I believe everyone has their own perceptions regarding there life experience. Some people are born with a gold-spoon in their mouths who don't even know what is life all about and they don't know the struggles regarding life unless they hear it from there ancestors. While some are born in poverty who keeps believing in hardship and believe to change there life with hardships and tons of struggle.
Trust me that hardships, struggle, and a dream to change our life will become fruitful one day. It's not like everyone is born rich or poor. It's there hard work and dream that couldn't let them sleep for years to change their life. Life is itself the name of the challenge. If you keep tackling it with patience and hard work you will get it's the outcome one day for sure whether it could be sudden or after decades but it will.
Furthermore, If you keep yourself lazy and impatient and don't have the courage to challenge problems in the phase of life, it will indirectly make you depressed that why the life is doing this with you. Cowards are the one who keeps on blaming their life about not a good end. A wise man once said if you born poor or rich it's not your problem but if you die poor then it will probably your problem.
Additionally, I've seen people working day and night just to reach to there dreams are now the most successful one as compared to those who keep on talking and don't believe in hardship and struggles behind every successful entrepreneur. There are a lot of examples of successful entrepreneurs like Jeff Bezos of Amazon and Bill Gates of Microsoft who just didn't believe in there dreams but also combats the tough time in there lives or you call it a dream which never lets them sleep.
I have a strong belief in this phrase that fool always accuse his or her utensils. And it's a fact I've seen rich people who hit by life so hard but they got dishearten and their good times changed into bad times since then.
Eventually, we should always belives in GOD as everything happens for a good reason but we should also believe in hard work and struggle because it will pay you off one day. Remember always be thankful to God for Mercy and just do your best because life is too short for regrets.
"Life is an equation which will balance at the end of the day". Someone born with hardship will definitely get out of it if he has solid mission and vision for life. He can then dine and wine with those born with gold-spoon.