Moving Out From Inlaws

I've been living with my in-laws for almost 5 years and it's quite not an easy journey of adjustment and adapting. I won't say much anymore what leads me to do the biggest decisions in my life to move out alone without my husband.

Don't get me wrong, we're still in good terms it's just that he was not here when we moved out with my daughter because he's on board. He's a sailor, so he's away from home most of the time.

I moved out from my in-laws as I badly need to breathe, to have freedom and to grow as a parent and as individual. Before I move out, I even asked PVM advice and he helped me enlightened my mind and do the “do or die” decisions. Then, finally we moved out.

We are currently renting in Valencia City Bukidnon, I chose the place far from my relatives and my husband's side. I just want to live in an environment without someone knowing my background. I want to live as a stranger and be with strangers as it is less toxic, less drama and gossips.

We moved out last July 31, 2023. We actually had a misunderstanding with mum in-law 3 days before we moved out. I just finished some of my task from my side gigs, so I can move out with less worries as I did not compromise my job. It's just a trivial issues but I decided to move out finally because I don't want to happen it again, she's ill and I don't want to be blame if ever something happens to her.

Before we moved out we've talked and sort out the misunderstanding, though things won't never be the same but at least we are civil with each other. It's not my intention to fight with my in-laws, she's my husband's mom but it's just that she's too overbearing most of the times and I have this frank attitude too, so yeah we don't agree to disagree sometimes.

I've talked so much already LOL. After moving out I've never felt so free like this since 5 years ago. Just to celebrate my freedom, I've colored my hair into red HAHAHAHA!

It's also a birthday treat for myself as I celebrated my birthday last September 16. We celebrated it with my siblings and just dine in an eat all you can buffet restaurant, here in the place we currently residing.

Btw, just want to update and say hi to everyone here! Hope everyone is doing fine! My next update will be about my freelancing journey as a content writer. I miss writing here though.

Also, I'd like to thank PVM for always listening and replying to my nonsense even if we're not on the same page anymore (pursuing crypto) as I'm very busy with life and my Freelancing. He's truly a friend, like a kuya to me!

Ciao!