To be happy do what you hate

Learning to succeed in difficult matters and overcome them, and not surrender to them, is the path to true self-love.

People always tell you: Do what you love to be happy.

I know this is good advice, and I know that everyone wants me to be good, happy, successful and comfortable in my life. But I believe that when you do what you love, you become weaker and succumb to the comfort you think you are enjoying.

For example, I love hiking and restaurants. I can easily scroll through the "newest and most popular" restaurant pages for hours to finally decide where I want to go. Some people browse other sites the same way to find a friend to hang out with and have fun. In fact, I usually save the restaurant pages I like in order to have my dinner there during the weekend.

I like to be the first to visit a new and distinctive place, and I like to eat new meals that I have not tried before. But this hobby that I love is costing me a lot of money and I am forced to feel upset for it because it is not suitable for someone trying to save. I start with anxiety and because of this I do my job much worse.

The result is that hobbies can provide short-term happiness and do not last long, but the damage caused by them, anxiety and tension is permanent, especially if you have become addicted to your hobby and no longer know how to stop in time from eating ready food .. Internet shopping .. Internet and video games. ... sleep.

After a short time we lose control of ourselves and the anxiety increases, because when we feel comfortable we lose the motivation to develop ourselves. So I am following a new policy: Do what you hate.

Yes .. do what you hate

Because organizing the body and mind makes us better, smarter and stronger.

Exercise:

so that you look better, are healthier, and you won't get sick much in old age.

Eating vegetables:

Yes, those vegetables that you always ignore and do not want to eat and leave them on the edge of your plate, they are rich in fibers that help you to have a lean body and live longer.

Learn:

You must obtain a university education certificate in order to earn well and have a respectable place in this world. Also, through the places of knowledge, you will definitely meet smart people of good standing.

Make your home:

Organizing your home helps get rid of negative energy, stress and depression. It will also make you feel very energetic when your room is empty of things that disturb the eyes.

Taking Medicines:

Yes, even if they are not delicious, but they are sometimes necessary in order to return to your normal life faster and do your work well.

Wake up early:

This is a habit that many hate, but it is nonetheless considered one of the habits of successful people and this will be beneficial to you. Because when you wake up early, your brain stays active.

Write:

Writing helps relieve stress, sadness and depression, yoga helps energize the body, and writing helps focus on work.

Discuss:

We usually try to avoid arguments and hate them. But the discussion is useful sometimes in some issues and develops our knowledge and helps you to understand yourself and increase your culture. Most importantly, you can say what you think.

Work:

You shouldn't feel pressured. To be financially comfortable, you must work to pay your bills and live the life you want.

Advice

You probably don't like to do the things you are advised to do because you hate it from some side. But always remember that when you avoid the things you don't like, you will never get better and you will find trouble in life. And you will notice in a short period that these actions that you hate bring you happiness and security.

Then you will see how others have turned into people you respect so much. So offer yourself the benefit and do the things that you have been avoiding, this will help you more.

Perhaps at first it will be difficult for you to master a new skill and you will feel that it is difficult for you to deprive yourself of the pleasure of today in order to benefit tomorrow, but the more you decide to do something useful for yourself, you will find good results faster.

Be ambitious, energetic, and patient.

Push yourself outside of your comfort zone and whatever you love, because only then will you understand how life is moving forward with your potential to change for the better. When you look at your past again, you will thank yourself and love yourself more.