We all know this world is in hurry always. So Parents not cares their child as much they actually have. And children are not getting proper treatment from their parents, parents send them kids school for better learnings, but here they actually faces problems.
Mother is far better than teacher for child. It does not matters how much good the teacher is, they can not replace mother. Here we see some problem and solution for making a child effective.
Age of learning
Nowadays we see people starts sending their child schools at age of what..? They think their kid start learning early so he/she will be intelligent.
But does it works? No, it doesn't works. You may find your kid is doing well, yes you think this help your child to think about study. Yes you're right. But is it right for child. No it's not.
You actually put restrictions on child at very little age. This affects them badly, you find it is working but it's not. When you start teaching them it's not actually their of learning those thing, it's the time of playing games, learning mother tongue, having fun, and being happy not being stressed not being controlled, this is the time set them free to feel the nature see the animal, let them laugh, let their mind to be fully open, let them think some stupid questions, some stupid ideas.
This will help them a lot. I suggest you before the age 5 or 6 do not make them feel the load of homework, fear of teacher, fear of getting fail.
Most important thing, games help children to think properly, they develop friendship among themselves.
So every parent should know what is the perfect and proper age of learning.
How to deal with your child?
What do you think about your parents? Is your parents supported you? Do your parent forced you to do this nothing else? If not, then are you doing this. And if yes, then do you think it's right to do same mistake again? Think about it.
Nowadays the biggest problem is parent want to make their children what they want without knowing what actually your child want to be.
And some parent want to fulfill their dreams through their child, but first you should know the dreams of your child. The important thing is a Student can never give his/her full effort on that thing which he/she doesn't like.
So it is important to know the thoughts and dreams of your child. And do not force them to do anything. You should support your child what he/she doing. And also make sure your child is going in wrong direction.
Another important thing is failure, as you all know success and failure are the two sides of a coin.
If you enjoy your child's success then why their is no enjoyment in failure, is your child failed no actually not whereas he/she learnt that if i go forward like this it will be bad for me. So congratulations your child learnt a lesson of getting not failed again in same way.
It is worthy of something. You think your anger on their failure make them to not fail again, then you're wrong. Whereas this leads your child in depression. Make your child learn and feel that their result does not matter, matters only your work, what you did, how you did, and how much you involved with your work.
So teach them to focus on their works, their deeds not on results.
And another thing is if your child failed because you decided what they do then stop blaming them they did not failed you, actually you failed them, failed them to be a better parent.
Because if you think "Fishes are bad and lazy because they can climb a tree like Monkey".
Then you're wrong not your child. Because Fishes are good at swimming and Monkies are good at climbing trees. Both have their different fields.
Similarly if your child is good in sports then you should support them in sports. I promise you they will not fail you.
Lastly, i just want to say to parents that you should keep supporting your child, do not force them what to do, let them decide what they like to do. And do not worry about anything, when time comes everything happens. For every work there is a perfect time. You only have to be patient and keep working. Because if you want fruits from tree then you have to water the tree and wait upto when flower becomes fruit.
If you break the flower in hope of getting fruit, then you will not get what you want, because for everything there is a perfect time.
You are doing good work