Facing Failure In Life

"Failure is the stepping stone to success."

Its an idiom we all have heard off. It seems this saying has non intentionally spread a wrong idea. Let me correct the misconcept.

"Failure won't bring success unless you savvy the cause of failure at first place."

Failure alone is not the step to success. Understanding the reason for your failures at first place is the step to success.

Imagine you are doing a project or a problem and you failed at your first attempt . You keep on repeating the same steps or procedure without even checking where you went wrong. This won't help you to complete the project or problem.

Pause for a moment. Take some time. Go through. Try to figure out where you went wrong. If it seems hard, reach out. Seek help to the ones you trust in.

Even in your life when you fail, pause for a moment. Never be disheartened. Take some time and think where you went wrong. Try to understand and correct your mistakes. Avoid it in your further life.

No person is perfect. Neither you nor me. Learn to learn from your mistakes. No person has succeeded without facing failure at least once in his/her life. Even Thomas Edison failed about 10,000 times before he succeded. See your failures positively.

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."

-Thomas A. Edison

It doesn't matter who what your caste is or what your gender is or what your colour is or what your income is; YOU CAN. Start doing. You might fail at first. You will have the entire society trying to drag you down. Pay no heed. Keep doing until you succeed. Then the entire society will applaud you. All people who made fun of you will regret.

Learn never to give up. How hard the storm is, stand strong. Face it. A diamond becomes that precious only after several rupturing and scratches. Similarly, your failures will shape you. It will strengthen you. It will teach you. It will make you unique and precious. 

Work hard and never give up. Never get discouraged or distracted. No matter how hard the situations might hit you never give up. Hold firmly. Because if not you, no one is going to stand for you. No one is going to sheild you forever. Let your success speak. Your history will then be spoken.