This Life is so complex such that one man's poison is another man's food. The underlying fact about it is that what you so much love and desire to have to make life complete and fulfilling is exactly what another man hate and wouldn't want to have or be associated with so for him or her to be happy in life. It is sometimes seems very complicated to see that the very thing you are praying and dieing to get in life is exactly what another man abhors and want to do away with.
In this life, there are people who are desperately in need for the fruit of the womb. And they're ready to do anything to have one even if the child is an imbecile or a moron. To this set of people having any one to call their own child is their desire to make life fulfilling for them. This type of people goes as far to undergo IVF or sperm transplant to have a child. Yet there are those who are desperate to evacuate the baby in their womb because they had the pregnancy out of wedlock and the would be father to the baby refused to take responsibility. They goes as far to committing abortion just to be free. The complexity of this life indeed.
Again there are those whom God has blessed their union with multiple twins of children and are today complaining of being tired of having twins. Such people are desperately looking for a permanent method to stop having babies while others are desperately looking for a solution to have just one child however the child may be.
Some are there today begging God not to give them male children anymore because they have had male children on multiple times. Their desire is to have a female child. In this same life others are asking God to give them a man child or else life won't be complete. In most Africa marriage not until a woman has a male child such marriage would not experience peace. You will hear a man yelling at his at his heavily pregnant wife in a hospital not to come back home with another God forsaken girl because he has had enough of them.
And guess what...? While all the above are dieing to have this or that type of child, there are those who are begging God for an opportunity just to live one more day from a terminal desease. Such is the complexity of this life, while many are scrambling to get one thing or the other some are desperate to live just for one more day before saying goodbye to their love ones.
You see, this life is really complicated. One man's prayer point is another man's headache. The doctor we all run to in time of health challenges has his health issues turk in his socks. Nobody has it all in this life. The very thing that is giving you joy and satisfaction in life is exactly the same thing that is giving another man's headache. No matter how you see people appears, rich, happy, or satisfied on the outside, there is always this personal devil they are fighting on the inside. Life is so complicated. Never think you are the only one laden with challenges and problems. You are not the only inadequate, unloved or unlucky person, there are many, just that the side of life that turns to you is not the same side that turns to others. However, everyone has his or her challenges covered with suites and gowns. Don't allow anyone's success story intimidate you. Don't allow any man's testimony make you think that God has forsaken you. You are not a God forsaken man or woman.
Be brave.... Surely you will overcome.
I got your point. This is how complicated life is. 😏 Yearning something dearly while others despise it.. I am a woman with no issues on getting pregnant. I can be pregnant anytime i want but unfortunately my brother prays for just one babe that will complete their union with his wife.. I even reach the point saying to my sister-in-law that if only i can remove my uterus and ovary and give it to her because i pity them very much. However i heard news and stories about newborn babies found in a vacant lot or worst in garbage dumpsite... I felt a fire in heart. A true mother can feel it. What an animal those kind of people abandon an innocent child in a place like that!