Let them judge you but just keep on shining like you do.

August 16, 2022. Tuesday.

We can't do anything about what other people want to think about us. Because we can't control their minds. So we usually just tell ourselves to let them have what they want to say about us.

And while I was looking and searching in the internet for a quote about judgmental people, I found this one.

I was impressed by what this phrase or quote wanted to convey, that's why I thought of making an article.

Let them judge you.

Just like I said earlier, we can't please all people so sometimes we just let them judge us. It's really hard to control someone from whatever they say about us even if you show them only goodness. So we tell ourselves to let them have their lives, let them say what they want to say and let them do what they want as long as we know to ourselves that we are not doing anything wrong to them.

Let them misunderstand you.

Sometimes we know that there are misunderstandings between us and other people, so that sometimes it causes bad things to happen. We will hear some words from them that will sometimes be bad because they don't understand us. The only important thing is that we know ourselves what is true and they don't see it. Sometimes when a person doesn't like you, no matter what you say, they won't believe you, but I say leave those kinds of people alone. Those people who immediately judge us even if they don't know us yet and if we talk, they won't listen to us. Lets say no to such kind of people.

Let them gossip about you.

This is the current trend. Whether you did something bad or not, people will still talk about you. If before they would talk to you while you turned your back, now it's different, even if you're facing and you can hear them by yourself, they'll talk about you. Chismosas or Marites have such a thick face today, they are not really shy anymore. So let's just let them do what they do. We know from ourselves that if we just talk to them, we will waste our time because usually the gossip they accuse about us is not true.

Their opinions aren't your problem.

What they want to say is not really our problem anymore. We're out of there. All the words that come out of their mouths should be ignored by us. Let them say whatever they want. After all, it's a person's right to say what's inside of them or what's their opinion, so we can't do anything about it. That's why we who have broad understanding should just understand them. We will only get into a fight if we contradict what they say. So let's not think too much about their opinions about us. As long as possible, let's just do the things that we think are right and we won't be affected by their opinion.

You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.

Let's just stay kind because God always blesses the kind. And kind people always stay away from troubles. And another quote says "Kill them with kindness". Maybe if we show them our kindness without stopping and we don't hit them, they will get bored. Another one, let's stay committed to love, let's always choose love. May love always reign in our hearts. Let's not keep anger and hatred in our hearts because it will not be good for us. Until we can always choose to be kind and loving, let's choose it. And let's not be afraid to show everyone who and what we really are. It's not our fault if they don't like us because the important thing is that we really bring out the real us and we don't pretend to be one.

No matter what they do or say, don't you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.

You shouldn't doubt yourself because of what other people say about you. We are all born good and beautiful, we just have differences and our beauty is not the same. But no matter what happens, love yourself because no one else will do that for you but you only. Just like they say, always love, but don't give all your love to others, always save for yourself. And no matter what they say, just will always be proud of the real you and love the beauty that you have.

And always remember,

Just keep shining like you do.

And I'll just leave you with a saying that we've heard it all the time.

"Alam mo lang ang pangalan ko pero hindi mo alam ang mga pinagdaan ko"

English translation:

"You only know my name but you don't know what I've been through"

Each of us probably knows what that means so I won't explain it anymore.

So to all the judgemental out there, all I can say to you is that you don't know what everyone is going through, so I hope you all choose to be kind.

And that's all for today. I hope you liked this article and I hope you enjoyed reading it. Thank you very much and Happy Tuesday.

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