The funeral of a lifetime's worth of honor is over in two minutes. Be extremely careful when video, audio, text chat on social media. Many good people have been blackmailed through video recordings, including screen shots. Have gone through psychological anguish. They have closed their accounts and disappeared from social media. Remember, stupidity comes not only from a certified Thar patient but also from a good person including you in a weak moment....
Don't get me wrong. Don't gossip about the opposite sex in private messages. Keep it as short as possible. Definitely don't call each other and don't let any trace of video conversation come to mind. Protect your honor and cover up for others. Don't grit your teeth on this post, don't be in the trap of others, but tie the advice in it with a knot