The Period Between Twenty to Thirty
As we grow older we faced and experience different realization in life. Confusion and struggles are common in our way. Adult life is something that can make you realized what the world really is. It is a period of growth and maturity. If you failed to pass this stage of your life you will be in a great trouble. The period between 20 to 30 is considered as to be the most worrisome part of adult life. We need to handle our emotions and actions properly. Making great decisions is a great advantage and ensuring that you handle your emotions well. Twenty to thirty is the age of acceptance and completion if you let your worries consumed your thinking your life will be drag into the abyss. Remember worrying is the most destructive habit that we should avoid.
Why do people in this age tends to worry so much?
According to Psychology twenty to thirty is the most worrisome part of adult life. People in this age worries too much in different things. What are the things that makes them confused and unstable? The things that makes them worried has something to do with their life most importantly to their future. Being in this age is a crucial process that you need to experience different situations to know and understand that if you compared yourself to other people you will just put yourself in a situation that will make your life miserable.
In this age we put a significant thought in our career, we often compare ourselves to our batchmates having a good career. If we do these we are wasting our time on useless things. Remember we are all different, we are all taking a different path. Some path is slippery, rough and some are smooth. The only different in all of us is how we will manage ourselves. We cannot avoid struggles because it is part of our life that will help us to be a better person. Problems and challenges is our constant companion so instead of letting this problems be your enemy make them as your friends a solve them. Take note before you experience such problems there are people who experience it. Time flies and all the things around us changes. In this situation use your strong determination and patience to make yourself better. Remember tough times never last but tough people do.
Some of the people in this age worries for not having a life partner. Well for me its not a problem at all but for some people it is a serious topic. Having a life partner is important, it is one of the best things that we need to look at. Worrying in this kind of things is useless don’t be a dramatic person over this kind of things. If you face break ups it only means that God saves you from a wrong person. In this time all you need to do is to wait for your future that lies ahead of you and all of us has its own perfect destiny.
Your savings! Yeah having a stable job is good but we also need to put an attention on our savings. In this part it will depend on your ability. Take some risk for investments but you need to be wise, only invest the money that you are afford to lose. In this situation people has different standing, don’t equate yourself or degrade yourself if you are not a degree holder. Diploma and certificate is not a total assurance that you will success. Success depends on you ability, if you persevere and continue despite of hardships, there’s a guarantee that you will handle yourself and secure your future well.
Twenty to Thirty is just a number, age will never determine when to achieve your goals. If you failed on the first take then it’s not yet your time. Try to take a risk again, if you failed its okay, try harder but never stop until you reach your goal in life.