Loving people from God's love:
The love of people is a great blessing, since the love of people is one of the connotations of God Almighty’s love for the human being. Whoever God loves in him will love his servant in him, just as the splendor of this love is evident in its purity, purity and freedom from any worldly defects, when this love is in God, and God's love is by drawing close to God Exalted be He, and when you win the love of people and obtain their satisfaction, you will possess their hearts, feelings and feelings, then you will have a supernatural ability to influence them.
Others' love for you and its effect on you:
People’s love for you makes you look at yourself in a different way, you love yourself more, you trust yourself more, as you become loved when others love your way of thinking, your style, your behavior, your skills, your treatment, your smile, and you feel important because it appreciates your thoughts, and thus you feel a real relationship. Between you, but the most beautiful of all is that only God loves you.
Society's lack of love for man:
Some may think that he is loved among others by lying and hypocrisy or by backbiting and gossip such as (igniting discord among people and inciting them against some in order to attract their hearts to him), as such a person does not respect the feelings of others, rather it stirs up strife and hatred among them, which leads to non Their love for them.
One of the most important reasons for society’s lack of love for the individual is the individual’s lack of familiarity with the basics of etiquette for dealing with others. Failure to respect the feelings of others also leads to a lack of their love and non-acceptance of him, and a person’s personality disorder such as lack of self-confidence, suspicion, obsessive, aggression, ... Etc., an obstacle to people's acceptance and love for him, and the difficult upbringing that a person was brought up with at the beginning of his life leads to society's estrangement from him and their lack of love for him.
How to become loved:
Some of the ways that help you love people There are many things, methods, and rules that help you attract the love and respect of others to you, and help you influence them, leave a positive impression on them and make you accepted and loved among the community, the loyalty of people and their love is a treasure, but to obtain a treasure of people's love And friends around you, you should follow even some of these rules. Here are some ways to help you bring others' love to your personality:
In order to be loved among people and possess their hearts there are secrets. If you exploit them you will be admired by all people, be a child in his innocence, be like a cat in his tenderness and softness, be naive in doing good and helping the poor, be a creature that attains a beautiful male, show your interest in others so that they show interest in you Optimism and enthusiasm, do not get angry, smile, laugh at life, reduce the speech and if you speak, say good words, that is, master the art of speaking, do not be firm and break, nor soft and squeeze, treat people as you would like them to treat you, do not forget the love of God , and you can possess Loving God through prayer and doing good, if God Almighty loves you, plant your love in people's hearts. The thing that brings you the most love of others is your distinctive personality, and therefore there is no need to pretend so be yourself and be the decision-maker for yourself, this will earn you the love, respect and confidence of those around you.
One of the most important reasons for the love of others to you is your solidarity with them and on their various happy or unhappy occasions, as you gain their respect, appreciation and love, as they consider you to be one of them. Avoid focusing on the flaws of the other person, and focusing on beautiful things about the person you are dealing with increases his love for him.
Always remember t: “Give gifts to love.” This indicates that gifts are one of the reasons for gaining people's love. One of the most important reasons that make you loved by people is listening, handling elegant style, good taste and politeness, low tone of voice, and your good opinion of others in order to gain their love for you. Also, there are some qualities that must be adorned in order to be loved among others, including: choosing words, cooperation, clarity, attention to appearance, choosing the right time, lack of urgency, visual contact, humor and fun, striving for goodness, mercy and love.
Well said, there are lot of ways to get people loving you , doing this act draw closer people towards you.