The complexity of this life

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3 years ago

This Life is so complex such that one man's poison is another man's food. The underlying fact about it is that what you so much love and desire to have to make life complete and fulfilling is exactly what another man hate and wouldn't want to have or be associated with so for him or her to be happy in life. It is sometimes seems very complicated to see that the very thing you are praying and dieing to get in life is exactly what another man abhors and want to do away with.

In this life, there are people who are desperately in need for the fruit of the womb. And they're ready to do anything to have one even if the child is an imbecile or a moron. To this set of people having any one to call their own child is their desire to make life fulfilling for them. This type of people goes as far to undergo IVF or sperm transplant to have a child. Yet there are those who are desperate to evacuate the baby in their womb because they had the pregnancy out of wedlock and the would be father to the baby refused to take responsibility. They goes as far to committing abortion just to be free. The complexity of this life indeed.

Again there are those whom God has blessed their union with multiple twins of children and are today complaining of being tired of having twins. Such people are desperately looking for a permanent method to stop having babies while others are desperately looking for a solution to have just one child however the child may be.

Some are there today begging God not to give them male children anymore because they have had male children on multiple times. Their desire is to have a female child. In this same life others are asking God to give them a man child or else life won't be complete. In most Africa marriage not until a woman has a male child such marriage would not experience peace. You will hear a man yelling at his at his heavily pregnant wife in a hospital not to come back home with another God forsaken girl because he has had enough of them.

And guess what...? While all the above are dieing to have this or that type of child, there are those who are begging God for an opportunity just to live one more day from a terminal desease. Such is the complexity of this life, while many are scrambling to get one thing or the other some are desperate to live just for one more day before saying goodbye to their love ones.

You see, this life is really complicated. One man's prayer point is another man's headache. The doctor we all run to in time of health challenges has his health issues turk in his socks. Nobody has it all in this life. The very thing that is giving you joy and satisfaction in life is exactly the same thing that is giving another man's headache. No matter how you see people appears, rich, happy, or satisfied on the outside, there is always this personal devil they are fighting on the inside. Life is so complicated. Never think you are the only one laden with challenges and problems. You are not the only inadequate, unloved or unlucky person, there are many, just that the side of life that turns to you is not the same side that turns to others. However, everyone has his or her challenges covered with suites and gowns. Don't allow anyone's success story intimidate you. Don't allow any man's testimony make you think that God has forsaken you. You are not a God forsaken man or woman.

Be brave.... Surely you will overcome.

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I got your point. This is how complicated life is. 😏 Yearning something dearly while others despise it.. I am a woman with no issues on getting pregnant. I can be pregnant anytime i want but unfortunately my brother prays for just one babe that will complete their union with his wife.. I even reach the point saying to my sister-in-law that if only i can remove my uterus and ovary and give it to her because i pity them very much. However i heard news and stories about newborn babies found in a vacant lot or worst in garbage dumpsite... I felt a fire in heart. A true mother can feel it. What an animal those kind of people abandon an innocent child in a place like that!

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3 years ago

In Africa or in my country such a situation usually become a family issues such that will make mother and father in-laws to get another wife for their son.

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3 years ago

Such practice hasn't change. Its sad for the part of a woman who has done no wrong but to give birth. Those innocent children will be affected.

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3 years ago

There are women who have no feelings. Those feelings has to be triggered by the pregnancy and more birth. Better not judge about situations you know nothing about.

What stops you carrying your brother's/sister's baby?

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3 years ago

I do believe there are women who have no feelings and that is what i hate most. I'm not judging, i'm telling the truth. But most of the situations in here i based my statement.

No matter how difficult the situation or whatever reason how they get pregnant , they should not just just dump an innocent baby in a garbage dump site or worst anywhere that they be feed to a dog later. There are other ways to give the baby a future than acting a monstrous act throwing a baby away like a piece of sh*t.

You are asking what stops me from carrying my brothers' baby? Their ego won't let it. They can't accept that time that they are impotent to make their own.

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3 years ago

I am sure there are women with no feelings but the lack of feelings is caused by something and frequently it's a lack of the right hormones. Something people do not care about, doctors included. To our opinion a man who runs out still makes a great dad and person. A woman who doesn't want children or says she cannot handle it is worthless. It's better to have an abortion as being an unwanted child. Adoption might be a solution but these children seem to hate to be adopted as well. I think we have too many luxeries and demands to simply accept the facts.

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3 years ago

How can she carry her brother's/ sister's baby, can she have a child for her brother?

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3 years ago

The doctor takes the eggs of the woman, sperm of the man and plants the embryo in the whole of another woman. That is how many women get pregnant or carry a child for someone else. In India they are specialists, even 90+ year old women. A clone is possible too. A clone of the sister in law. Ever read "Brave, new world"? We are already at that point since years. Soon no whom needed (it's already possible without).

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3 years ago

That's possible through a gestational surrogacy.

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3 years ago

Hmm, interesting

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3 years ago

For me, life is not complex but humans makes it complex. Because of imperfection, humans tends to be unsatisfied even if they already achieved what they want. My parents want to have boy children, when I was a child, I heard my dad one time that if they get at least one boy they will stop getting more children. They got one boy (my fourth sibling) and yet they're not satisfied and went against their words I heard before. Tried getting another boy yet they failed after two attempts. They just created two more burden for me without being able to reach their goal. Burden because I'm the one left to look after those children while they are working.

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3 years ago

This is it, you must imagine how your parents must be feeling outside among their fellows who has male children.

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3 years ago

I still don't understand them honestly. I don't understand why they can't be satisfied with us when in fact, right now we (girls) are also able to help them do those strenuous works that are done by boys.

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3 years ago

That's how the world view it, a man always thinks about who will take over from him when he retired, and because female must be married out some days.

@Telesfor, @Dangerously_Fry, you definitely need to look at this issue

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3 years ago

Life is not complicated but humans are. Once they have the so wanted baby it's not good enough. It's handicapped, not smart enough or there are six.

@charmingcherry08, @Clarissa_KG, @esciisc, @gerl, @Hanzell, @heartbeat1515, @Jane, @Jdine, @lioness777, @marblely, @Mehedi01, @psychie, @Purplesky, @Urmeelaurmee122, @Xzeon

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3 years ago

People are life.

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3 years ago

People are part of life, the cycle of life too. Nature is life, plants, animals. That's what life means to me. It's good as it is will people start interfering and make life impossible.

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3 years ago

If people are life, then humans are complicated

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3 years ago

Sometimes it seems complicated though, especially when you are in dire need of a thing and you see or heard that someone despite or abandoned that thing for hatred to it. People are dieing to get one particular thing in life and others who have those things despite theirs. It's torturing to see life like this. Lying side by side on a hospital bed with a fellow pregnant woman, why you prayed to have a male child the other is saying am tired of having male children. Isn't that complicated.

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