They will always provoke you

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Hello wonderful and handsome friends on read.cash platform. I wish everyone a happy weekend. I would believe you guys are doing good.

It might be very easy to solve mathematics and get the correct answer but people's ways are really hard to solve and get the correct answer. Someone you really trust can do something differently and that is why the wise people do say if you want to live long don't ever trust on anyone. It's better you trust yourself than other people because if at some point you fail yourself you know that it is you who create the failure to your own self. A man once said if I had trusted anyone I wouldn't live up till this day. Which in his statement he means that people you so much put your trust on will fail you. They can lead you to your early grave. It is not people who do not come close to you that will lure you. It's those friends whom you trusted so much.

People will always get you provoke if you are not careful with them. They are people that will purposely want to tempt you in other to see the kind of person you are. While other in the other way round they are not trying to see the kind of person you are. They are some human being that are looking for others down fall. Meanwhile we know how people are behaving in the world today. If you are living without being financially stable people will always mock you that you don't have money, and if you have the money they also envy you and some will get jealous saying that you are so proud of yourself. This is reality about some humans behaviour, though it's not everyone that is behaving that's way. There is still some reasonable human in the society while there are those that will always get other people provoke.

People will always make you to get angry when you do not even want to be angry. I have being seeing this in some part of countries even in my own as well. You will see how some people will provoke other people through some words that comes out from their mouth. It could be the issue wouldn't have gotten to that extent but because of some bad words that people say that adds salt to an injury. In my country they are people who are talented in releasing bad words and once they make a statement there's no how you will not get angry and at some point if you are not able to control your heart you will allow anger to control your emotions.

We have to learn how to controls our heart in other not to go extra mile when we get provoke by people. They are some certain things that people will do to you that if you are not a kind of person that controls your anger you will even destroy thing or waste life if care isn't taken. Parent can provoke the children and the children also can provoke the parent it's both side. I have a story of how the daughter got provoke by her parents. She was very submissive to the parent, she was a good example to others in the family. She was the one the whole family look up to and because of her humility the parent sponsor her in school and she came out as a nurse. She went for some other training and after that she was very lucky to be picked to work in a popular private hospital.

As life was going on and she was growing old going close to a level of getting married, two men came out to marry her one was her choice while she didn't like the other man. Though the other one she didn't like was so wealthy which I will believe that's what made the parent to chose him. The parent had to decide on whom she will get marry to and since it wasn't the daughter's decision she had to argue with the parent that she has her own choice that the parent doesn't suppose to be choosing who she should spent her life with. When the parent saw that she was serious about what she said they said is either she marry the particular man they chose for her or she cease to be their daughter. To the parent they were trying to threaten the daughter but they never knew that they have hurt her.

Depending on what the parent did to her she got provoke by taking unnecessary actions that she doesn't suppose to take. Since the pleasure was so much on her and she think other wise, since she was so submissive to the parent she never wanted anything that will make her to have issues with the parent and because of that she sees committing suicide as the best things that will settle her issues with both the parent and with the men that wanted to marry her. When she saw that the date was close where the man that the parent chose for her will come do all the requirement and take her home. The night to that day she drank poison and die. The parent were thinking if she has gone to work since they didn't see her and her room was locked. They tried everything possible to hear from her but to no avail. It was until they destroy the door to her room that they saw their daughter's corpse with a letter telling them that she is sorry for taking such decision that that's the best way she thinks she can stop the whole problem.

The parent went into tears. Our people would called that kind of tears a crocodile tears. Such tears doesn't have any meaning it's just like doing campaign after election. I think the parent have provoke the girl badly and as if that wasn't enough they went ahead and threaten her life. Though we are living in the world that is full with humans that will never stop provoking us in one way or the other we should try and control our actions despite how the case may be.

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Your words are logical. If we want to survive, first of all we have to believe in ourselves, we have to know ourselves, we have to do those things that will keep our heart calm.

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1 year ago

That is a good contribution friend. People will always provoke us. But then we have to control our emotions not to let what people do to us bring us down.

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1 year ago

That is one sad story. Sadder part is that it gets more and more common these days. I pray people will have their eyes open.

I am not sure if the parents were after money or keeping culture and control or maybe all. But j do hope they know that life is not about all that.

And for children to build in themselves the strength to resist quitting life too soon. This is a heartbreaking reality.

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1 year ago

Yes friend it really a heart breaking reality. I really pity for her after the long time spending in school and she ended up in grave through committing suicide.

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