What a man can do a woman can do better. How true?

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4 years ago

It bothers me most times to hear people say 'what a man can do a woman can'. You can even hear them saying a woman can do better, but on what basis can this be justified, where and how can a woman do what a man can do or to think of doing better. The statement has caused a lot of misunderstandings leading to unnecessary competition with men by the women. It's baseless and unreasonable for a woman to think of being a man or trying to take the place of a man by creation. A man is not a woman and a woman can't be a man no matter how she tried to. There is something that makes a man unique which no woman can match. This is beyond physical features, but something inherent by creation.

I know many will argue what has a man done that a woman hasn't, but I can tell you no matter what side of the divide you stand it is way farther than you think. A man's mind is deeper and wider than a woman's mind so is everything between the two. This is not what anyone can do anything about but what the creator of life has done from the beginning of time. It all started at the beginning of time. The inherent ability of the deepness and wideness of the mind of a man was deployed in giving names to all the creations as soon as God hands them over to the first man. The underlying truth here is that a man thinks deeper than a woman. This is evident in our daily lives, the extent to which a man can think is unmatched by a woman. I know some would say some men can not think properly for themselves, but I tell you the truth such men haven't come to a critical point in life where critical thinking is required. Another thing to discover here is that a man is older than a woman by creation hence the ability to think deeper and know better.

Can a woman do want a man can do better, I find it hard to imagine? Men are born to be burden bearers in life. The spirit of a man is different from the spirit of a woman. What a man can bear a woman can not bear it and there is no need to compare. Born into this world, the spirit in a man urges him to start taking responsibility for meeting needs. He soon grows up to have a family, before then, he needs to find a partner that comes with additional responsibility which eventually leads to a family. Again he has to cater to inlaws and wife relatives, all of these he does without complaints. As this trend goes on he soon forgets about himself totally, he can not tell when last he wore new trousers or shoes. Meanwhile, he ensures that his wife has a new dress to wear often and his children too. Can a woman do this? Speaking at a women's conference organized by the women wing of my church on Sunday, I told them that it is baseless and meaningless for a woman to try competing with a man because she can not no matter how she tried. The shoulder of a man is built to carry a load that a woman can't, so there's no need trying to be.

Men are born givers, did I hear you say hmmm. Every man born into this world is born to be a giver irrespective of his position in life. This world revolves around giving and men are the pioneers of it. There is no man who is not a giver, every man gives daily for family needs to relatives and friends. Here some women can argue that not all men give, but that's not true. Charity they say begins at home, so every man is a giver first in his home before reaching out to others outside. If however, there are men who do not give to their households, know that such men are under the influence of a demon. Only a demon can make a man loses his sense of being. The life of a man is a life lived in giving, and this is what a man lives for.

Again I tell you the truth, the strength of a man can not be matched by a woman. This is not about psychic or bodybuilding, a man is born stronger than a woman. We are told to treat them as weaker vessels yet we hear what a man can do a woman can do better, with what strength I don't know. The only thing I know a woman can do better is talking and malice keeping. This is because the power of a woman is in her mouth. So no sensible man compete with a woman in talking because you will lose hands down.

Is there anything really that a woman can do better than a man, I doubt if any exist. Men are born leaders, is not something that they have to learn. No one teaches any man that he should take charge of his family, the leader nature in him urges him on. No matter the age once the need arises a man must act. This is the reason why a man must leave his father's house, to start his leadership adventure. We are not told that a woman has any reason to leave her father's house but we do know she will be married away to a man who left his father's house in search of a wife to lead. This is the underlying reason for the nature of leadership in the world.

Does the foregoing description in any way undermine the uniqueness of a woman? Not at all but to establish the fact that the saying 'what a man can do a woman can do better' is a statement that lacks sound footings. A woman is made uniquely to fulfill her assignment in her unique way. There is also the nature of a woman that a man can not travel and that's their strength.

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Very nice

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Men aren’t complete without women, likewise woman. Let’s speak more about love, unity and respect. What I do, my wife can do as well, likewise what she does, I can do as well. The only thing we’re incapable of doing without one another is giving birth to our offspring; in that case it becomes obvious that we’re a completion of one another. We’re one!

Thanks for that topic.

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You have a good understanding of how things work probably because you are a man

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I guess you live in a different world as I am. Men do not give where I live but take. No one says a woman or man can do the job better we say: If I can do it you can do (or learn) it too. It's not about better but about being independent, taking care of yourself. The poorer you are the better it is you can do the job yourself and save you the money, or begging and asking around. Some people can do nothing (properly) others do a fine job. They say women are better at customer service and if it comes to fine and precisely work. If that's true I'm not a woman.

I wonder why it makes you so angry. What counts is all those things you are capable off, no matter if it's better done, you can do it.

You wrote: "It borders me most times" Borders = bothers

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I wonder why he so mad about women claiming with strength, and told me that nowadays women are burden to their man. I think he lived in different era, women today have developed their backbone being independent and not relying much to their man not unless if the woman is immature.

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I assume something has happened which made him decide writing this. It's clear women are independent worldwide and even 100 years and 1000 years ago there were single women who managed quiet well. There's nothing wrong with that neither with depending on someone although I learned you cannot. Might be a difference of the culture or society we live in.

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Nothing happened my friend, it's just my inspiration and experience from counseling in my church regularly. We tried to put things the way it should be telling the women what they should know about a man, and to men what they should know about the women. There are no issues at the middle, all we preach is a balance life of respect, peace, and love.

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Experiences, observations... All things that happen and good to make visible and discuss. I am glad nothing happens to you in a bad way. May those who concern it learn from it.

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Before venting your anger, please remember the subject of the article. I only tried to debunk the statement that what a man can do a woman can do better. How about if I write about the uniqueness of a woman, won't you love to read it?

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No need, I am not venting my anger. I just raised my opinions 😆😂

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Firstly thank you for the correction. I don't know where you live in but I can tell you that there are demons in control over the men in the place where you live in, that's why alcoholism, drug abuse, rape, and divorce reign supreme in most places. We don't have idle men but lazy ones who allowed demonic spirit to influence their thinking. Any man who can not give is not worthy of living.

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I am not sure about the "not worth of living" part but agree with the lazy part (same if it comes to women).

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Yes, I agree that men have a strength that women can't have and vice versa. But men are a lonely creature deep inside, that is why God created Eve to give comfort to him and satisfy his needs, and I think men can't live without women there are some but you can only count with your hands.

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You are right that God created Eve to comfort and satisfy the man,but it doesn't seem so nowadays,rather the women are the one's needy comfort and satisfaction. Whereas they were made to be a helpmeet to the man but today most women have made themselves a burden to their men.

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Oh? I think not all. I disagree. I always read and heard about successful men are behind good woman. So is your wife a burden to you?

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Not absolutely the truth. Most men who actually gained much success are men who have nothing to do with women because women can become a distraction sometimes. I am a leader of people who counsels couples often over marital issues, so I have seen and heard it all.

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I disagree. Well, that's your opinion, I don't have to argue with you. It seems that you are saying men is a superior being that women should be bowed at because of the strength they/you acquired.

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Alright, I will write about the strength of a woman then you will know where your strength lies and how to use it properly to gain absolute control over your man. Won't that be a good read?

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Give it a try then.

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Alright wait for it.

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A man cannot procreate or make a baby that is why a woman can do better.

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Who put the seed in the woman? Life comes from a man.

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Without a woman, life can't is delivered,the pain that a woman went through giving birth is undeniable strength man can't ever have. I wonder why you can't appreciate that strength. We should not compare our strength by gender because it is improper, this is what we called gender inequality. There is no competition in the first place.

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Does the foregoing description in any way undermine the uniqueness of a woman? Not at all but to establish the fact that the saying 'what a man can do a woman can do better' is a statement that lacks sound footings. A woman is made uniquely to fulfill her assignment in her unique way. There is also the nature of a woman that a man can not travel and that's their strength. I thought you read the article to end, it seems to me that you missed the concluding paragraph.

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I read it but what bothers me is that your statement The only thing I know a woman can do better is talking and malice keeping. This is because the power of a woman is in her mouth like really? Is that how you viewed women? I think there are some like that but not all, you should indicate that on your statement so it will not sound biased.

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4 years ago

Thank you for the observation

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Not anymore. People can be cloned. 😄

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Even the cloned part is taken from a human body

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