The sons have the right to ask for a relationship of their choice wherever they want, but do they also have the right to insult the daughters, which has become a common practice with us?
They go to see one relationship after another, expecting the daughters of others to be presented to them, and then they Reject by looking at one after the other, and usually the reasons are unnecessary and useless.Often, their son is not seen in how much water he is in, but by presenting the daughters of others to himself, they are looking for a princess for their son.
If the girl likes, let's see if the family is money or not, whether the house is its own or not, what is the position of the girl's father and then for the same reasons and similar absurd priorities, good relationships Reject and go ahead.
I also know families who saw not one, not two, but dozens of girls for their sons, and finally liked one daughter for their son.In my view, this practice of insulting daughters, it is a series of insults to their parents, it is a side of humiliation of humanity which is neither known nor objected to. This series or practice that has gone on is related to the majority. There are also good people who take care of the dignity of the daughters of others and other families.
I recently Received a message from the mother of a young daughter.The pain of this mother was that they should not be humiliated in the name of seeing the relationship, if everything looks good, they ask that the house is its own or rented. Some even expect that if we have a relationship, the boy can also get a job with in-laws. The mother cried and said that now if someone talks about a relationship or asks for permission to come home to see a daughter, i'm afraid, you feel small. This mother belongs to a family who are educated, live in a good place in Islamabad, but since the house is rented, most visitors are shocked that the girls' house is not their own.
This derogatory series must stop. Daughters should be protected from offering tea and exposing staring eyes by making a bun in front of every visitor. I am convinced that the viewing must be completely intangible.
The sons should be ashamed and take care of the dignity of the daughters and the feelings of the daughters. Find out what to find out, but when it's time to see daughters, it's intangible. Son try to make your mind when you go to the house, refrain from playing with the feelings of the daughters of others.Many parents are worried about their daughters not having a relationship on time, but I would still urge the parents of the daughters to ask them to see our daughter in an indifferent way if they wish to see a relationship, whose parents can also take out a ritual.
Don't let daughters be presented to those seeking one relationship after another.Stop this practice, this series. Today, if we are nurturing this practice for our son, tomorrow our daughter will suffer because of this custom, and her Self Respect will be hurt. Just do it, God bless you.
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