Why so many divorces in love marriage ???
Married for many years. Divorce in less than a year. Such incidents are always seen in our urban society nowadays.
For so many years that two people have built a relationship through mutual understanding, why does the foundation of that relationship falter as soon as they come under one roof? Not weird? If there was a lack of love, surely there could not be love for so many years?
There is no shortage of love. The deficit is elsewhere. Before marriage both boyfriend and girlfriend try to present all their wonderful aspects in front of each other.
Is a man ever perfect?
No, people are good and bad. The person you love also has shortcomings, flaws, bad aspects, limitations.
Love by accepting this truth, come about.
Don't pretend to be perfect in front of your loved one before marriage. Whatever you are, stay in front of it, stay normal. Let me know the limits of your behavior and thoughts. Let him come to build the house knowing everything. If your imperfections are revealed after the house is built, the house will collapse just like a house of cards.
"After marriage, he doesn't care about me like before."
Common Dialogue of Women from Lovers to New Wives. We have to get out of this misunderstanding mentality. Newlywed men rush under heavy pressure. The boy, accustomed to a nomadic life, flew over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over For whom is the boy who is so busy with his career working day and night? His own wife, unborn child and a beautiful piece for the future. The groom who wants to buy happiness for you at the price of his own sweat is not able to call you and ask you if you have eaten. So he is no longer caring?
There is nothing greater than this care of the one who has built a house for you, the one who is working tirelessly for the dream of decorating a beautiful future with you.
There is no shortage of caring people in the world who want to know "you ate, you're fine, what are you doing". Support the groom who wants to shape the future for you. It is your big mistake to move away from false pride in his busyness.
"He's not like before. He doesn't understand me like he used to. He doesn't need so much nowadays."
Common dialogue of boyfriend to newlywed boy.
Does he really want much? Maybe the groom wants nothing more than a little support, a little care. Coming from another family, the girl in your family is not alone? The princess daughter of the parents may have got everything in her house without asking, you shouldn't ask her for that.
His small regrets one day turned into a big void. You don't have to be so busy writing page after page of poems about her eyes, hair, and lips that you don't even have time to put your hand on her forehead and ask, "Are you all right?"
Because you are married in love, you have a little more expectation from your wife. A little care is worth more than a lot of money.
In a hurry, the two of them have to adapt slowly without misunderstanding. There is a difference between the fantasy world of love and the real life. Here is the struggle at every moment, the innumerable ordeals at every step.
So before you understand the difference between the two worlds, do not increase the distance, do not be separated. It takes a long time to get close, it doesn't take long to go far. Pride is about good, not too much pride. Pride does not have to be frozen. To accumulate is love.
Goodbye everyone with the people they love.