If you think born male is a blessing and previleged, think hundred times because being male is natural and inborn responsibility. Its a natures law that male should be the Alpha.

Introduction

I want to express my creative writing, Being Dude Never Been Easy. Is a series of thoughts and expressions of free will to write.

It will help you to understand your husband, boyfriend, father, brother and male friend if you wasnt naturally born dude. Because you may had things you not understand and not even seen to them.

Why your father is too much protective? Why your boyfriend alwayd says no? Why your brother is so anoyying in his actions.

And if you are a dude, you might find yourself in the cauldron.

Being Dude Never Been Easy but Never Been That Hard. ❤

Who's the Alpha?

The pack of wolves has a mighty male alpha, the pride of lion has a great leader. And the house you belong has the "haligi ng tahanan" or pillar of the home.

Being Dad Never Been Easy

You are too young to understand that your dad is doing his best to be the Alpha. You were too scared to see that hes also scared that you could hate him for bitting you when you were young.

The only thing that is in your mind is hate, you hate him. So you did a rebel thing and being dad never been easy, because his feeling is too deep that he could not express it to a word.

1. He must provide you food. Feeding you and hes other youngs is a lifetime responsibility, began when his first child was born. He must fed you first even starve his self. He must work with nothing in his stomach to filled yours

2. He must provide shelter. Emagine you and the rest of the family is sitting in the couch, you heard a loud sound of wind, a thundestorm and big fall of rain. Hes watching you while watching the whole house, and if ever time comes he needs to evacuate you. The house is shelter but not the safest one.

3. He must provide you education. Lots of story to tell, how brave a father to enroll you to college without even thinking if he could afford the allowance and the tuition.. Because he only knew thats he need to provide you the thing he doesn't recieved.

4. He must be the frontline. Emagine again, you heard a large knocking on a door. He touch your back and said to get hide, while he is going close to the door.

5. He must love you. Its too complicated to express love for a father. A fear looking man kising your forehead? But giving you the the first 4 is far enough from love.

Different kind of Dad

Tell me what kind of Dad you had!

1. Sweet Dad.

He's so affectionate that he doesnt care what people think about his corny jokes, wacky face just to make you smile or laugh.

2. Serious Dad.

He has this wild looking eyes that could make you feared him. Everything in his actions are so serious.

3. Cool Dad.

He want just to be your bestfriend and want to hang out with you in a mellinial ways.

4. Other Dad.

Maybe your Dad doesnt mentiom here. Its time for you to share what you had. 😍

Being Step Dad Never Been Easy

I admired those Dad who cares on a family they not blood related.

Being stepdad is being a great man. Blood is thicker than water as they say, but respect and love is the best foundation of true family.

Being a Step Dad is never been easy, I had this friend who is now a step dad at the ages of 22. Why? Becuase of judgement society.

He had to face the reality that being stepdad of young age is not a good choice, that he could ignore his own families word just to prove he's worth as father.

Some child doesnt accept thier stepdad and I dont here to judge but to listen.

Eunoia (Wise Thinking)

Being Dad is a gift, some of us wishes to be but not everyone is destined to be a real father. Real or not, dude as father is a great responsibility, and it wan'st easy.

Some father is also a mother to his child, those single dad who choose to give all the attention to his child is far more incredible than cool.

And there will always be a father figure, for those who lived without. Maybe uncle or older brothers serves as thier father.

If you had a father right now, your lucky enaugh.

UP NEXT:

"Being Boyfriend is Never Been Easy". So whos in a relationship right now? Or want one? Find out to my next article 😍.

Hi This is Eunoia, thank you for reading with me today.

To God Be The Glory 😍