Visiting Sicked In laws

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4 years ago

September 27, 2020

We were out today, we went to my partner's aunt who was sicked. She was diagnosed to have cervical cancer, she already undergoes chemotherapy but her conditions got worse. After recovering a little from her chemotherapy sessions, her condition got worse only to find out there's a mass found on her liver, she's now diagnosed again with cancer on her liver. The doctors already give up and advised the family to pray for miracles since her condition cannot be saved by science anymore, she can't undergo chemotherapy again since her body is already weak. We pay a visit because she was bedridden now and we offer prayers, all the family members are there, we also gather to greet his husbands birthday.

His aunt was the one who supported his studies, his Aunt's husband is a Captain the one who convinced him to study Marine Transportation. They had a big house like a mansion, but it was a lonely house since both of them got sick, the Captain is also sicked due to Kidney failure. He is now undergoing dialysis twice a week, he was supposed to have a kidney transplant but there was a delay because the only donor had worms. If they will transplant that kidney with worms it will also transfer to him, so the donor is also on medication to kill those parasites.

Life status isn't permanent, every material thing we had will be useless in a blink of an eye, once we got sick. Money can help extend our life a little but it cannot guarantee to cure our sickness. With the money you can pay someone to do the works for you, you can pay someone to find the money for you, you can do whatever you want with the money. But you can never pay someone to carry the sickness for you.

Life is an echo whatever you do will always bounce back at you. That is why when we are still living in good condition, living on the edge of our success we should never look down on others, we should never think we are superior to anyone because nothing is permanent, everything you have was just a borrowed time or success. We should strive to be remembered with our good attributes, or good values rather than being remembered cruel.

Seeing the Aunt of my partner who once bullied us, who underestimated us, I feel pity for her and on her husband. They were against us, they don't like me for her nephew because I came from a poor family. They even judge me that I only after for his position, to think they aren't even a billionaire. My partner fight for me, if I were to write our detailed love story it's like "You and me against the world" lol. His family at first don't like me, they are all judgemental. The past is past now, seeing them sicked I felt pity for them. Wished they could have been more kind when they were still healthy.

We should strive not to offend anyone because we don't know what the future holds.

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Praying for them. 🙏 I'm glad that your husband fight for you! And surely he sees the goodness in you that others don't.

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4 years ago

Yes, he fights for me. He can't leave me as you have read one of my articles, he is the only one who never leaves my side. After some conflicts with his family, there were times we agreed to break up but he still comes back haha, he can't leave me at all. He fights for me, I was about to give up too since I am tired and I want peace but I also consider his feelings, he doesn't want to lose me it would be unfair if I will just leave him when he didn't leave during my darker days.

Thank you, now I am also praying his Aunt will recover, I want her to witness how we will pay them off even after what they did to us, I mean gusto ko makita nila na kahit inapi nila kami di kami nagtatanim nang galit.

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4 years ago

good article

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4 years ago

That's why Jesus said that we should stop storing for ourselves treasures on the earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal. Rather, store up for ourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes, and where thieves do not break in and steal. Treasures on earth or material things and riches can be stole by thieves and we can't even bring them on our graves when we die but goodness, peace of mind and a kind heart will never be lost and we will die with a good name, and a good name I think is better than being rich with material things. And we (or you) should not have any grudge or resentment to those kinds of people because it's not good for our health as well 😊 I hope you can forgive them for the unpleasant things they did to you.

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4 years ago

Exactly storing wealth on earth is useless once we are sick or about to lose our life because we can't bring any of it.

Yes, I don't hold a grudge. I am easygoing, I let it all pass, I don't want to live with hate it's not healthy for me 😊 I don't want to get stress.

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4 years ago

The table is turned upside down.. lol.. but yeah i feel pity to those kind of people too despite of their bad doings in the past... we shouldn't judge others, eh ka nga, bilog and mundo... minsan nsa ilalim minsa nsa ibabaw... better be humble and kind to everyone

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4 years ago

take care

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4 years ago

Ang tataas ba ng tingin nila sa sarili noong namamayagpag sila? Ang daming ganyan din ee, king sino pa ung may mas pinag aralan yun pa yung ang kikitid ng utak, bat ganon. Yung ang daming sinasabi 😑.

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4 years ago

oo nga , ganon talaga tsk. Nasa huli ang pagsisi. Kaya dapat talaga di tayo magmataas kung nasa rurok man tayo nang tagumpay kase kung ibagsak tayo sobrang sakit

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4 years ago

Kaya nga, ngayon nararanasan nila ang ganyan, may mga anak naman siguro sila, di sila mahiintindi sa kanila, ang laki ng bahay pero ang lungkot. Maigi pa ang maliit ang bahay, basta kumpleto kayo masaya na

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4 years ago

Oo laki talaga nang bahay halos mag 1 hectare sa lawak kaso ang lungkot. Meron nmn sila anak kaso mga adopted nmn lahat. inaalagaan nmn sila.

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4 years ago

Ang laki laki namam tapos di pala namam sila mag aanak, sana manlang kahit mga kamag anak nila pinatira na nila sa bahay para sumaya saya. Haha, kaso baka ayaw nila sa magulo, mabuburyo wari ako sa ganon kalaking bahay. Ang yaman nila pero di naman ata sila mayaman sa pagmamahal.

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4 years ago

Oo nga yung captain may anak nmn na sarili pero sa ibang babae tapos tatlong adopted na.. nandon nmn yung dalawa isang nurse pero yung bunso nag aaral grade school pa lang.. yung dalawa may asawa na kaya, napakalaki nang bahay nila pero ang boring saka lang masigla don pag may gatherings don usually held kase malawak ang space.

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4 years ago

You're right. We never know what the future brings. We never know that the person you judged and underestimate in the past is the same person who can help you in the future

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Totoo yan, alam mo ba sa lahat nang pamangkin nang tita nya asawa ko lang nagbabayad nang utang ngayon yung iba wlang paki..

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4 years ago

Kaya dapat wag nagmamataas kasi bilog ang mundo. Hindi lahat ng oras nasa taas tayo , dadating din panahon na mangangailangan tayo. At masarap sa pakiramdam na tulungan tayo ng mga tao na tinulungan natin dati.

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Oo nga, tinutulungan nmn nila asawa ko kase sila nag pa aral pero ang dami ring hirap at masasakit na salita galing sa kanila.. kaya yun di nmn kami masaya sa nangyari pero masasabi mo na lang talaga na may karma talaga.

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4 years ago

Alam ko feeling ng ganyan haha. Pinag aral din ako ng tita ko non. Pero baon ko lang binibigay nya tapos kung makapamalita akala mo talagang pati tuition ko sagot nya. Nagpapasalamat naman ako na tinutulungan nila ko pero pinagkatulungan ko naman sa kanya yun. Kasa sama nya ko sa bahay, utusan ng kung ano ano haha. Kung tutulong ka dapat tutulong ka lang. Wala na yung sasabihan kapa ng kung ano ano na gusto magkaroon ka ng utang na loob sa kanila 😅

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Kaya nga, yun nga ginagawang katulong kunyari sila nagpa aral para sabihin nang ibang tao na ang bait nila pero alam mo na mga ugali hahaha. Haay nakaka awa nga kase sabay silang mag asawa ang mahal nang sakit nila tsk lahat nang napundar nila puro benta na lang

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4 years ago

Ganon na nga talaga mangyayari nyan. Wala ba silang anak?

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Wala sila sariling anak, puro adopted. Di sila biniyayaan magka sariling anak..tsk

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4 years ago

Ay ang lungkot naman.

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Wow so nice for this article. Thank you

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4 years ago