Don't quickly react
Good morning everyone, how is life treating you. I believe things are working out for your good. Stay safe and remain bless.
Quick to hear but don't quick to talk. That's an important advice I got from my mother. She trained my like s soldier but I'm not a solider's son. She trained me in a way that I will not easily get into problem, it is said train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. It matters the kind of seed you sow doing the sowing time, the seed you plant will determine the type of harvest you will have in the end. So it is good to plant wisely.
Even in business you can't invest with a little capital and expect a larger profit. The capital you invest will determine the profit you will get. that's garbage in and garbage out. You harvest what so ever you plant, you can't plan maize and expect to harvest beans during the harvesting season. that was a simple illustration to make you have a proper understanding.
Let's move straight to today's discussion, like I did said never you quick to take action in a particular thing. First of all find out the truth before you react. Even when you will find out the truth and the truth that is always bitter hurt you never mind, you have to control your inner mind instead you will destroy a long time relationship that you have spent time to build in many years in just a day. The book of proverbs says the wise man take many years to build a city but a fool woman scatter it in a day. This is really possible and I don't doubt it. Woman are really funny in nature they can do the undo.
Fine out the truth don't just react without listening the second time. Most times that we react we react out of anger. It would be if we hear any thing pertaining to our close ones we react easily without even trying to get into the root of the problem. Making findings is really good even in marriage or in a relationship because this is what will keep the relationship going. Once a partner is able to find the truth form one partner I think the relationship will keep growing but when the both react anytime that issues rises up without making findings the relationship will died.
Don't react yet, depending on what you hear or see, your thought might fail you and people that brings you the massage might bring you a false message. People are good in false witness. But you will do yourself good if you can calm your mind and know the truth first. Note that it's not everyone who pretend to be your friend are truly your friend good, some are looking for a way to take away joy or happiness form you. It is not everyone that is happy about that marriage or that job that you're doing, they are unfriendly friend that their work is to bring you down. Never you react base on what you hear or what they are saying, don't put it into actions if you must succeed in anything you're doing.
Learn to control your mind because this Is one of those things that will help you to escape from anger. My mentor said something the other day, he said there's nothing that will happen to that will make me to frown his face. He said through this action the enemy might get you easily. My advice to you is that you shouldn't quick to react on what people are saying, give yourself a time and make findings for the truth.
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