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Greetings to all my valuable friends that I have missed for quite a long period of time. I know it hasn't been that easy to you, even I myself it wasn't that easy but we have to push it ahead to see the next day. Life is not easy is just like a journey that if one gets tired he or she can desire to end it on the way. I have witness a whole lot of things like people will be harming themselves by commiting suicide and just end up their lives. At times my question would be like will they even have peace if they use their hands to harm themselves?

Well it should be a thing of great joy for us if we can still survive the challenges and difficulty that life keeps bringing to our door steps day by day. I'm really happy for my life and your as well, I thank the almighty God for always protecting us through may temptations. I don't think there is anything that is hard for him to do, if he can take care of the entire universe then he can take good care of you .

So belove friends I'm super excited to be here once again. I never thought I will be here again but it is God that made it possible. Well I appreciate him for everything he has done in my life and to the life of those wonder friends both on this platform and outside.

Let me move straight to the topic I have in hand to avoid having disagreement with time hahahaha.. time plays it's own part of the deal and if you do not comply with him it might leave you behind the corner.

My today's discussion simply goes to what people called love and the meaning. They are whole lot of people that witness things and they come with experience and they are also some that will learn from other people's experience. But if you will agree it with me you will see that those that when through the particular thing have much experience than those who do not. A quite number of persons have gone through things that they can't even open their mouth to say it, at some point they will just shallow them inside to avoid harming themselves the more.

Most parable I heard from my grandparents when I was younger is what I'm seeing in today's present world. It's good not to be love than to fake it. When you say you love let it come from your heart not from from your lips. Back then love was really a strong think but in today's world love now is weak due to the hands that handle it. I'm not saying there's no true love there is but there are not much I would say out of 100% love 80% of love isn't real, some love in the other way around to get what they want from the partner and once they achieve it they will work away.

I still don't understand why love now have turn to a game in which you can stand to win or you lose in the other way round. In the days back people were still living together with those those their heart loves but now is very rear, today a lot of lovers are going for material things and if you don't have the materials things to offer just hide yourself because that is the only way you can help yourself rather than exposing yourself to danger. Love is sweet when there's money yes I don't doubt it. But is there no way we can pursue love first before the money?

A good number of persons now both male and female are pursuing what you can offer them first before talking about love. I can remember when I excused a lady respectfully the other time and she asked me "what can you offer me"? . To me when I heard this statement I silenced everything I want to say to her and let her go, even when I had an important thing to say to but her reply shocked me and I couldn't continue with her anymore. I judge her by her words and that's how things is done even in the scripture. By their fruits you shall know them.

Why a lot of people are still using love is scam is because they have been scammed by so called love. Yes even me I'm saying it with experience, I might not gone through the kind of experience you have and you also might not pass through mind. We have an experience in different phases. I think is high times we stop deceiving ourselves with love. Love is real, love is genuine, love is a beautiful thing but it's only become blind to those who don't value, understand and appreciate the power that lies in it.

I have much to say but let me hang it here because it's skip my mind why love of this century is unstable,

Thanks for stopping by,

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I also date girls (or at least I try), and I see the same things in the dating world that you do. Dating used to seem so easy when I was a teenager, but now that I’m older, its really hard to find anyone who isn’t obsessed with money or height.

If I were you, I would never settle for anyone who only sees me for my money or status. You’re better off staying single and enjoying life with friends and family. Just don’t become bitter, and be open to a relationship if a good girl comes along. Because there are many girls who are not materialistic or shallow who will love you genuinely. I know because I’ve met a few of them in my life, and they were really amazing people.

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Alright friend thanks for your advice, I think I have learnt a thought from you. Many thanks for stopping by .

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