September 27, 2020
We were out today, we went to my partner's aunt who was sicked. She was diagnosed to have cervical cancer, she already undergoes chemotherapy but her conditions got worse. After recovering a little from her chemotherapy sessions, her condition got worse only to find out there's a mass found on her liver, she's now diagnosed again with cancer on her liver. The doctors already give up and advised the family to pray for miracles since her condition cannot be saved by science anymore, she can't undergo chemotherapy again since her body is already weak. We pay a visit because she was bedridden now and we offer prayers, all the family members are there, we also gather to greet his husbands birthday.
His aunt was the one who supported his studies, his Aunt's husband is a Captain the one who convinced him to study Marine Transportation. They had a big house like a mansion, but it was a lonely house since both of them got sick, the Captain is also sicked due to Kidney failure. He is now undergoing dialysis twice a week, he was supposed to have a kidney transplant but there was a delay because the only donor had worms. If they will transplant that kidney with worms it will also transfer to him, so the donor is also on medication to kill those parasites.
Life status isn't permanent, every material thing we had will be useless in a blink of an eye, once we got sick. Money can help extend our life a little but it cannot guarantee to cure our sickness. With the money you can pay someone to do the works for you, you can pay someone to find the money for you, you can do whatever you want with the money. But you can never pay someone to carry the sickness for you.
Life is an echo whatever you do will always bounce back at you. That is why when we are still living in good condition, living on the edge of our success we should never look down on others, we should never think we are superior to anyone because nothing is permanent, everything you have was just a borrowed time or success. We should strive to be remembered with our good attributes, or good values rather than being remembered cruel.
Seeing the Aunt of my partner who once bullied us, who underestimated us, I feel pity for her and on her husband. They were against us, they don't like me for her nephew because I came from a poor family. They even judge me that I only after for his position, to think they aren't even a billionaire. My partner fight for me, if I were to write our detailed love story it's like "You and me against the world" lol. His family at first don't like me, they are all judgemental. The past is past now, seeing them sicked I felt pity for them. Wished they could have been more kind when they were still healthy.
We should strive not to offend anyone because we don't know what the future holds.
Praying for them. 🙏 I'm glad that your husband fight for you! And surely he sees the goodness in you that others don't.