age. For this, a healthy, conscious environment of the family is needed first of all. Inspirational good stories / essays with emphasis on respect for women / religious values ​​/ humanity / manners, manners / ethics in schools from class one to class ten should be included in the curriculum in every class - so that a boy inculcates in the child's mind from infancy that women This does not mean just throwing obscene glances. Women mean, mother, sister, wife, daughter - everyone has people in this relationship at home. So it is everyone's moral duty to respect them.

I sincerely want women's education, awareness, respect. Let them move forward in self-glory but do not want to belittle women because they want to be equal to men or want equal rights. Equal rights can never be achieved by shouting slogans. It is not an equal right - one has to acquire one's right from one's family - society - country and for that one needs one's strong will, strong personality, being educated in the right way, intelligence and awareness. A woman has the right to be respected in all fields. For this, each section has its own responsibilities. But not supporting women's aggression, women's beauty, strength, everything is hidden in women's decency - this mentality attracts me more. You can say that it affects a lot more.

Thank you.