If you don't want to help leave it

Happy weekend friends wishing you all a nice moment. I'm happy to come your way once again. More thanks for always stopping by.

Today I'm coming up with another new topic and the topic is a particular issues that has been disturbing me for years now, and I'm seeing this in the relationship, that's in between the two parties. My advice to the young people who are going into a relationship newly is what do you have to offer in the relationship that you are moving into? We have to be specific and realistic here. Most times a guy or a lady will accept a friendship request without knowing the criteria.

In today's world things have changed if it was even good before but now it's no longer that's way. Before people where really helping other people being in the relationship but in today's life it is very rare before you can find help from people. A lot of people will tell you their mind so that if is favorable to you you stay or you leave. Back then relationship was seeing as something that the other parting will assist the other and same with the other person but nowadays the guys and the ladies have changed the roles. It's just like the phrase we use to that says they have changed the clock's hand.

Now people are helping people in other to get something in return from the people they render help to. Now nobody wants to lose it. They don't even needs 50% /50% instead they need 40/60 but there is nobody that wants to lose it. That's how if I'm seeing the whole thing now. In my place today if a guy keeps supporting a lady financially watch out because there's something behind that the guy is yet to voice out and the same thing with a lady.

I became a victim of this same issues some years back where a lady who was not even my age gave me a support and I was really happy that God has brought me an helper little did I know that she had something in mind against me. I used to called her mother since she was closer to my mom's age and she picked an offense against it asking me why I should be calling her mom,? And I asked her the name that will be preferable and she kept silence over it. It was there after she came with what was in her mind that I knew that all the support was not real that it was with something then I had to work out myself.

I told her that I will not be able to meet to her request that if she doesn't want to help me she should forget about that I'm going away from her. So it was since then I realize that nothing isn't just free. The only person that can give out things free of charge is God expect that most people are giving to have something good in returns. This has always be my advice I give to people, don't help someone expecting to have something in return but help people through the love of Christ even Jesus said to the disciples that they should do the same thing that he has done to them, which he had show them love care and humility. So we should also take the footsteps of Christ in other be like him...

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