Parenthood: A Guide To A Better Parenting

It's no longer news that parenthood is the best thing ever. Becoming a parent comes with its fair share of challenges and sleepless nights. But it also comes with an infinite amount of love, laughter and happiness. Not to mention, it's the best way to learn more about yourself and grow as a person. When I said, learn more about yourself, I meant to test yourself and how to handle things when you are in a tight corner. It is often said, the best parents are those who think and provide solutions even in their worst time of the day.

Reason Why Parenthood Is The Best thing Ever?

If you're on the fence about starting a family, or if you're already a parent and need a little reminder of how amazing it is. Here are 10 reasons why parenthood is the best thing ever:

1. You're never bored: From the moment your child is born, your life is filled with new challenges, new adventures, and new discoveries. There's never a dull moment.

2. You get to relive your childhood: Parenthood gives you a chance to relive your childhood through your children. From the simple things like building forts and catching fireflies, to the more complex things like teaching them how to ride a bike or helping them with their homework, you get to experience the joys of childhood all over again.

3. You learn to appreciate the little things: Becoming a parent makes you realise how much you took for granted as a child. Things that seemed so small and insignificant suddenly become the biggest and most important things in the world.

4. You get to be a role model: As a parent, you have the opportunity to be a role model for your children. You get to teach them about the things that are important to you and help them develop into strong, independent adults.

5. You gain a new perspective on life: Having children changes your entire perspective on life. Suddenly, you're no longer living just for yourself. You have little lives depending on you, and that changes everything.

6. You get to watch them grow and change: 

One of the best parts of parenthood is watching your children grow and change before your eyes. From their first steps to their first day of school, you get to witness all of their milestones and be there to support them every step of the way.

7. You get to teach them about the world:

Parenthood gives you the chance to introduce your children to the world around them. You get to teach them about different cultures, different countries, and different ways of life.

8. You get to watch them make their own mistakes: It's not always easy to watch your children make their own mistakes, but it's a necessary part of life. As their parent, you can be there to help them learn from their mistakes and become better people as a result.

9. You get to experience their successes: Just as you get to experience your children's failures, you also get to experience their successes. There's nothing quite like seeing your child accomplish something they've worked hard for.

10. You get to love them unconditionally:

Perhaps the best part of parenthood is the unconditional love you have for your children. No matter what they do or how they turn out, you will always love them with all your heart.

What Does Good Parenthood Encompass?

The joys and challenges of parenthood are well known. But what does it really take to be a good parent? Here are some tips from experts that may surprise you.

 It turns out that good parents are made and not born. There is no magic gene that makes someone a great mom or dad. Instead, good parenting is a result of hard work, dedication, and a willingness to learn. Here are some specific things that the best parents do:

1. They make their children a priority: Good parents know that their children are their number one responsibility. They make time for them every day, no matter what.

2. They set limits and stick to them: Children need structure and discipline in order to thrive. Good parents provide this by setting clear limits and enforcing them consistently.

3. They are role models: Children learn by example. Good parents set a positive example for their children in everything they do.

4. They are patient: Parenting is not always easy. Good parents are patient with their children, even when they are frustrated.

5. They communicate effectively: Good parents know how to communicate with their children. They listen to their children and explain things to them in a way that they can understand.

6. They are flexible:  No two children are alike. Good parents know how to be flexible in their parenting style to meet the needs of each individual child.

7. They show love: Good parents love their children unconditionally. They show it through their words, their actions, and their affection.

8. They are consistent: Children need consistency in order to feel secure. Good parents are consistent in their expectations, their discipline, and their love.

9. They are supportive: Good parents are there for their children both emotionally and physically. They offer support and encouragement when their children need it.

10. They teach life skills: Good parents know that their children need more than just academic knowledge to succeed in life. They teach their children important life skills like how to work hard, how to be responsible, and how to be kind.

Good parenthood isn't an easy task but if you strive to do these things, you will be well on your way to raising happy, healthy, and successful children.

Best Resources For A Better Parenthood

Parenthood is one of the most rewarding experiences a person can have. It's a time of great joy and great responsibility. Moments when you're constantly learning and growing.

Grandma once told my dad that parenthood is the most unpredictable thing since you're never quite sure what's going to happen next. She advised dad to always be prepared for anything.

The most trying time in life after puberty is parenthood, that's why it usually involves two people, yourself and your spouse. That's why I decided to put together this list of the best resources for parents. I hope you find them helpful;

1. Parenting Books: There are so many great parenting books out there. It can be hard to know where to start. But here are a few of my favourites:

i) The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind, by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

ii) The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children, by Shefali Tsabary.

iii) The Power of Positive Parenting: A Life-Changing Approach to Raising Children, by Glenn Latham

2. Parenting Websites: There are also lots of great parenting websites out there. I will beckon on you to look them out at your leisure time.

3. Parenting Forums: Parenting forums are a great way to connect with other parents. They can be a great source of support and information. Joining both local and international conferences about good parenting will help widen your knowledge.

4. Parenting Blogs: Parenting blogs are another great way to connect with other parents. They can be a great source of support and information.  

5. Parenting Podcasts: Podcasts are a great way to get information and support while you're on the go. The internet is a free space for you to look up great podcasts about good parenting. I hope you find these resources helpful. Parenthood is a wonderful, challenging time. But it's also a time when you need all the support you can get.

If you have any other great resources for parents, please share them in the comments.