3 sides to every story

They are always three sides to every story, my side, your side, and the truth.

In other to be able to settle any conflict at all be it friendship Conflict, family conflict, peer conflict, country conflict or even domestic violence, you must first of all hear from both sides which I refer to as my side and your side, then be before you finally settle it, if you are a wise person then you must have find out the truth side.

Every individual has his or her own side of a story, although many people often say their sides in their favor or just to get sympathy, while others say their side of the story just the way it happened, that is why it is advisable to always hear from both sides.

Listening to only one side of story and giving judgment is a very wrong thing to do, you can't be able to settle conflict or dispute that way. Instead you will create more problems.

Before venturing to resolving any conflict, quarrel or dispute always make sure that all the parties involving in it, are there by so doing you can hear from both parties, and give a fair judgment, or settle the matter amicably.

In other to be able to give good judgment or solution to any problems, dispute or conflict you must be able to get the truth side from the both parties side of the story.