Is begging people to be in our life a good thing? Hello wonderful friends, how are guys doing I hope all is going well with you. I wish you all a lovely weekend. Stay safe and enjoy the weekend. Life like it's said life is so beautiful, and it's also too short to waste it. If we must enjoy it we have to use it wisely. People will visit you and go it's you yourself that will face your challenges. No one else would do. If people will assist you it wouldn't be everything that they will do. It's all about us not about other people. We can always be nice to people but I don't think we should ever be begging them to stay in our lives. If people decide to walk away from you free them to go. It's never meant that they are not nice or that they're not a good people, but when they live just know that they where never meant to stay in your life. People that would stay will stay and those that will leave will leave. There's no need of begging them to stay. There have their plans and their choice so I think if we force them to stay there might not even stay longer like they should stay if there purposely stayed on their own. Is it really a good thing to be begging people to be in our lives.? With my own opinion I would say no, It's never a good thing. To me I feel like once we plead with people to be out lives, they will bring in pride just because they never meant to be that you just begged them to stay. And if since they were begged to stay. They might not stay longer like they suppose to if they were stayed on their own. Pride will never fail to come in. They would other wise says that they would have go their way if not because you begged them. Or they will regret at some point when they feel like their staying doesn't work as they expected. But people that came on their own will always be ready to accept both the negative and the positive side of the person. People who came on their own will always endure and be nice to everyone they go to. It's would be because of one thing or the other they pick an offense and leave. I think when we beg people to stay they might not want to tolerate us unlike if they came on their own. I don't also think that people whom we begged to stayed will love us genuinely as people who came on their own would love. I think we shouldn't force people to love us, neither should we plead with them to be in our life. Life is very beautiful and short it's never a thing we beg people to stay. If you call people, visit them or text them and they still don't respond to you. Work away that's called self respect. It's good that we respect ourselves by knowing who we truly are. Begging people to be will always show self disregard and low self-esteem. I think once we are able to respect ourselves by Knowing our value we wouldn't be begging people to stay in our life.
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Right now, I can say leave if you want to leave. But in the future, if circumstances like this will cross in my life, I cant say what to tell for now.
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Truth be told, begging people to stay should be the last option on your mind, if they were really meant to stay, they wouldn't go away. I still remember the day, my first boyfriend left, I so much loved him that I had to beg him to stay , guess what happened.. He physically abused me, cheated on me and even made away with my jewelries... I had a painful experience
Is never a good thing that we beg people to stay in our life, because they will finally abuse us. Thanks for dropping by.
It is never a nice idea to beg people to come into your life, or even stay. It is their yes that will always stand and not yours.
You're right friend, it is their yes that will always stand, they have a choice.
we shouldnt beg anyone for friendship cos we have our dignity to protect
Yes you're right friend. There is no need of us begging people to stay.