← God, What Did I Do To Deserve All These Things In Life? I know asking God for my bad… by @Eybyoung
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Sana nga fiction lang to eh, pero hindi.. ang hirap pero kakayanin ko kasi may anak na ako yun na lang pag tuunan ko nang pansin.
Thanks, for now maybe I'll have to distance myself for healings. Thank for your time and enlightenment, I appreciate it.
Yan din muna gagawin ko, and if they need my help I'll still be there but not that I'm the one insisting it since she's trying to push me away anyway.
Saklap talaga nang kalagayan natin noh, panganay na lagi sasalo sa problema
Kaya nga. Hayyys
Hmmmm this is sad but we are not in position to judge our mothers for their bad attitude towards us I just wish you guys peace so that you can get along with each other because I can feel your pain from the day you were born it is not easy And I pray God change her mind towards you because you are not to be blame for coming into the world.
So much shit happening around us that we cannot lose our focus. The most important step is the next step. Just build a better future for yourself and your family 👪
Your mom must have some unresolved issues before madam that's why she behaves that way but it's not a justifiable reason to blame everything on you oy. Di jud tawon nimo sala nga ni exist ka sa world madam. You didn't choose to be here in the first place. Kung ana man galing, malabo jud nga mg reconcile mo sa imong mama although naa gud gyapon koy hope as long as we're still alive pero for now, focus lang sa sa imong sarili madam oy. Focus on what's now and the future for building your own family. Nurture your kid with love and unending support. Diha ibuhos tanan kuwang nga na feel nimo sa imong mama.
Yes madam, murag malabo najud.. I have to restructure my plans and focus na lang gyud sa akong own family ug sa akong anak, it pains me to do that but I have to do it so I can be mentally well for my daughter. Magdistansya na lang sa gyud ko madam, kay di na naku makaya after how many years wa lang gyud gyapon me magkasinabot. I really thought it's a new start for us pero it seems so impossible right now.
Keep strong po sa inyo. Lakasan nyo po palagi ang loob nyo. Sabi nyo nga po wag pa rin ijudge ang mother nyo despite of what happened pero masasabi ko po na bakit ganun naman po ang mother nyo. Pero keep going lang po at yung mga sakit na nararamdaman nyo po ay mapapalitan din po yan ng saya someday.
Iwan ko nga bakit sya ganyan sakin, hayaan ko na lang muna.. mag focus na lang ako sa own family ko for now. Salamat.
Opo yung intindihin at iprioritize nyo na lang po ay yung anak nyo at family nyo po.
One day you will win the war. This is not a battle dear friend, it is definitely a war. Such a inhumane behaviour you have get from your childhood. This is an explicit violation of human rights. We all have birth right to bringing up in a healthy environment.
Thank you, yeah indeed we have human rights but somehow she's trying to take it away from me too
Sorry about this ma'am eybyoung. Parang di ko maimagine yung naramdaman mo ma'am eybyoung habang pinagsalitaan ka ng ganun ng mom mo ma'am. 🥺 Always be strong ma'am eybyoung. I know merong mga brighter days for you and God is always there for you also.
Grabi talaga, pag naalala ko yung younger me talagang napapaiyak ako. I'm just so thankful of the younger me who didn't give up despite the harsh treatment she's been through. Yung feeling na wala kang malapitan, feeling na nag-iisa ka lang, glad the younger self survive it.
grabe jud kaayo sad imong mama madam oi...kanang okay ra man nga babaan ka nga tawo pero kung engun anang balikason unya basulon ka...grabe nakahilak ko sa iyang gihimo madam ay
Grabi madam noh, unya siya akong ma storyahan karon mura na jud naku syag gi daug daug. Nag ingun pa nga ga dumot daw ko nya, kung nagdumot pa ko di na lang unta ko mag huna huna nya ug motabang nya. Kabalo jud mo madam unsa ko kalipay nga nahimuan syag gamayng tindahan pero in the end ako pa ang dautan, nga hilas na kaayo ko kay kwartahan naku.. di daw ko palabi kay ang kwarta mahurot grabi dulot sa akong kalag ang kasakit maong tibook adlaw ko naghilaka, nga ako pa nahimong dautan after all sa iyang gipang buhat naku 😭
engun ana ang mga tawo nga di kamao ma kuntento madam ug di sad kamao magpasalamat...kay lage anak so need mo bawos sa ginikanan pero unta dili lang siya mag engun ana kay nanignuha man sad ka nga makatabang sa iyaha
Maojud madam, gaka sense man gud naku pag mo ingun ko mag tipid naku kay naa naku kaugalingon pamilya di ko forever maka support na sa inyo.. unya upcoming among kasal murag gakalain sya. Wala gani sya paki dghan kaayo tao nag adtos balay pag abot sa ako bana, dako amo nagasto imbis magtipid.. kay nag sige pang invite apil ako mga manghud. Okay raman jud unta mugasto musabot lang sad unta nga mao pa pagsugod sa career sa ako bana ug ubos pud kaayo ang crypto mao di ta basta basta maka cash out ug kwarta. Mo ingun na dayon sya gapa moyboy daw ko, paita.
para nako madam no suwerte na jud unta kaayo imong mama kay bisan gi unsa iya pag trato sa imo sauna naa gihapon ka ug andam mo tabang...wa niya nakita imong effort madam..
The answer is, God is with you. He is walking with you. God never promised everything to go well in your life. Open up to Him daily in the words of the Bible, let him in to your heart, and you'll see. It does sound to me like you're dealing with some very narcissistic individuals in your life, as I have. This web site has links to publications that really helped me, written by Renee Pitelli. https://luke173ministries.org/ There are also a couple books I would recommend, they helped me very much: https://www.boundariesbooks.com/products/boundaries-updated-expanded-edition https://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/the-first-will-be-last
hangtod karon wla pa sya ga get-over gyud. ilabina nga grabe sad jud iyang naagi-an! sus, dili ko ka imagine. "disgrasyada" man sad ko, sa 2nd child kay namatay man ako bana and i choose not to padayon. Good kay ako man ang wla nipadayon pero imo mama man... looy! ilabina nag expect sya and mahagsa tanan iyang mga pangandoy plus ang mga tao, grabe manulti... Granted sad sa iyang sitwasyon may lang unta ni dapig iyang ginikanan niya before but if wala, mas grabe ang kanchaw, bogal-bogal (sa mga laki/standby sa iyo) ug uban pa... though dili justifiable nga gi ingon-ana ka niya basin usa sad angid ka ug nawng sa imong papa, mao na ur a reminder of her mistake. Dako naman ka, maka decide naka mag unsa ka! pero go far away for the meantime and find yourself. Sa city or someplace... I have a place here in cebu city and your welcome to stay... just me and my kids, if you like to visit, you're welcome. Pero pinubre lang ta ha! hihihi...
Salamat sa offer dam, I appreciate your care. Actually minyoonon naku naa ko sa poder sa ako banahonon karon, maong ani na lang gyud guro dri na lang ko kaysa didto kos akong mama ma stress rakog samot.
May mga nanay talagang ganyan sis..Lalo pag may pinagdaanan na Hindi maganda..Ang pagkakamali lang nila is ibunubunton nila Yung Galit nila sa anak nila..I know deep inside mahal ka din nya..dahil walang inang Hindi Mahal Ang anak nila..Yung pride lang talaga nya Yung umaatake sa kanya..hoping na marealize din nya lahat ng pagkakamali ay pagkukulang nya sayo biglang Ina. 🙂
Ang part na balikason, always ko kadawat ana. Kanang palayason ug uban pa. Bunalan ug ayo to the point na naay bun-og, gakiang2, nagkasamad2. Grabe lang jud modisiplina ako mama. Pero kanang moinom.ug insecticide kay wala kauyon na naa ka tapos balikason ka pagdako, murag lahi najud na. Despite sa imu kaagi, blessed japon ka. Isa na ana kay ang gift of life and until now surviving japon ka. Naa pakay chance para makuha ang genuine happiness. Di man nato jud mahibawan ang plano ni Lord, pero later on makaingom rajud ta na ang mga problema na iya ginahatag kay para mahimu tang strong. If we pray for strength, He will give us problems para makagain tag strength. If we pray for confidence, tagaan ta niyag something para machallenge ta nga makaahat tag paconfident2. Fake it until we make it lugar. I once was a crying baby during my college days until nagkawork ko because of family problem. Almost nagbulag ako parents, but slowly, naanam na nako kadawat na dili mabalik ang sauna. Naabot ko sa point gihate nako ako papa kay as the eldest, siya ako first love. But atong gilet go na nako tanan kasakit, naaccept unsa ang naa, naokay na ako pamati. Hopefully, malet go nimu ang hatred and slowly maforgive nimu imu mama. It's a long and difficult path to take, pero maabot rajud na. Okay ra ang mohilak or unsa ba, basta ipabilin ang salig kay Lord, and kadasig para malet go nimu tanan. Praying for your healing and genuine happiness. 🙏
Salamat, yes na forgive naman unta naku sya pero tanan naku ginabuhat kay di pa man gyapon enough para nya ako pa dautan. Pero enough na uy, bahala sya.. gusto kug peace of mind, ug di sya naku di na naku ipugos akong kaugalingon. Ma pride lang gyud kaayo sya. Lisud makig kauban sa taong close minded as in, kay ug imo ma storyahan mo ingun ako na lang sya ga yano yanohon kay kwartahan naku, asa kaha kwarta aning dapita lol.
So sad, you had to go through all this alone, but in all these, you are more than victorious . that is what the bible told us. Tough time comes and goes but you will always survive it...
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