Under Construction!

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There comes a situation in our lives that everything seems a mess, you will start wondering if your life is worth to keep or if your life has some directions. You'll start thinking if you are walking on the right path or not.

I've been in this stage before, I suffered a lot dealing with my situation and seems like everything is a mess. I even started to think if there's even a point of living my chaotic life, but despite that I still manage to stay strong and never give up on my situation especially on myself even if it feels like it's not worth fighting anymore. I just realized recently that my life has been under construction.

You'll know that your life is under construction when you are in these situations

To determine if your life is just meaningless or if it's just under construction, there are some circumstances that you'll encounter and here are those;

You lost someone

Losing someone in all terms such as romantic relationship that ended, you think it was the right person for you but they left you. It hurts like it was the end of the world for you.

When you lose one of your love ones as they started their journey after life, you are hurting as it feels it's not yet the right time for them to leave you without realizing death is a natural phenomenon wherein we all die it's just a matter of when and who are gonna leave first.

Losing a friend out from betrayal, it's not easy to deal with losing a friend just because they betrayed you. It hurts like hell on your ego and in your heart that you trusted a friend so much but it ends up breaking apart just because of betrayal.

In all of those scenario, there's a lesson that was attached which is to be self reliance and never rely or attached yourself too much with other people just incase they'll left you, you can still manage to get up on your own. Except for deceased loved ones, it is natural that we are so attached with them but later on, as time goes by we will learn to let go of them slowly.

You lack something

You lack something that you can't define what really it is, confusion stage is crucial because it's hard to determine what was the missing piece of the puzzle in your life.

But as time flies, you'll learn to dig deeper within yourself what was really lacking and you'll start finding it or you'll start making it.

Finding what you lack when you are clueless is like getting to know more about yourself.

When situation aren't okay

There are scenarios in our lives that we encounter worst situation, when everything seems falling apart.

Please know that everything shall pass, there's always a sunshine after the storm.

You'll recognize later on that you encountered all those worst situation to strengthen you, to train you to be better so you can manage greater stuff ahead if you able to surpassed it.

When some things are broken

It's so frustrating when you broke something that is very valuable, once things are broken it will never be the same the way it was before.

But when you learn to fixed it, you can have some revisions or be artistic enough to give that broken thing a new face. Even yourself, you can actually fixed broken stuff if you wanted to, it might not be the same as it was before but you can always give a brand new look to yourself. Much better version than your old self.

Closing Thoughts

We all experience hardships in life not to ruin us but to prepare us for something bigger ahead. Just imagine building a building, observe how messy it was before it became a well constructed building. It has to undergo a lot of planning and a lot of works to be done inorder to make it a presentable building.

We we're constructed from the scratch to make us stronger, wiser, and be the best version of ourselves.

Therefore we should never give up during tough times, as it is molding us to be more suitable in greater things that may come to us in the future.

Stay still you are under construction!

Thank you for reading!

Date Published: December 10, 2021