Communication

All living biotic creatures interact with each other. It is a natural scientific phenomenon or a phenomenal phenomena of God. Every creature interacts with the environment and with each other. The mannerism of communication differs but the act remains same.

Above all creatures on earth, man is said to be supreme. Humans or homisapiens are by far the most intellectual and realistic functional creature of God. Humans are finely able to think, understand, analyse and function their sensory and motor nerve actions. Humans are said to be an epitome of the Almighty.

As a matter of fact, in this entire ecosystem, more or less every creature interact with each other. A very simple example of rooster with his chicks communicates using their beak for morsels. Humans are the only one species those require to be very much around a familiar homosapeic environment. And as they often say, "Man is a social animal". We cannot live without communication. Sometimes when we are stuck up in an environment where we fail to express our words through our vocal cords we simply enact our hands or frown our eyebrows or beckons using our eyes. I must say, we've plenty of techniques to communicate, we are so damn habitat to communicate with our environment that we instantly figure out ways to communicate but the best of all is our words.

Now, apart from out body language and gestures that we use as an indirect way of communication let us now shift towards the effective and active communication. I must say that our tongue doesn't have a bone but its improper usage can break many bones for sure!

The question that arise now is.. What is an effective way of communication??

All of us in this world uses the same process to communicate but only few of us are appreciated or loved by others. Why??Where's the lack? Many of us think, we don't slutter while speaking nor do we lisp while speaking then what is the issue? Why aren't our communication effective?

Well, it's not about lisping or sluttering while speaking it is just the way you are using your words. Just for an example, we have drawn a very beautiful pencil sketch on canvas and while filling colors to it, we used inappropriate colors those are neither looking good nor looking appropriate. Words are all good like a sketch, but while we speak them in a series as a sentence, it is like coloring the sketch appropriately. A minor mistake in selection of words may cause disaster and people may get displeased. 

Communication is a serious deal. It has to be very clean, clear with perfect intonation and usage of words. Sometime we don't even intend to hurt nor do we even realise because we know that we didn't mean it by heart but the beholder isn't any psychologist to get into your brain and heart to ensure your emotions and intentions. He/she is just a person who receives your words and process those in mind. The processing depends entirely on how you're presenting your things with words.

Many of us think that adding one or two foreign languages to our knowledge enhances communication but that is simply a myth, dear readers. Adding any new learning isn't bad in light of your own career perspective but that doesn't anyway mean that it would enhance your communication skills. We have two concepts here, language learning and language acquisition.

The language learning is termed as language 1 that we naturally learn listening from our parents after birth. And the language acquisition that is termed as language 2 that comes under cognitive learning when we adopt any secondary language. The matter of fact is, we're more comfortable with the language 1 as our thought process and inner voice speaks in that language. If we couldn't master our communication command on language 1 then how can we take guarantee that we would prove to be magnificently well in communication using language 2?

Language is never an issue. A good conversation doesn't require your addition in foreign language learnings. It simply requires the ability to put words right in place as per the situation and as per the etiquette. 

Even people of higher classes often think that wealth and fame surpasses everything. Many highly qualified people think that their degrees surpasses everything. But that isn't true. The truth is, communication doesn't come with your qualifications or wealth or fame, it is a simple act of speaking wisely and appropriately.  We shouldn't confuse ourselves with these myths.

A person who has a strong and good communication skill is like a magician who can spellbound anyone with his magical word spell. And novices bring disaster casting the wrong spell on people.

The best way is to maintain a proper intonation with a strong and effective pitch. Neither louder nor meek either. Understand and analyse the situation and before you tend to speak out, pause for a few minutes. Take the whole basket of words and choose the most appropriate words to express your emotions. Your words shouldn't hurt or injure rather it should be an antibiotic, an antiseptic and always act as a healing agent.

Speaking without thinking and processing is like speaking in vain. Our words are precious, don't let it go waste into trash in the mind of others. Rather present a bouquet that would decorate the environment and people around.