"Sorry"
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`Saying sorry will never kill you but it will make you a peaceful person in life and if you are the type that says sorry it doesn't make you a fool but a wise and mature mind.`
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Yesterday I was so exhausted because of the hair I went to make for my customer on getting home in the afternoon I couldn't do anything other than to relax while I was taking the nap my phone rang that I should come and take my order from the app(jumia app) I shop for items I will be needing for my shop though they didn't bring all the items because some are not ready yet but here the one I got yesterday's evening.
And that is why I was unable to post yesterday my head was totally blocked after all the stress I went through yesterday so am so sorry if I didn't visit your article yesterday I will try all my possible best to go around today thanks for understanding.
So back to the topic of today which is "**sorry**"
The word **"Sorry"** is just a five-letter word but it goes a very long way in this life and that is why anytime we are wrong we should always say sorry to the person we wronged being old or children it is very important to say the word "sorry" because you don't who is who in this life.
It is a very small word and even little self but as little as it is, it can scatter family, friendship, relationships, and even the whole world because if you are feeling too big to say sorry to people you wronged then you should be ready for the outcome of feeling too big and rude to people it might even have a bad effect on your coz people won't want to correct you when you are wrong for they already know you are feeling too big to say sorry when you wrong someone.
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There is a girl in my former church she's the pastor's daughter a very beautiful girl and she speaks good English as well so with this her fluent English she thinks she's above everyone, what use to surprise me then is the fact that her mom will back her up to feel too big over her mates in the church.
She works in a pharmacy as a pharmacist so one day she took a multivitamin tablet from the shop without her boss's permission then when her boss finds her she sent her home and when she got home her mom supported her actions saying: it is where you work now that shouldn't be a big deal.
But her dad doesn't support her he practically told her to go back and say sorry for taking something without permission but she refused to do that she told her dad that she wasn't wrong about anything and her mom supported her that she shouldn't go and say **sorry** to her boss but she didn't.
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Because of that she stops going to work from there she started lying up and down the church that she's in school that's why she stops working though we all believed her because she's a pastor's daughter, she will go out from morning till night to God knows where and when she comes back home she will lie that she's coming from school until one day she fainted during the Sunday service and she was rush to the hospital only to find out that she's pregnant.
Her mom couldn't cover it up because everyone already has a clue of what is wrong with the girl so to avoid bad comments they did a very quick wedding for her and her God knows spouse with their own money they even rent a house for them with their money, well that's is where feeling too big pushed her too because at the end of everything she was sent back to her parent's house for been rude and she doesn't know how to handle anything called house chores and when her husband complains she doesn't know how to say sorry she will still be claiming that she's right about everything she does.
The fact that you are someone's daughter doesn't give you the right not to say sorry when you are wrong, the fact that you know too well doesn't give you the right to step on people's toes it's only God that knows what is affecting her life.
Some parents are the reason why their children's life is not balanced because as a parent you both are supposed to discipline your children with one voice not that when the father is saying no mother will be saying yes.
Assuming her mom wasn't supporting her, she might not find herself been a single mom at that tender age of hers.
Train your children how to apologize whenever they are wrong because it is what you teach them they will live with forever and when a child knows how to apologize for being wrong he or she won't miss the road in life.
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We are meant to be
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*Good afternoon my beautiful read family how are you all doing today? I don't know why am being lazy today maybe I need I break from social life because I was supposed t have written my article last night but I slept off since 6:30pm and I woke up 5:30am this morning.*
*So I did some house chores like washing plate sweeping etc so when I finish with all that I switched to laundry because I haven't washed since Monday to avoid over laundry during the weekend that's why I wash today and after that, I took my phone to make some noise then I slept off again aww lazy me I guess my body needs enough rest and that's is why I haven't been able to post my article since morning.*
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*Back to the story of Jerry and Jessy the concluding part titled "we are meant to be"*
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Jerry call the number on the complementary card Jessy gave him the last time they spoke and it was a guy that pick the call but Jerry played mature he didn't hang up he just told the guy he wants to speak with Jessy then he handed over the phone bro Jessy they both greet each other and Jessy told Jerry to see her in her office tomorrow so that she can figure something out for him when he ends the call he told his mother I guess Jessy is married and his mother asks why he said so he then told her what happened on the phone that it was a guy that picks the phone up but his mother told him to take heart and go because of the job and not because of his love for her since she's already married now at least they can just be friends so that Jessy can help them.
The next morning Jerry woke up so early to prepare himself because he doesn't want to be late for the appointment Jessy gave him and when he got to Jessy's office he met a guy at the reception then he ask Jerry to hold on so he can call his boss that she has a visitor after the call the reception guy ask Jerry to go Inside the office and he went with the hope of just getting a job.
When he entered Jessy stood up and move closer to Jerry then gave him a very nice kiss on his lips Jerry couldn't move an inch because he was shocked at Jessy's action but he summon the courage to talk to her and he said: Jessy what are you doing?
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**Jessy**: I kissed you is there a crime in it?
**Jerry**: no but
**Jessy**: but what?
**Jerry**: are you not married?
**Jessy**: to who?
**Jerry**: then who picked your call last night
**Jessy**: what night? That wasn't night it was just 6:30pm and the guy that picked the call in seating at the reception out there
**Jerry**: so are you saying you are still single
**Jessy**: yeah and am ready to mingle with you and you only
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Jerry felt so happy is like as if he just won a jackpot the way he shouted yes! Finally, I will be with the love of my life thank you God, ha I have been thinking that I can't cope with any other lady and that is why I have been single all through my school days.
Jessy replied well I have been single all through too because my dad threatened to disown me if I don't finish my education before I go into a relationship with any guy so that means we are both meant for each other, they both laugh, hug, kiss inside the office after some minutes of all the romantic moment Jerry came back to his senses and said ha Jessy you haven't checked my documents.
Jessy smile so deep and said: do I need to check when I know what you are capable of I already knew what will be inside so don't worry about that just let us enjoy this beautiful and romantic moment first because I have never experienced it before in my life all I do is study and after study work.
After some months of being together (Jerry and Jessy) they got married and Jessy's father will his property for Jerry because he knew him too well to be a very responsible guy right from when he was little.
That's the end of the story, thanks for reading.
Our Love Chemistry
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Sometimes what we are looking for all over the city is right in front of us at home but because we didn't use our inner eye to look then we didn't see it and that is Jerry's case.
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Jerry backed Jessy while blending the pepper and Jessy was busy buying some other things from his mom as he finish blending he turned to give the pepper to her and that was how he looked at her face and they both shout what! From there conversation started
**Jerry**: wow Jessy you look so beautiful and elegant meh
**Jessy**: blushing, thank you but what are you doing here?
**Jerry**: well this is where I came from I am a pepper seller son
**Jessy**: wow pepper seller son but how come you never told me then
**Jerry**: you didn't allow me to because you have made up your mind to leave
**Jessy**: no it wasn't what you think, see my dad doesn't want me to go astray that was why he warned me to stay away from any man am seeing so that I can focus on my studies and after our secondary school he sent me Abroad to finish my University there and have been looking for you ever since I came back
**Jerry**: I thought you were done with me that is why you didn't call me again I never knew you are not in the country but are you back here finally
**Jessy**: yeah I am because I have to handle my dad's investment you know as the only child of the family since my mom is not there anymore I have to take it up
**Jerry**: Oh that's good and it's so good to see you
**Jessy**: so what do you do for a living now?
Jerry replied without being ashamed of selling pepper
**Jerry**: smile I sell pepper for now
**Jessy**: what! You can't be serious how can you be selling pepper you the best student in our school back then you even graduated with first class in the university still you can't find a job
**Jerry**: that's what the country gave me in return for serving them o
They both laugh and Jessy gave Jerry her complementary card that he should call her when he's less busy but Jerry's mother was wondering where his son knew some as rich as Jessy but you know how Nigerians mothers do she practically listen to all their conversation and when Jessy finally left she quickly came outside from the shop and ask Jerry where he knew such a big girl with class
Jerry smile and said she was my girlfriend when I was in secondary school then and his mother jump up and started singing a worship song, Jerry just stood and watch all her drama then after she dances finish he now asks: mom why are you singing? Why are you happy? And the mother replied: omo mi (my child) don't you say she used to be your girlfriend then you should pick it where you both drop it so that she can take us away from this suffering
Jerry laugh at his mom and said so you want me to marry a girl because of money?
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The mother answered but you were both lovers before now? Jerry replied her: mom stop you don't even know if I still love her or what if she's married? See mom am not ready for any relationship now because I don't want any woman to control me because she helped me
The mother felt like hmmm you are right is just that this suffering is becoming unbearable look at you a graduate blending pepper for undergraduates it doesn't sound well my son just follow your heart ok but I like the girl Sha Jerry looked at his mom and said mother you too like better thing
They laughed together and joke about the matter all through the day but deep within Jerry he can't wait to have Jessy all to himself
Watch out for the concluding part tomorrow and thanks for reading...
This is just a fiction story made by me
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You and I
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Good morning/ Good afternoon/good evening to everyone here all over the world and how was your day
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***You*** *and* ***I*** *is a story of a young man who thinks God has forgotten him because he couldn't find a job after he graduated with a good grade from the University but God has a way of surprising everyone at the right time, stay tuned.*
Jerry was a graduate from the University but ever since he signed out of school he has been looking for a job but he couldn't find any and he doesn't want to go back to his mother's house knowing that she's expecting him to take care of her, meanwhile, the main reason he chooses not to go back home is because he doesn't want to add to his mother's problem since she's just managing a very small business to feed herself.
Jerry then moved in with his friends which he got to know at the youth service though he doesn't know much about them but he thinks he can cope since they are all guys, one morning Jerry dressed up to look for work all around the city but all his efforts were wasted because he trekked miles back to his house where he is managing with his friends.
When he got home he didn't knock since they are guys he just enter only to find out that the 3 other guys smoke and drink but he couldn't say anything because he has no say over anything in the house he just went straight into his room and packed all his belongings together to leave for his mother's house since nobody pursues him in his mother's house.
As he went back into the parlor all of his friends were already drunk so he couldn't say goodbye to them then he left since he doesn't like what they are doing, we all know it is the kind of friends we move with that people will use to judge us and he doesn't want that at all, all he wanted is a cool life working class and living a low key life but with all of these friends that can't happen so he has to leave to where there is rest of mind for him.
On getting home his mother was so happy to see him again because ever since he left for youth service he hasn't returned back home, they both hug each other so tight after that they went inside then his mother started asking about work and Jerry nearly cried as he narrates all his efforts been in vain and what those guys have been doing to him then his mother said to him: "**there is no place like home**" meanwhile don't forget that "**when there is life there is hope**" says his mother
She then went outside to cook for him after he finish eating he now went outside to sell market with his mom because that was where she gets money to send him to school so Jerry wasn't ashamed of his mother being a pepper seller, after arranging the pepper he swept everywhere and clean the blender they use to blend for people.
His mother felt happy to see her son doing all that without complaining or irritating simply because some other children in the street that she has seen won't do that for their mother so she look up to the sky and said: "**Lord I thank you for the kind of son you gave me**" Jerry looked back and smile then he continues taking care of his mother's shop.
When he finish washing the blender he stretch his hand with a bowl of water to pour on the road only to find out that he pour it on someone's body he couldn't look up to see the person's face he just went on his knees and start begging because he noticed that the lady came down from a big car to buy pepper from them so he was so shocked that he pour pepper water on a rich lady's body
*please ma am so sorry I never look back if someone was coming please am sorry ma says Jerry on his knees in front of Jessy.*
Jessy just said: it's ok as Jerry heard her voice he melt because the voice was too sweet then he began to beg her more please madam am sorry by that time his mom has knelt down with him to beg the lady whom Jerry poured pepper water on
But she kept on saying: it's ok you two can stand up am only here to buy pepper so they both stood up his mother package pepper for her while Jerry gets prepared to blend it for her and he couldn't look at her face because he was feeling guilty of what happened.
To be continued.....
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Have you ever?
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Hello beautiful people from all over the continent, happy new week to everyone and how was your weekend I hope you enjoyed it very well, mine was great.
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This topic just flashed into my mind without knowing what to write about it but then I remembered a scene that happens some years back when I was still living with my sister.
I use to be a phone call girl if you are from Nigeria you will understand that better then there is one woman in front of the house where my phone call shop is she's called mummy Sandra, mummy Sandra is a police officer sometimes she's always at home during the weekend and anytime she's at home she do come to my little shop to play with me and her girl Sandra is just a secondary school girl, a very beautiful and fair girl like that.
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One afternoon, I was inside my korope shop (kiosk) playing a game on my phone when someone just bagged on me then I look outside only to find out that it was Sandra then she said please help me to keep this paper and I collected it from her so she left
After one our am about to go outside for lunch then my eye just went back to where I kept the piece of paper so I took it and open to see what is inside *hmmmm all these girls eh sometimes you will be looking at them that they don't know anything but they already knew more than you can ever imagine*, back to my story it was a love letter and guess who owns the letter her class teacher.
I quickly look outside of my shop to see if she's coming or not then I proceed reading the letter: "**good morning sir, I only want to ask you some few questions and here it goes- have you have been brokenhearted before? Have you ever fallen in love before? Have you ever been married before? Sorry for asking you sir is just that I think am falling in love with you and every time you are teaching us in the class is like it should just be you and I".**
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As I finish reading the letter I felt like wow such a little girl could write this to her teacher? Anyways I won't hold this paper for her anymore because if her mother finds out she might think am the one teaching her bad thing meanwhile as old as I am I don't even know anything about it love letter then, so when I went to their room and knock thank God her mom is not yet back from work so I gave it back to her, from that day and I act like as if I don't know what is inside the paper.
The next morning everyone has gone to school her mom just came to me and asked that have I ever written a love letter before? and I said no because she knew her daughter always play with me so she wanted to find out if am the owner of the letter, I even told her I don't know how to go about it then she left that but to my surprise, she didn't go to the office just because of the letter she found in her girl's wardrobe I guess she's waiting for the girl to come back from school.
In the afternoon after school, I was just hearing noise from their house but I never stood up from where I was coz my sister has warned me that I shouldn't go and watch a fight because here in Lagos if you stand to watch something must have lost in your body so I didn't go there
The girl just ran outside and her mom followed they both came to meet me then the mother asked if I knew about the letter then I said no but she gave me one piece of paper yesterday and I never bothered to check what was inside it
The mother now narrated everything to me that she's dating her class teacher and I act along with her as if I didn't know before then but seriously I was disappointed in that girl because the teacher doesn't have anything to do with her he only wants to have his way and get down with her
Pardon my long story is just that sometimes when I see some little girls going to school in my area that scene always flashback on my head because I never expected such a young girl to know what is called dating not to talk of someone older than her in everything to be her boyfriend, sometimes I wonder what is pursuing young girls of nowadays into a relationship.
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Give and Take
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What were your thoughts when you see the topic? give and take well don't misunderstand what am talking about there is a difference between giving someone something and taking something from them.
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**For instance**
You give someone money and take goods from them that is not what am talking about, the give and take am talking about is between you and life, some even misquote it to giving their body and get something back in return.
When I was looking for a bank job after my school I got an email from access bank that I should come for an interview at Lagos island only to get there I found out that am not the only one that will be interviewed that day but I keep calm since it's outside interview and not hotel interview.
1 hour later we are all asked to enter the bank and we sat down because they have arranged chair there already so one lady asked that what are we doing here because to her it doesn't look like an interview so one of the bank staff answered and said we are doing seminar and training on how to sell on the field
Another girl asks: sell on the field what are we selling? The man said we are marketers we will go out there and get people to open accounts with the bank then I said but I got an email saying that I will work as a cashier so why marketing?
The man answered again it is when you bring more people that you can be promoted to a cashier, there was this beautiful girl beside me she just stood up and walks majestically and seductively outside even the man lecturing us lost concentration over her walk.
When she came back inside I just noticed that the man started directing questions to her and when she answered he will just smile so deep and I got pissed then I stood up that am leaving when I got outside one of the bank's staff ran after me and he stopped me only to open his mouth and say: **see you don't have to leave because this is going to be a great opportunity for you** and I told him I don't want to be a marketer he then said ok just lemme have you number should Incase any good offer comes out he will call me.
Who wouldn't want a good offer so I gave him my digit and left, after two days he called as he promised then he said there is a cashier post now but there is a price to pay for it I just smiled and I said name it because I thought it was money he's asking for so he said we have to hang out and have fun together then he will process the job for me, I was surprised because this person in question is not the bank manager is just a cashier at the bank according to what he told me meanwhile he said you know that you have to use what you have to get what you want then I now understood where he's going I didn't even argue with him I just hang-up on him and block his number immediately.
Only God knows how many girls he will have slept with all because of " **use what you have to get what you want**" this is not a give and take at all it is totally wrong for a woman to give her body in exchange for anything even the Bible says: **our body is HIS temple.** So automatically we mustn't use it anyhow
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The give and take am talking about is work and gain remember this quote which says: "**no pain no gain"** what you give is work and what you will get is gain not the other way around but nowadays majority of ladies don't want to work but they want to gain and that is why they keep giving their body to take material things.
Imagine a girl that finish her secondary school who doesn't learn work or do salary work but yet she keeps wearing expensive clothes meanwhile her family is not rich where did you think she's getting all of it? I guess she's giving her body to get it all. In my area, they are so plenty here and when you advise them they will say after all my boyfriend is a Yahoo(internet fraudster) so why do I have to work, ever parents should teach their children that give and take is not for giving your body at all because the rate at which young girls are looking for money is too high.
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What did you give?
What did you give? You can't give what you don't have despite all that God gave us and what nature gives us along with what human gives you, what did you give?
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*Hello everyone it is a beautiful Friday morning here and a rainy morning as well thank God it's Friday {TGIF}.*
God gave everyone what they want because He has sufficient things in his hand, God provides for everyone because He has so many things and He blesses abundantly because He owns everything we have in life.
****Now to the nature****
Nature gives without hesitation, nature gives a lot of things like flowers to beautify the world.
Night for all the living souls to rest, can we all count how many nights we have slept ever since we came to this world? That's how good nature is to humans.
Day for everyone living thing to strike their goals and to have new hope for new things
Sun to brighten everyone's day water to quench our taste and refresh our lives
Food to keep us alive because without food even animals would have died so we need food to survive in life that's also the work of nature.
This all are the work of nature and what it gives is what it has
****Now back to human****
As a human what did you give to God?
What did you give to nature?
What did you give to people?
What did you give to your family?
What did you give to yourself?
When I say what did you give am sure some of us will be thinking of money and I know you will also be saying I don't have money so how do I give? Yeah you don't have money but what about your care, attention, love, and listening ears to people
***"Everything is not all about money"***
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I saw one status yesterday on my WhatsApp, they are a young couple trying to survive after their wedding and so the wife ask her husband for money though she knew he doesn't have but she only ask to let him know that she needed the money but instead for the husband to calm down and tell her he doesn't have he shouted at her saying: **hey I don't have money and you know it so stop asking for what I don't have.**
Then he went off to work without listening to what she wanted to use the money for, in the night when he came back from work he ask for food and his wife answered: **did you give me money when you are going after all you don't have to go and sleep with your empty stomach.**
They both argue before going to bed without food and at the midnight the wife had an asthmatic attack so she was tapping her husband to wake up but instead he thought she is still angry at what they quarreled about before going to bed so he didn't answer her she struggled to take her inhaler but there was nothing inside it to use, by the time the husband got tired of her tapping he decided to leave the room then as he stood up he saw his wife fighting for her life on the bed then he quickly rush her to the hospital but thank God they arrive at the hospital on time if not she will have died before they get there.
Every little thing counts don't say because I don't have I don't need to listen after all everything will end up on bringing money sometimes all that the person needs is our attention assuming he has listened to her in the morning he would have known that she has asthma and she doesn't have inhaler meanwhile the money for the inhaler is not as big as hospital bills, that is in the marriage.
****In life generally****
What did you give to nature? Are you not part of those is dump refuse all over the place to little the ground or don't you know the ground is the mother of nature? What did you give to God? Some are even fond of speaking to God as if He's their mate instead of thanking Him for the gift of life or don't you know when there is life there is hope?
****Now to yourself and your family****
To yourself and your family, what did you give? You don't even love yourself enough and that is why you keep on smoking when you know it will damage your life, family keeps telling you to stop but because you are not giving any attention to what they say you just want to do it your own way meanwhile your family loves you that is why they keep telling you to stay away from such thing.
Note: if you don't give you can't receive that's how it works and everything in life is not all about money people needs you, your family needs you, you need yourself stop saying you can't give what you don't have because every little help counts a lot and the help might be a piece of advice, care, listening ears, etc.
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Life after wedding #2
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Tunde came to Bimpe's house to check for his girlfriend but Tola has told Bimpe never to tell him she's there with her and when he eventually came to look for her Bimpe told him she didn't see her and Tunde went home sadly and worried maybe something bad has happened to her.
Tola and Bimpe started laughing at Tunde for being worried and Bimpe said: **Tola it's been 3 days already I think you should go back home to your man.**
**Tola**: my man you say has he put the ring on my finger?
**Bimpe**: no!
**Tola**: so why are you calling him my man abeg(please) I need so more fresh air after all am still single and ready to mingle since my so call man has failed to tie the knot with me.
**Bimpe**: hmmm my friend please just think over it ok I don't want you to loose this good guy of yours.
**Tola**: eh good guy you say oh ok you can have him because as for me am tired of him for now and when am done having fun all around I might think of going back home (laughing).
**Bimpe**: I pray it won't be too late before you go back home because am telling you now you are doing as if you don't love him again.
They both laugh so hard at each other and make more jest of their past relationships, in the night Tola dressed up for the club to mingle as she said in the afternoon but Bimpe begged her not to go just because she never wants her to go astray but Tola won't listen so she went.
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**At the club**
When she got there she ordered a drink, of course, she didn't go there to get down with any man but she just wanted to clear her head, Bimpe was sleeping already when her phone rang (grin grin) she quickly stood up to pick the call it was Tunde and she dropped it down and said: **I don't like what Tola is doing to this guy and now he won't let me rest.**
The phone ring again and then she picked it this time but it wasn't Tunde's voice she heard, it was one little lady's voice crying saying please come and see Mr. Tunde I don't know what is wrong with him and Bimpe jumped up and ran off to Tunde's house with changing from her PG(night wears) on getting there she meets Tunde on the floor in his compound and the little lady which is Tunde's neighbor.
She quickly grabbed him up only to find out that Tunde was only drunk and nothing happened to him so her mind calm a little bit even though she doesn't know what to give him to ease the alcohol from his body but she just took him inside his apartment she lay him on the ground in the sitting room.
Bimpe was running up and down inside Tunde's apartment to get him something like hot water or cold water but she don't even know where his kitchen is because that's her first time in his house but later she got it for him.
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**At the club**
Tola is very drunk and doesn't know what she's doing again so one guy grabbed her outside when the guy noticed that Tola is not in her right senses he took her to the hotel to lodge because his own job is to take a lady to big men and get paid so he took her there then he collected his money from the chief and left meanwhile Tola doesn't know all that is going on.
**At Tunde's house**
Bimpe try to carry Tunde inside his bedroom to sleep only for Tunde to grab Bimpe and get down with her because on his right sense he's seeing Tola on Bimpe's face while Tola at the hotel is seeing Tunde's face on the chief's face so they both make such a huge mistake that night.
After that night everything was going on smoothly because Bimpe couldn't open her mouth to tell Tola what happened that night and Tola on her side kept what happened to her a secret as well but Tunde never stopped begging Bimpe for what happened between them but later on, when Bimpe couldn't hold it any longer since she's pregnant for him already she opens up for her friend and Tola got angry and left Bimpe's house for good then Tunde came back to get her and they both get married and live happily together
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**Note**: sometimes it is our character, emotions, action, and mind that determine how we will live our lives because assuming Tola doesn't get too emotional and act wrongly she might probably have her man back.
And if she hasn't hide from Tunde he wouldn't have gotten himself drunk and loose it on Bimpe, now Tola never get the wedding she's craving for and she never experienced the life after the wedding which is marriage because she also got pregnant and she doesn't even know the father of her child.
****Conclusion****
Be patient don't rush and don't push what you can't cope with you can see how Tola pushed it and you all see where she ended it **when it comes to wedding God's time is the best.**
Thanks for reading.....
Life after wedding
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It's November already this year 2021 is so fast despite all the lockdown situations anyways let us thank God for life because it has not been easy from the beginning of this year but still, we are here in good health and good life so Happy New month to all my read.cash family all over the world.
Life after marriage is the real marriage and not the ceremony of the marriage but some girls don't seem to understand that.
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***Tunde and Tola are my colleagues in school when I was in the polytechnic of Lagos.***
Hey, baby says Tunde as he got back from work to his girlfriend Tola who lives with him for a couple of years, and each time Tola asks Tunde to come and meet her family it's always one excuse or the other.
*My question is that* why *do some guys get scared to meet their girlfriend's family?*
*Why is it that whenever guys hear about marriage they get pissed?*
*Or is it that some of them just want to be having sex with somebody's child without marrying her?*
Mind you this post is not pointing a finger at anyone is just the normal thing I see going around my city, meanwhile, it seems like young ones now get interested in getting married than old people I read something like that on @Jane post yesterday talking about her cousin who got married and she feels like she's left behind well everyone will feel the same even I am feeling the same way sometimes because my junior is married with kids already but here I am still single trying to plan towards life after marriage with my man and I believe God's time is the best so that is why I don't always think about it sometimes.
`But the difference between me and Jane is that I have a fiance, we are not just both ready to settle down yet because there is always life after marriage, and once you don't plan towards that life after marriage that is when marriage usually gets an issue.`
As a lady, you don't go into a marriage with an empty hand.
You don't depend on the marriage to sort out your problem.
Last thing you don't say because am married I don't have to work again.
**On the other hand for guys**
If you don't have enough don't bother thinking of putting a woman inside your house because once you get married your response is now plus 10 because in as much as I don't support women depending on their husbands it doesn't mean that you won't sort out so things for her.
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Back to the discussion of today Tunde and Tola, I don't know why Tunde is always scared of getting married after all Tola is already living with him what is remaining is just to pay the bride price they have already known each other too well so what's the problem? Is it because he has her all to himself already that is why he's delaying? Because sometimes I wonder what the problem is whenever I see a case like this.
One day Tola got angry and left for her friend's house when she got there her friend Bimpe knew something is wrong between them that was why she came then Bimpe asked Tola what's the matter this time around?
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**Tola**: is it not Tunde!
**Bimpe**: what happened to Tunde?
**Tola**: I don't know what is keeping him, I don't know why he has refused to marry me or am I not beautiful again.
**Bimpe**: ore mi(my friend) you are beautiful and am jealous of you because you have everything but still you are complaining, what about me that I don't even have a boyfriend not to talk of someone that will put me in his house.
**Tola**: who's side are you eh won't I get too old for the wedding gown by the time I wait for Tunde forever
**Bimpe**: my friend just calm down ok he will but don't push him.
**Tola**: ok o am sure by the time grey hair began to grow on my head he will be ready for marriage.
They bot laugh and gist all through the day, meanwhile, Tunde was worried at home because he didn't see Tola by the time he got back home and her line was off.
**Note**: sometimes it is not that men are not ready to marry but the additional responsibility is something someone should plan towards and a guy must be fully ready to bear it till the end.
***To be continued tomorrow morning, am sorry I have to stop here because am too tired today can't write much I want to rest for today so tomorrow I will continue.***
Thanks for your time.
Breakfast
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In the even when she came back from work she called me with a smile and said: Esther you are such a darling and I ask why she said her boyfriend just called her to come now that he wants to take her out then I ask what is now my own she said if she hasn't followed my advice to give him time she might think of something else, then I ask her something else like what? She said maybe she won't just call him again and let him be and I smile on the phone so she end the call.
Only to call me in the night with a cry and said: Esther you won't believe what this guy did to me and I was like what did he do this time because the last time I checked he took you out for dinner and she said: he broke up with me (crying) guess what I did? I laughed because she's seeing the traces of breakup with him but she thinks is just a joke and I told her he has finally given you your breakfast because that's what we call breakup here.
She cried so hard on the phone sand I had to beg her again because I know it is not easy, but the question is why did the guy broke up with her because the last time I checked she doesn't do anything to deserve that, and am not saying this because she's my friend am saying it because I know her to be too good for someone to break her heart but what can I do?
**The question is**......
Why do some guys love to break people's hearts?
Did some of these guys want someone that will always provoke them?.
How can being cool and hardworking be a reason to break up with someone?.
What is the meaning of a relationship? Is it just to date and dump each other because the rate at which guys are dumping ladies lately is high
So back to my friend that says nothing is good about this morning, can we now say because someone chooses to leave us we won't live our lives again? To me, I believe if someone leaves you for no reason that means he doesn't love you from the start he just wanted your body and when he's done having it to himself then that's where breakup comes in.
As a good friend that I am I called her boyfriend this morning after I checked up on my friend to see if she's still ok guess the guy's excuses are:
*your friend is just too cool for a guy like me.*
*she's a workaholic.*
*all she does is work.*
*she's not romantic etc.*
hmmm but then I told him why don't you make her what you want instead of dumping her, why don't you tell her what she's doing that you don't like so that she can change, why don't you seat her down and discuss all this with her before breaking her heart, you should at least try before taking this huge step you took last night and to crown it all you took her into the restaurant to break up with her isn't that embarrassing?
Then he goes like this: Esthery your friend is too cool and my friends always tell me that such a girl is not good for me.
What? can you imagine what this life is turning into? Can you imagine that a girl who doesn't give a problem in the relationship is not good ha some guys are something else like seriously, anyways I hope my friend finds someone that will appreciate her calmness, coolness, and hard work because I don't see that as an excuse to end a relationship with someone.
Thanks for reading, ***am off to work now***
Had I Know
Human beings are fond of saying had I know after when they misbehave towards life or someone that was supposed to help them, well am not surprised because that is why we are called human.
**H**- human
**U**- unpredictable
**M**- moment
**A**- always
**N**- nature
**Humans** are **Unpredictable** with their **Moment** and it's **Always** in their **Nature** so don't be surprised when human disappointed you at a slight chance they have, yeah enough my explanation on humans.
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The topic says: **Had I know**
My mom will say: "**abamo ki siwaju oro, o ma n keyin oro** **ni**" English (**regrets doesn't come before action it comes after action**) and that's why we must be careful of our actions so that had I known won't be our last word.
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Let me tell you a little story about a girl who thinks beauty is forever and there is class for a relationship, her name is joy she is fair in complexion and you all know that guys love yellow lady especially if she has a nice shape you know what I mean of course Joy has all these beautiful things all to herself but she never allows any man close to her due to her mentality of dating a high-class guy who can take good care of her.
Joy works in a telecommunications office as a customer service center she has a very cool and sweet voice and this makes everyone (guys) wants to call just to complain about one or two things to hear her sweet voice but there is this her colleague who is fond of her he has been crushing on her ever since he got employed there but Joy never gives him face at all.
Then he came out from his shell and tell her his feelings but Joy refuse and made him understand that she can't date a guy of her class a guy they are both collecting the same salary and she went on and on with some lame excuses then when she wants to crown it all she said: **am too beautiful to be dating a low-class guy like you because you can't maintain me**
And the guy couldn't say a word because he wasn't expecting that from Joy but he wasn't disappointed and then he asked them to be friends so Joy agreed to that but the guy did that just to keep her by his side maybe one day she might fell in love with him you know guys and their strong head decision
Joy loves to club after work because she lives alone and she doesn't like to stay at home so she decided to make the club a place of relaxation for her who knows maybe she might find her so-called high-class guy there, one day she went to the club to catch fun as usual and then she met this handsome good looking guy with a sexy body then Joy fell for him without knowing anything about him.
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Then she move closer to say hi to him and they both talk after the drinking and dancing at the club they went together to Lodge in a hotel and they had sex hmmm such beautiful cheap girl says the guy in the morning when he was about to leave, he left her in the hotel room when Joy woke up she thought they are automatically friends because she offers him her body but only to find out that the guy has left without anything to trace him like a number, etc.
After two months Joy found out that she's pregnant for her sexy one-night-stand guy and then she quickly ran back to the club to look for him but she couldn't find him this is how Joy became a single mother and you all know that pregnancy does reshape woman to either good or bad and Joy own was bad because Joy is not as beautiful as before but then her colleague which she rejected got married to another girl at the office automatically she can't run back to him and beg him then she began to regret wishing for a high-class guy, she regrets not marrying her colleague and be happy well that's what had I known does it comes last to an unplanned action or a selfish action.
I don't know what class has to do in a marriage or relationship but I believe once that guy God gave you has gone your life can never balance again, I hope all these big girls running up and down social media can be wise up even just for a second before it is too late for them so that their words won't end up with had I known
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The Effects Of Negative Words
My mom always says: a mother who chooses to deal with her children with negative words should be prepared for future downfall because negative words don't take effect instantly.
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Sometimes we say things to cover up our wrongdoing sometimes we lie about things that doesn't worth it and in the process of doing these things we say negative words into our lives.
For instance, a girl that was supposed to be in the church by 8:00am for Sunday school service and went around 9:30am because she was busy with some unnecessary things, when she get there pastor asked sister Folake why are you late today again and then she opened her mouth and said: "**pastor am so sorry my phone fell inside water as I woke up this morning so I quickly rush to the engineer to repair it for me"** meanwhile nothing happened to her but why can't she just say the truth and be free then after service that she has forgotten her lies on getting home her phone finally swim inside a tank full of what now she can't call the pastor and tell him it is her lie this morning that makes her phone to swim in the afternoon.
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Sometimes it is better to say the whole truth than to say negative things that might affect us at the end of the day, some mothers don't even seem to see negative words as a bad thing and I have lived with one of them in my former apartment.
****Here is the story****
When I was still living in face me I face you(a single room) if you are from Nigeria you will understand what I mean, I came back from work in the morning so tired because I did night shift and I couldn't do anything than to just sleep straight away from my sleep I was just hearing someone cursing (negative words) and I woke up due to the noise then went outside only to find out that it is a mother talking to her daughter with negative words.
Then I move closer to ask her(mother) what the girl did to deserve these deep negative words this early morning and then she said: **aunty can you imagine this girl I gave her money to buy something(fish) for me from a particular person at the market and then she went to buy from someone else now see how small the fish looks now eh.**
I was like is that all she did and you rain these deep negative words on her? Then I go hmmm am short of words ma but deep within me I couldn't say what came into my mind to her but then I told her never to use negative words on her children again because it won't affect them now but it will affect them in the future and then it won't be very easy to trace where the cause is coming from meanwhile children are very funny in the aspect of taking after bad side of their parents once parents are used to negative words towards them they will also be used to it even among their mates.
****Effects of negative words****
It draws back good things for someone.
It brings a step back into someone's life.
It reduces good luck for someone
It affects someone's Future.
It affects the good side of someone's life etc.
Can you imagine a girl that her own mother has said negative words into her life when she was a child that she will never make it can such a girl be prospered in her life?
Or a boy that his mother or father that said negative words into his life that all the bad thing he is doing all his children will do it back to him won't such child face so much in the future with his children as well? Sometimes kids make us angry and people make us angry too but we should learn how to control our mouths and mind from saying negative words towards them.
And this is common among mothers meanwhile we all know that the effect of mothers words in child's life is very strong so as a mother we shouldn't utter negative words into our children's life because it won't show face now until when they are grown it will now start to draw them back from moving forward in life negative words doesn't act instantly it will always wait until the day you are supposed to do great things then it will now affect the thing you are to do peacefully.
****Conclusion****
Never say negative words into your children's life for it is going to affect their future.
Never allow anyone to say negative words into your life as well because you don't know the kind of angel moving around during that time.
Negative words have nothing to offer someone's life than destruction and am sure we all don't want destruction in our lives.
Thanks for reading.
The power of tongue
**B**eautiful morning to all you beautiful people all over the world and how was your night? Mine was good and great because the weather was cold all through the night and it makes me sleep like a baby till this morning.
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**T**oday I want to share something with you all about the tongue you see this tongue as small as it is hmmm it is the most powerful part of our body and that is why God said we shouldn't say any negative words because once it is said you can't unsay it back.
**T**his is a story of a guy who has been brokenhearted countless times even some girls took the little property he has with them saying they don't belong to him just because he is broke to the extent that he can't feed himself 3 times daily though he is working but the work doesn't have a good pay so by the time he removed all the expenses of the house, transport fee, electricity bill, etc the little money left is not enough to take care of himself and you know girls of nowadays don't want to suffer with any man at all so they all choose to leave him and the last person that left him went with his heart this made him vow never to go into any relationship with girls again except he's ready to marry the lady, because the last girl went with his baby so that day he knelt down and say God please I don't want any girl to get pregnant for me except I marry her.
**S**o one day he saw a poster along the road on his way to work that a clerk is needed so he copied the number and went off to work though he didn't call the number immediately when it was time for lunch he put a call through to the number to confirm if it is true or not as we all know that it is not easy to find work because of the fake posters we see everywhere and he was asked to come for the interview.
**T**o cut the long story short he went for the interview and got the job of a clerk, of course, the job is better than the one he's doing before and it has good pay than the former work, so after he works for two months his life began to change for better a little bit though is not a millionaire and he can't afford big things but he can afford what he wants for the moment.
**O**ne afternoon like that when he's going for lunch break he saw a beautiful lady struggling with bike man and he branch to settle the fight for them and so from there they became friends then graduate to lovers meanwhile the lady is so ready to get married but the guy wants her to get pregnant for him because he wants a baby so bad forgetting that he had said he doesn't want any girl to get pregnant for me unless they get married and he's not financially ok for the wedding.
**T**hen they began to go for a series of tests in the hospital and the doctor keeps telling them they are both ok but the guy doesn't have the power to fund a marriage yet so they kept on trying and trying until one day he saw one paper on his shelf where he wrote something that he never wanted any baby except he's married and then he felt bad because during that time that was what he wants and now he doesn't want it anymore but he can't afford to fund wedding so that his girlfriend can conceive for him automatically they both have to wait until they get money for the wedding which is not that easy to get.
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****Conclusion****
The power in our tongue is sharp and mightier than that of a mountain remember God said to us never to say negative words for there is power in our tongue.
So be mindful of what you say with your mouth because once you say it you can't reverse it again.
*Thanks for reading.*
Obedience is better than sacrifice
The enemy you know is better than the one you don't know, her husband is the best friend she doesn't know, and Bukky her colleague is her enemy she doesn't know because she only uses her to get Mr. Charles to open an account with their bank.
Obedience is better than sacrifice because assuming she has listened to her husband she might not fall, a victim of Bukky's trap,
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Tobi felt happy because she thought she's in the good hands of Bukky, meanwhile, Bukky is happy that she has another beautiful chance of getting more clients to herself by using Tobi as the instrument.
As the meeting is going on Mr. Charles the owner of the industry ask Tobi to serve them tea so she stood up to serve everyone with a smile on her face and in her mind, she's thinking (**am so happy to be the one serving this tea so that I can see everyone's face clearly and know who to approach first**) but on Mr. Charles mind he is thinking (**wow see how she looks so perfect in shape am sure she will be so sweet in bed**)
Their eyes meet and they both smile at each other (Tobi and Mr. Charles) without knowing what they are both thinking, when the meeting is about to be over the receptionist came to give those girls something (keys to their rooms), and still Tobi never wise up with what is going on over there she thought that is where she can talk one on one with someone she wants to convince to open an account with her bank.
On getting into the room she saw drinks food and then a letter (**make yourself comfortable**) after some minutes the owner of the industry came and tell her just feel free ok that he will be with you shortly so she feels relaxed to eat and drink the wine as well.
Am sure you all will be thinking that she didn't suppose to eat or drink anything over there but my mom always tells me and my siblings that "once a girl is not wise in thinking about what is going on around her then so many guys will have their ways with her" and that's Toni's case.
By the time Mr. Charles is done and entered the hotel room Tobi is asleep of course he knew she will drink and eat so he has put sleeping medicine inside the wine just to have her easily, so he had his way with her without her consent or her permission and when she woke up she found herself naked then a letter and cheque beside her saying: **thanks for your generosity an account has been opened in your bank on your friend's name Bukky so have a wonderful day dear manage the token amount $200 (#100,000).**
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Then she burst into tears saying: ha eh what do I tell my husband? How did I get myself into this mess? Then she quickly dressed up and went outside to look for Bukky so that she could report Mr. Charles to her on getting to the reception everyone just looked away like she's a prostitute and then she felt reluctant to ask the receptionist so she went home instead of going back to work because she couldn't cope with the shame of what happened to her.
When she got home she couldn't think straight she was just crying and blaming herself for not listening to her husband in the very first place, later in the day her husband came back from work when he got inside there is no food on the dining table and then he went inside their room to ask his wife about his food only to find her lifeless on the ground and then he quickly rush her to the hospital
After some hours the doctor came back to tell Tobi's husband that his wife is fine now but she lost the baby and husband just went to the waiting room sat down and began to cry bitterly when she's finally ok her husband asked her what happened and then she explained to him and he said if not for the love I have for you I will just strangle you right now but I won't do such.
And I will forgive you says her husband but on one condition because it wasn't your intention to sleep with a man and you will never work again, so the husband forgives her and she agreed not to work again then they both live happily again and she later gets pregnant for him.
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Sometimes I don't know why women are always adamant about something that could hurt them and their relationship at the end assuming she asks her husband to open shop for her she will never get herself into such a mess.
Thanks for reading...
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What is wrong with marketing job #2
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Good morning beautiful people and how was your night? It's Monday morning here again and I hope today's Monday won't be a boring one as usual.
**So let's continue our story**
What is wrong with a marketing job? Well to me there is nothing wrong with the job because it is called a job aside from some girls that can go extra mind to get clients for their company there is absolutely nothing wrong been a marketer at all.
**So back to the story**
**Husband**: no way my wife will never be a marketer
**Wife**: but dear why? There is nothing wrong with the job now
**Husband**: oh you want to be selling your body to a different man to bring clients to the company? Babe I don't want you to work in the very first place and now this? Never over my dead body will I open my eyes down and watch you do such a dirty job.
**Wife**: babe I will never do such come to think of it am a married woman and automatically the company knew that I can't do such a dirty thing to bring a client for them and still they employed me.
**Husband**: hmmm no that is not convincing enough, as a husband and the head of this house I am telling you I don't want you to do that kind of work.
The husband keeps talking to himself: *what kind of work is that? How will I tell my friends my wife is now into a prostitute job called marketing they will definitely laugh at him haba I can't take that from you no I don't want you to work anymore.*
The wife didn't answer him again since she knew he won't stop talking until she quit the job and of course, she's not ready to quit her job and seat at home doing nothing and then she said to herself: *after all nobody has harras me or tell me any dirty thing so why should I quit because of what people think about the job.*
Then she took her breakfast and left for work while her husband was watching her living the house.
A quote by my mom says "**a dog that wants to perish will never listen to the warning"**
Meaning: "**if someone wants to go astray he or she will never listen to anyone trying to save them"**
As time goes on the husband keep acting like he doesn't have a wife again because he believes she must have been doing all such of dirty thing at work because she wants to meet up her target at work, of course, she didn't do any dirty thing but she doesn't meet up her target just like others.
But then there is a girl named "Bukky" that always meet up her target and she's married too so the other married woman who's her husband doesn't support her job decided to move closer to Bukky since she's married too and yet meeting up the company's target so that she could get some ideas on what to do as well.
They introduced themselves to each other hi am **Tobi** and am **Bukky** oh nice to meet you says Tobi and please I have been looking for a way to ask you how you manage to meet up your target says Tobi, Bukky oh that hmmm it's a simple thing ok don't worry I have one meeting with the owner of M&T industry you can follow me if you don't mind maybe you can see people to convince there too.
**Tobi**: Oh that's a great idea at least I can convince my husband that I don't have to make use of my body before getting a client.
**Bukky**: looking at her hmmm
The next day Bukky and Tobi went out as they planned and on getting to the meeting Tobi saw a lot of big men and she felt so happy and say: *yeah thank God I know how to talk very well this is the place to prove myself and my husband wrong that am capable of doing this job without sleeping with any man.*
The question now is: what happens in the meeting?
Did Tobi sleep with anyone there?
Was she able to convince with her mouth only?
And what are Bukky's intentions towards Tobi?
I will leave you to answer the question the story continues tomorrow.
Thanks for reading.
What is wrong with marketing job?
Anytime I see another beautiful breaking of the day I say thank you Lord because it is not easy to survive till now and it is not by how powerful I am nor how beautiful I look but by the grace of God almighty, though it 11: 20am but still am glad to see another day.
So I believe anything we all wake up to see a brand new day we should always be grateful to God be we sleep and He doesn't, we eat and He doesn't, we go out to catch fun but God doesn't all He doe is watching over us and taking care of us so don't you see that he's worthy of our praise every day?
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***Back to the matter of the day***
`What is wrong with the marketing job is the question for the weekend because it seems like there is a lot attached to the job`
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There is this beautiful family that does everything together( house chores etc) I mean the husband and the wife they don't have a kid yet but still, they are not bothered the husband work in a construction company and the wife is a full housewife ( she's not doing anything) meanwhile she isn't cool about it because she believes that sometimes her husband might get broke and she could help him if she's working
But her husband refuses to allow her to work because he believes he's capable of taking care of the house responsibility but the wife is not happy about it, they kept on arguing about it for so long and the husband keeps telling her(wife) that he can't allow his wife to be working under someone
One day the wife got tired of seating at home doing nothing so she went out to look for a job since she's a graduate and a first-class student in banking and finance, she got a marketing job from one bank because she qualifies for the job and she took the job without her husband's consent
When the husband came back from work he noticed that the house was well tidy like as if someone is traveling and so he called his wife to know her whereabouts but she lied that she went to greet her sister and as a lovely and gentle husband he believes the lie.
Later in the evening she finally came back home and immediately he set his eye on her he knew something is wrong somewhere but he didn't believe that his wife could start working behind his back but he never asked her so she went straight into the kitchen to prepare dinner they both eat and went to the bed
The next morning of course as a marketer it requires waking up to get set for work and she's awake preparing breakfast for herself and her husband so when the husband finally get up from the bed he saw his wife well dressed like someone going to the office and then he asks: are you going to your sister's house today again? And now she couldn't say one word straight then she began to stammering ( am... Oh sorry i....) Then her husband stood up and move closer to her and said: look I am a gentleman to the call so just tell me and I will understand
Then she said: I got a bank job yesterday and I don't know how to tell you since you don't want me to work but am already tired of sleeping at home gaining weight so I had to go out to look for a job
**The husband**: hmmm but darling did you know that what you did is called "**disobedience"**? but I won't quarrel with you because I can understand that you want this family's growth but you have to promise me that if anyone harasses you there you will quit the job
**Wife**: yeah I promise (smiling)
**Husband**: so what department are you in the bank? (smiling)
**Wife**: marketing dear (smiling)
**Husband**: what! Market what!
This is how real problem start in a sweet home full of sweet things, sometimes I wonder why some men don't like marketing jobs and sometimes I wonder why some don't want their women to work
To be continued tomorrow, thanks for reading.
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How did you plan to spend your weekend?
So am done with all that it's time to try making hair treatment for my customers am making this hair treatment so that whenever I go out for work I will be using it for my customer though I have been using it for myself but I never use it for my customers because I don't always do plenty quantity and here is the material I want to use:
**• Orange peel**: we all know that orange is a fruit that has so many valuable nutrients and it can serve as a food supplement as well but on my side, I will use it for hair growth so it is the backside (orange peel) of it I will be using, peel the back and keep it in a clean plate.
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**• Rice water**: am sure you all will be thinking that what does rice have to do in hair growth yeah there are lots of things that are useful but because we don't know the usefulness so we waste it and now let go into the details on how to use our rice, wash your rice first time and pour the water away wash it the second time but this time don't pour the water away because it is that rice water that we need for the hair treatment.
****Procedure****
Rinse your orange peel with clean water and put it inside the one plate
Pour your second wash rice water inside a clean bowl that has a cover and then put your orange peel inside then cover and leave it for like 3days of course this picture you are looking at is 3 days already so now I will pour it inside bottle drink to keep it warm and ready for use but you can make use of any container of your choice.
****Usefulness****
This is used for hair growth it will make your hair to be long, thick, and shining of course it is tested and ok because I have been using it for so long on my hair as you can see my natural hair in the picture.
****How to use it****
Loose your hair if it is plait then rinse your hair with ordinary water and now pour the mixture of rice-water and orange peel on your head let it touch the bottom of your hair and get wet from the down to the tip of your hair then cover it with a shower cap and leave it for about 45 minutes after that you can now wash it with shampoo and conditioner
If you want to know how fast your hair is growing you can measure the length of your hair before the use of the treatment then one week after measure again.
This is what I want to do for today if I didn't go out to work
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Never say Never
Don't ever look down on yourself and don't ever say I can never do it, never say never because sometimes you can do more than what you can ever.
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*Forgive my manners, good morning beautiful people, and how was your night over there I was supposed to post this article yesterday but I got so tired by the time I got back from work*.
*Back to the matter of the day talking about what you can do and how far you can go but still, you are saying I can't do it*
I was referred here to readcash by someone @George_Dee from noisecash but whenever he asks about how far I have gone here on my readcash account I always tell him am cool, so one day he visited my account here only to discover that I never posted on my account and he messaged me immediately to ask why I didn't engaged here
And I told him I can't cope with readcash because the content here is higher than my understanding and I can't seat to write such a long article meanwhile am always busy with making hair all around Lagos because I don't have a shop yet so automatically I have to go and meet whosoever that wants my services
But he disagree with my excuses just because he knew I can but I limits my strength and energy to only my life job alone, so he asked me haven't I been to some situation before? And I said yes I have he said then write about your **situation, your story, your life, the experience you have witnessed in your life and the lesson you have learned in life, and of course your working experience as well.**
So I tried to write about what I have seen but I couldn't write up to 1 thousand words before I lost track of what I wanted to write then I called him again to tell him what happened and he gave me some motivating hints like:
**Never allow distraction when you are writing.**
**Never lose focus when you are writing.**
**Always concentrate on what you want to write.**
**Think deeply before you start to write.**
**Put your full attention to the article you want to write.n**
And I went back to try all that he told me to do just to complete the article that I couldn't write, so I came up with what's your story? In this article, I was talking about how life has treated me so far along with how my dad's death affected me and my family even how it shortened my dreams
And I was able to write 2 thousand words but when he saw what I wrote he was moved but he wasn't satisfied and he kept on telling me I can do better than that but instead of listening I got frustrated and quit writing the article I have been writing for good one week then I focus on my noisecash again
But when my account on noisecash stopped to receive heart value I thought of coming back to readcash but guess what when I got back here to read some article I slept off on just one article, I don't know what to do so I went back on writing my article that I have started for over a week
This time I was able to finish it because I followed every single point my referer told me to follow and thank God I finished it and post it, but Rusty didn't visit me so I lost my inspiration again but then I always try to read one article per day and from there I began to think of what to write even though am not happy because Rusty didn't visit until one day I just wrote for fun and by the time I came back to check Rusty has finally visited and I was so happy this gave me more joy to keep writing.
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**Conclusion**
Sometimes we always say "**I can't**" but we actually "**can**" that's my case because I limit myself from what I can do but all thanks to God and George Dee for motivating me to keep writing.
Don't limit yourself from what you can do sometimes you can do better than what you think, all am saying is just give it a try don't relent keep trying because there is no crime in trying new things
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What you sow you shall reap
Mr. Richard did regret his actions towards people and his family but then it was too late for him to realize his wrongdoing.
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After two months that his wife has sold all the items in her supermarket, she asked her husband to help her with buying another good and yeah he did give her money but the money wasn't enough to buy half of what she sold and she already knew the kind of husband she has that he's not going to add any money to it unless he wants to deduct from the money he gave her.
So she managed to buy little stuff inside the shop and began to sell it little by little meanwhile the other girl which is the youngest has got a job in another company that is paying her a good salary better than her dad's own so the company where she got the job gave her a car and an apartment where she can stay.
The girl didn't go back home for like two months because she wanted to be sure about the work first so along the line Mr. Richard has gone extra mind to have a girlfriend outside and this makes him worse towards his family because he no longer cares about their well-being.
After five months the girl that got a job came home and found out how back her father has been treating their mom and her elder sister who is yet to get back on her feet, so she told them to pack their things and follow her but at first, the mother was scared because she doesn't want to leave her husband.
But her daughter was able to convince her to leave the house if not their dad's new wife might hurt her if there is no one to stand for her so the mother agreed to leave and they all left the house before Mr. Richard and his new wife got back home.
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When they got to the girl's apartment her mother was shocked to see how wonderful God has blessed her child even she has a plan of opening another supermarket for her mom and then asked her sister to go and learn work since she's disabled already, she can't walk again because her dad failed to let her get perfect treatment but her little sister promise to fly her out of the country for surgery as soon as she has the money to do it.
On Mr. Richard's side his new catch has sold his company and house out without his consent because he never showed her where he kept his will(house and company documents) but she has already gotten ahold of it, and she told him that she will be going to Dubai to buy goods to stuck the shop outside of the house and Mr. Richard agreed and gave her some cash though it wasn't much but she wasn't angry just because she knew what she has done before leaving for Dubai.
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And to Mr. Richard she's a good wife who can manage and never complain like his former wife, Mr. Richard never asked of his first wife mother of his children because he has found the perfect wife for himself.
After three weeks that Mr. Richard's new wife has traveled the company that bought Mr. Richard's house and company came to lock up his company and one of his staff put a call through to Mr. Richard to tell him what is happening at the office, while he is on the phone there was a knock(kokoko) on his door and he opened only to see two men that came to send him out of his house and he quickly ran to check where he kept his documents but they were not there so he called his first wife to ask if she took it (the documents) with her because he never trusted her but she said she never knew where the documents were kept in the house.
Mr. Richard began to sweat from the inside of his body when his phone rang( gran gran....) His new wife is calling and he quickly picks to report his first wife to her only to find out that she's is the one that sold all his life before she left for Dubai.
Mr. Richard was short of words 😳
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He was shocked and dropped his phone on the ground, this is how he started to beg for an arm before he could eat meanwhile he doesn't know where his wife and children lives and his phone got broken as he dropped it on the floor when he was in shocked, his wife and children never knew anything that happens to him and they are all living fine where they are and Mr. Richard is suffering like he has never made money before in his life
`A wicked man will always get what he deserves`
Vanity upon vanity
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`Life is vanity upon vanity because there is nothing we bring to this world and there is nothing we are going with so take it easy with yourself and the people around you.`
*Here is a story of a man who works so hard to make money and chooses to enslaved himself to money.*
There was a man named Richard he is a very famous man well know all over the town and he travels a lot but there is something that spoilt Mr. Richard and the thing is stinginess, he doesn't joke with his money even with his family he doesn't use his money to joke with them.
Mr. Richard has two beautiful daughters they are graduates and his wife has a mini supermarket in front of their house, at first, his wife thought he's trying to discipline his children on how to spend money when they are in the university.
Not until when they finally graduate, they both look for work but they couldn't find any so they decided to go back to their father's company and their father accepted them of course but he never treat them as his kids at all.
The children of Mr. Richard are the ones collecting the smallest amount of salary at the company but they are not bothering due to what their mom always tell them, every morning when they are dressed and set for work their mother will call the two of them and tell them your father is a good man and he's just trying to let them know how it feels to make money.
And those two girls always agree with her because they believe she knows their father more than they do, until one day that one of Mr. Richard's staff got sick and it is not yet end of the month so one of the daughters went to his office to inform him (Mr. Richard) as their boss so that he can help the guy.
But Mr. Richard refuse to help his staff and he told his daughter that a businessman doesn't spend money anyhow so the sick staff should sort himself and resume back to work then when the month ends he will collect his salary to sort anyone he owes, such a heartless man and that's not all.
The daughter of Mr. Richard was shocked at her father's action and after work when they got home they both report their father to their mom and their mom said: your father is not a bad person maybe he's broke at the moment that is why I couldn't help and the two girls looked at each other's face and said ok mom but they both knew that their mom was just trying to patch up their father's wrongdoing and of course that's what a good mother should do.
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After two months one of Mr. Richard's daughters had an accident on her way going to the office so she was rush to the hospital for treatment and when Mr. Richard got the information he quickly rush there as if he care so much when the doctor told him to go and make a deposit of $200 (#100,000) for the treatment to commence because the girl is in a critical condition, Mr. Richard says no that he is a businessman he can't just put down such amount of money like that, because it might affect his business growth.
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His wife couldn't hold it and then she quickly ran to her shop to gather everything she has and gave it to the doctor so that they can start the treatment but Mr. Richard is still arguing with the doctor, after the treatment, the girl got better a little bit so they were to buy some expensive drugs to balance up her treatment but Mr. Richard made his wife understand that people are owning him so when they pay him they can start to buy the drugs for the girl, so the girl should manage with some pain relief drugs but his wife couldn't hold onto what her stingy husband said so she has to do something before the girl condition got worse back.
You all know that a mother will never sit at watch such a thing so she sold all her goods in the supermarket little by little to buy the drugs for the girl but Mr. Richard instead that it's a waste of money that the girl will eventually get better since she has been treated at the hospital.
What is the end of Mr. Richard? to be continued tomorrow, thanks for reading
Don't look for Respect but earn Respect
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`You don't have to look for respect because you can't find it unless you earn it and how can you earn it? It is very simple to earn respect by treating people around with respect as well, be good to them and be kind always by doing all this you can earn respect.`
Some people are in this life who loves to have people's respect but they don't have all what it take to earn the respect and they began to look for it by telling all sorts of lies, living big, expensive lives and carrying their shoulder up just for people to respect them as a big person meanwhile they are nothing.
Here is a story of a lady who doesn't have all it takes to be respected but due to the fact that she wanted the respect so bad she carried her shoulder up so hight and do somethings that she didn't suppose to have done.
**The story**
*Sandra is a very beautiful girl that lives with her sister and her sister is a very busy type when it comes to work, Sandra found love a serious relationship before her sister because her sister is too busy for relationship so Sandra got into a serious relationship before her sister the love between Sandra and her boyfriend was so strong to the extent that she couldn't hold on for the guy to come and pay her bride price before she make the decision of staying with him*
*Sandra's sister wasn't angry with her because she want her little sister to be happy and she supported her on her decision, when Sandra began to live with her boyfriend she started to feel to big among her mate in the area where she stays.*
*She wants people to address her as a married woman which she's not whenever someone talk to her in the neighborhood without putting ma at the back she feels bad.*
*And one day she had an argument with someone in the neighborhood so she told that lady which is her age mate that she should respect her because she now stays under a man's roof and the other lady abuse her for living with a man that hasn't payed her bride price and yet she's feeling important, that word pain Sandra so much that she began to shead tears and an elderly woman in her apartment called her and advice her never to look for respect because when the time comes for people to respect her they will definitely do.*
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I hope you learn something from this little story of Sandra that want people to respect her by all means meanwhile respect they say is reciprocal, the way you behave to people will show the kind of respect they will give to you and some people didn't disrespect Samdra because she's living with her boyfriend but because she has no manner towards them that is why some people don't respect Sandra.
****Conclusion****
You can never be respected if you don't respect people because it is your behavior that will earn respect for you and not by boasting all around your street, not by telling people how rich or big you are it is you good deed, morals and behavior that will make people to give you maximum respect without telling them to.
So respect yourself by having good behavior towards people so that people can respect you in return
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Character and morals are like smoke
`I have never seen such a human being with the worst character and bad morals before, character is like a smoke so no matter how hard you tried to cover it will definitely come outside and it will always shows wherever you go.`
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A woman is living in my house back then she loves to say bad things about people and whenever she sees anyone doing good things around her she's always sad meanwhile she loves to beg for money and material things from everyone in the house then.
I left my sister's house to get my own apartment because she got married and I can't stay with her and the husband because as a newly wedded couple they will need space for themselves so that's why I decided to leave when I got the apartment it was a face me I face you that's what we normally call it here a single room that has no kitchen, bathroom toilet of its own and that means you have to share toilet, bathroom and kitchen with everyone living in the house hmmm such a terrible situation but what choice do I have then? I packed in and after living there for two months I began to see the true color of some neighbors that appears good on my first day in the house.
But the worse human I have ever seen one in the house woman am sorry for saying that but her character always amazes me till date because her character and that of her children is nothing to write home about at all, there was a day I came back from work and I just heard "*kokoko*" on my door and I opened it was one of her children and she said: "**aunty esther my mom said you should give her maggi (seasoning)"** I went back inside and give her the seasoning am using which is noodles seasoning since am getting it for free from work and I love the taste as well.
After 2 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook because we are sharing a kitchen as I said earlier and the woman stood outside talking to people saying: "**how can someone be using noodles seasoning to cook food well she doesn't eat such bad thing",** but she didn't return the seasoning to me because she has used it already before she started complaining but I didn't say a word to her that day but I got angry.
Another beautiful Sunday morning I just finish washing clothes outside and was about to go inside and her daughter came again: "**aunty esther my mom said you should borrow her your electric cooker and I went inside to give it to the girl"**, after 5 minutes I heard a knock on my door again only to open and see the girl again: "**my mom said can you borrow her your gas because the electric cooker is not fast enough"** then I asked what are you cooking?
The girl answered: "**beans"** then I laughed and said to her: "**tell your mom that I don't have gas ok if that cooker is not fast enough then go and bring it for me ok because I want to cook beans as well",** the girl went off with a bad impression on her face since I didn't give her what her mother sent her to collect so she feels like I am the bad person for not giving her mother the gas.
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****My advice****
Teach your children good morals and character as well because whatever we teach our children is what they will emulate till the end of their lives so because her mom's doing is always right to her, she felt bad because I didn't borrow her mom my gas and meanwhile I was angry with her mom for taking things from me and still say a bad thing about what I borrowed her.
So I promised myself not to borrow her my gas again but she can have the electric cooker for as long as she wants, children are very funny sometimes in the aspect of taking after their parent's bad character you won't believe that because of my own gas those kids didn't greet me again but I was never bothered since they won't bother me again.
Until the day I wanted to pack though they didn't know am packing out of the house that day, the truck that wants to carry my luggage was packing and I came outside with my TV and the woman was sitting outside as well but at first she didn't say anything until the truck driver came down to help me pack some stuff and then she stood up ha Aunty Esther what happened?
Then I answered her am packing and she said why? I told her I have found a better place to stay then she went inside my room to help me pack but when I got inside my room she has already removed my cotton from the window and she said: "**come and give me this one because am sure you must have bought another one for your new apartment".**
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I was shocked because I have never seen such human being before no shame nor good character or good moral at all including her children too, then I told her to take it since am not using it again.
****My conclusion****
It's good to give but whenever someone is taking your kindness for granted stop giving to such person and we should teach our children how to behave it matters a lot because it is what we teach them now they will teach their kids too when they grow up.
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They don't want to see us grow.
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It was a very painful experience, a past I don't like digging into because it hurts.
I was working in a factory then (Dangote Noodles) we produce noodles, I must have mentioned it in one of my posts before and I work there as a checker, all I do is to make sure every noodle passing through the machine must have seasoning, it sounds simple right? But not as easy as it sounds, because we work 8am to 8pm in the night shift and morning shift as well, Sunday to Sunday no holiday except for festive period only.
I was still working in the factory when I gained admission to the Lagos State Polytechnic (laspotech), I never knew the lecture has started because I was waiting for the school to mail me first but I guess I was wrong about that, so on that day which was Friday I did night shift and I will close by 7am. The next day which is Saturday I closed from work heading home so I discovered that am out of cash for transport fare and I branch inside the school bank to make use of the ATM.
As I got to the entrance I saw people running for lecture and I asked one guy what was going on with those people running and he told me that they are the fresher's that just got admitted to the school, they have started receiving lectures and I was like what since when and he said: maybe two weeks now. I was speechless because I was living just opposite the school.
I didn't go to the ATM again I ran with people as they are running even though I don't know my department yet but I knew it's computer science department.
**Funniest part**
I followed the crowd into one class they all sat down and I joined them as well then one lecturer came in and started teaching then I turned to one guy and asked him for a sheet of paper but he gave me a complete 60leaves book, the lecturer didn't even introduce himself to the class but as a fresher (newbie) we don't dare to ask him yet. After two lectures my mind just came back to ask of the department from a girl and the girl threw it to the class saying: please everyone what department are we? Chorus answer masscom (mass communication) then all of them laughed at me, I really act too childish on my first day in school.
So I left the class to look for my department and when I finally found it there was a lecture going on and I stood outside until when the lecturer left, as I entered the classroom I saw so many people and I was like how do I cope but God helped me to cope.
I love sitting at the back of the classroom because I don't come early to school, so on that day it was a rainy Saturday and I was coming from work straight to school. I went to inform my supervisor that I want to be going because I have exams that morning he said that he was coming and I should just hold on.
I was working while checking outside maybe he was coming and I can't leave my duty post because the person taking over is not yet around and my exam starts at 8:30 am on the dot when it was 7: 30am I couldn't concentrate on my work again then I started crying because am going to be late for my exams, exactly 8:00 am the other shift that will do morning duty resume to take over from me and I couldn't control my tears because I have struggled and suffered so much before I could pay my school fee and now am about to miss my exams.
When I finally got to the exam hall the paper was almost over and even some students were coming out of the exam all already and I just put my two hands on my head crying because if that my supervisor has help me till another shift resume I would have had a better chance with the exam.
And if I miss work for one day, two days payment will be deducted from my salary, this was how my wicked supervisor made me carry this course over that means I have to seat for the exam with my junior next semester and I have to pay for another course registration again.
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**My thoughts**
Sometimes I wonder why people like him get to that powerful seat because they just suffer people, when I got back to work in the night I reported him to the admin but it was like I just pour fuel inside a little fire. They made the case worse by telling me to quit working if I know I want to school, that I can't eat my cake and have it as well and I must not miss work.
It was then I realized that those people up there that we call bosses are not human they don't care about their workers' growth, all they want is to use people and dump(sack) them whenever they want.
This is my true life story when I was in school and there are lots more to write but let me just stop here so that I won't waste my readers time
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She got what she deserves
`Lord because of me you gave up your life on the cross of Calvary so why should I give my life to someone says Shade as was told Josh is at the hospital fighting for his life.`
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There is a girl called shade who loves herself too much to the extent that it is becoming self-centered human but you nobody wants to tell her because she won't care about what anyone says, she is the type that thinks she's always right at anything she does and as we all know telling such person the truth is just a waste of time, arguing with her is like wasting of energy.
She works in a company that produces dog food in a factory but she isn't inside the production factory she's in the office (supervisor) well am sure you know she will be a big madam for working in an office and with a big pay as well.
Shade doesn't care about who is not at work all she wants is for the work to keep moving and she never wants to see production stoping, well as we all know that even machine gets tired sometimes not to talk of human being that uses blood, there will be a time someone will get sick but Shade seems not to care because she believes that once you are sick take drugs and resume back to work.
On this faithful day, one of the factory work named Josh was very strong but he didn't stop working just because Shade has threatened to sack him if he doesn't come to work so Josh kept on working but on that day he could hold himself together because the sickness has developed so much inside him as he was packing the dirty stuff inside the factory he fell into the bin and nobody sees him.
As Shade pass there she saw that the place was dirty and she shout Ade! Ade! Ade! Come here, why is everywhere dirty like this? Before I come back here I don't want to see all this dirty here again pack them inside the bin and push it away, meanwhile, Josh has fallen inside the bin when he was trying to take a sack from inside the bin.
So Ade started packing dirt and pouring it inside the bin without looking at inside, of course who would think of someone will be inside bin I guess no one, after 10 minutes Ade has packed the bin very full and he pushed it away to where they normally disposed it but he didn't pour it (inside a river at the back of the factory) because it was too heavy for him.
He went back to tell miss Shade that he can't turn the waste inside the water because it is too heavy for him and then she called some guys to follow him and turn the waste away on their way going the person working in the CCTV camera department was running after them shouting wait! wait! you people should wait but they are gisting about how wicked miss Shade is and they didn't hear the man shouting.
But as he was running towards them people saw him and they helped him call those guys, on getting to the bin side the man told them to turn it on the ground that there is someone inside but those guys were scared of miss Shade so one of them said until when miss Shade ordered them too they can't.
So the man put a call through to miss Shade to come when she got there she wasn't confused about what the man said but she agreed they turned it on the ground.
When they turned it Josh was found lifeless inside the dirty that was supposed to thrown inside a big river at the back of the factory, those guys quickly carried him to the clinic and the doctor there did all he could to bring him back to life but it was all to no avail because he has stayed too long inside the bin.
The company was sue by his parent and the company and the CCTV man testify against miss Shade for forcing the boy to keep working even though she knew he has been sick and Shade was sent to prison and the company rewarded his mother a huge amount of money.
**Question**
If you are the owner of the company would you have stood by Shade because she was working perfectly with or without supervision and she has contributed to the growth of the company will you support her?
If you are the sick guy will you keep working because you are threatened to be sack?
And if you are the parent of the boy will you agree to the company's decision by paying you money and sending Shade to the prison?
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**My conclusion**
Sometimes we should always have human feelings, there are so many bosses like Shade in this life they don't care who is dying over the work all they do is keep putting pressure on the workers
Even the Bible says "**love your neighbor as yourself**" it means the way you care for yourself care for others too don't say because you have power over them you can push them over their limit.
`Mind you This story is fiction and it is not pointing a finger at anyone is just my thoughts about wicked bosses.`
Things weren't designed to be like this.
Good morning my beautiful people and beautiful reader, I really appreciate each and everyone that find my content worthy of reading. Let me make use of this little time to say thank you all, am sure you will be wondering "what wasn't suppose to be like this", well it is the life of youth in my country.
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`Only God knows where this life is heading because the youth are suffering but the old men are enjoying, which isn't suppose to be like that?`
On Saturday when I went out for work, I saw some youths selling something in the traffic and on the other side of the bus I am there is one big old man inside a full ac car buying something in the traffic as well, if you are in Lagos you will understand how hard it is for those boys selling something inside traffic because once they leave their village everyone believes there is money in Lagos meanwhile it is not so.
Now am thinking of so many questions, where did all these old men see money? When youths that are struggling can't afford a bicycle the old men are buying the latest car, they have even graduated to snatching little girls from their boyfriend but I could remember I saw a little girl beside him, at first I thought it might be his daughter not until the girl touch his head and smile and the man touched her back on her laps then I realized they are not father and daughter. If you live in Lagos and you always enter TATA bus then am sure you will understand it better because everything going inside another car beside the TATA bus will look like a movie and that why I could picture everything inside the old man's car.
Where is this life going? Where is this world going? What is the future of youth in this country? When all the money that was supposed to be left for the youth has been lavishly spent by the old men and all the female youth were supposed to marry has turned to prostitutes to old men because with this same money, the politicians now hold the world into their hands and they do it anyhow they want.
So now what is left for the youth to depend on in this country, I even heard that governor Tinubu is contesting for the presidency, why will Nigerians allow such a person to be on a powerful seat? Are there no youth in politics again? Why all these corrupted old men? I even saw a video where they are campaigning for him already, hmmm I pray it is not that we are about to sell our life completely because of this man coming to the powerful seat is something else entirely.
Let me use myself as an example of youth because I am still very young and hardworking but to me success seems like a scam because it is not about how hardworking you are now here in Nigeria, success is no more measure by hard work anymore because if it is someone like me suppose to have been ok in life, but what do we keep getting $50 (#25,000) for salary, even with my good certificate
This kind of money can not be plan a future on and yet they are saying youths are lazy how can a man be collecting such little amount of money and you expect him to live fine, no it can't work. Even the so call handwork is just by the grace of God or is it not that when you eat well they will remember to plait hair?
This makes me remember the story of a little girl whose mother supported her to marry an old man, someone who is old enough to be her grandfather. Well I don't blame the mother when all that they are doing and all their hardwork is not giving them the desired results then she chooses to make money by giving her daughter to someone who is older than herself, she used her daughter to make millions of naira without thinking of the girls' happiness. She is just a little girl who will want to be with her man always but been a 6th wife in the house is another thing entirely, that's what all these old men do taking over everything that was suppose to be left for youth to depend on including future wives.
I wish the world should just come to an end so that we can restart it again by spending coins, but I don't think that is possible until when God is ready to do that.
How my weekend went
How my Sunday went, I should have posted this last night but I was too tired to edit before posting it so I decided to post it this morning (Monday)
On Saturday night I slept so late because I went out for work though the place I went to make hair is not that far but when I came back home I resumed back to wig making because the owner is going to collect it as soon as possible and I must not fail my customers the work stress really drained me, that was part of how my day went.
As I woke up on Sunday morning I go down on my knees to give all the glory unto God for keeping me alive till date and for another beautiful chance of seeing another day today, since it's Sunday I need to do all that I should do on time so that I won't be late for church.
I quickly fold my washed clothes into my wardrobe so that when I came back from church that won't be any extra work for me to do, after that I headed to the kitchen to make something soft to hold my belly till the closing time in church, so I fried yam.
After that I quickly wash plates and clean the kitchen since it my turn to clean this morning, we are three living in the house but we have shared the kitchen cleaning so that there won't be any argument on who should clean
I swept too because my housemates won't take any excuses from me if I don't do it so I rush myself to do all that, all am doing is just to make sure am not late for Sunday school because in my church we were taught that if you don't attend Sunday school then your service is not complete (RCCG) is the name of my church
After cleaning you all should know its time for bathing and brushing of my teeth but instead, I chose to check on my readcash account if rusty has finally visited me and guess what I got carried away by reading articles, oh it's past 8am already then I rush into the bathroom to bath and rush outside again to eat my fried yam
On my way to church I felt like taking some shot of myself.
When I got to church the Sunday School teacher taught us about the mercy of God how important it is to have the mercy of God over us but guess what I was busy with (readcash) because am becoming too addicted to it, but the teacher thought I was reading Bible from my phone.
May God forgive me for that because I really do not concentrate on Sunday school even the sermon self i can't remember what the pastor was saying because I was busy reading articles on readcash, and then I remembered that I didn't brush to church because I got carried away by readcash articles that's how bad am getting addicted to readcash, but I promise never to do that again.
After the church, I decided to head to my mini salon to make my hair and on getting there I took so beautiful shot as well because I love my dressing today, though it's been a while since I last snapped pictures in fu so rate my beautiful dress.
After making hair I took some shots again to see how I look with my simple hairstyle
The hair I went to make is just a very simple style that I can put my wig on
Of course, I should go home but I didn't because I needed some stuff at home to I head to the market to get pepper and some other stuff that might make me go to the market during the week, was my day boring? Yeah, it is because all that sounds like a normal routine for everyone.
But when I was coming back from the market I got myself a fruit wine with a little bit of alcohol to chill my weekend, at 10:08pm am watching a movie and sipping my fruit wine to it well I believe this makes it different from my normal daily routine because on a normal day I won't take alcohol. After all, I must wake up early in the morning if there is work to do.
Thanks for reading how my boring day went yesterday, good morning everyone and how was your night
Take responsibility of your actions
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Good afternoon from this side part of the world and happy weekend to you all, here is the concluding part of my story and how Jonathan came into the picture along with all his promises to his mother.
**Let's get started**
I Jonathan came into the picture because my mom didn't abort me when I was in her womb instead she choose to be strong, when my mom was 8 months pregnant her mother's illness got worse, and then she has to take over her mother's shop so that they won't lack anything at home especially now that she's almost due for delivery.
But to say the truth women are really trying, how can someone carry a heavy load on their body for a good 9 months well that's how God created and that is why I will never maltreat women in my life.
Back the how I came in (Jonathan), two months after my mom gave birth to me says the diary her mother died so she has to do all things by herself, meanwhile she has finally accepted her faith and she never think of going back to school because the trauma of what my dad did to her never faded away from her mind till date and she has never thought of getting married to another man because she practically doesn't want to have anything to do with any man again, all she cares about is my well-being and how to give me a perfect life.
This story that I read in my dad's diary makes me know more about how some women can go to have what they want which is a man and it taught me how to caution myself with ladies during my high school and even university as well because I don't want to be like my dad.
But still, my mom keeps telling me he is a good man and I keep wondering how can a good man abandoned his own flesh firstborn of his family and go for some side chick that is just lust with his body and sense?
Well left to me I don't have a dad because any man that fails to take care of his responsibility is not a man and not a good person as well, as for me, am still single though I have a girlfriend which I have vouch not to touch unless am ready to marry her because I don't want any bad thing to repeat itself in my family again.
Now I will read my book graduate with good grades and get a good job so that I can take good care of my mom because she has suffered too much in this life and if I say I should start telling what she went through and how hard it is to raise a child by a teenager who knows nothing about child mehh am sure you all can imagine how hard it is for her back then.
**How I make the story**
This is a fiction story, yeah it is, all I did was that I picture some things that are happening between man and woman in life and turned it to be a teenager going through such, at some point, I got emotional because I knew some people must have gone through this in life before even though I don't know anyone who has been there before.
**My point**
If you are a mother train your baby girl what she should do and what she shouldn't do, teach her sex education because we all can't be following them up and down in life but when they know it already then nothing can shake their legs wherever they stand.
And as for the boys teach them how to take up responsibility though they don't have the power to but if they are used to standing by their actions even in the future they will never be a bad person to anyone.
`Thanks for reading the whole story from the beginning till the end`
The girl choose wrong path by falling in love
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It is a beautiful brand new day and a cloudy Friday as well so I will say happy weekend to you all and also thank God it's Friday, tomorrow I have a wedding party to attend and am so happy about it, but I wish that is my wedding anyways am happy for the celebrant and I pray mine come soon as well, enough of me let continue our story.
I know you all have answered the questions yesterday so let me answer mine now before I continue with the story, if you have read yesterday part here is the link https://read.cash/@Esthery97/disappointment-you-never-expected-254b8472
Why is it that some girls are wicked? I believe they choose to be wicked because inside human there is good and bad so it depends on the one you choose.
Why did some people hate to see other people happy? Some people hate seeing people happy because they are sad and jealous.
And the last one can someone be forced to love? No one can force love because the heart loves what it loves and no matter how hard you tried you can't change that unless the heart does by itself.
I believe I have answered all the questions perfectly but if there is anything you want to add kindly add it inside my comment box, yeah my mom bumped in and saw what she wasn't supposed to have seen, and then she collapse so the two of them my dad and his new catch babe ran to call people for help.
My mom was rush to the school clinic and treated so after some hours the nurse came and asked her where is your mom and she said: she's at home but nurse what happened as you all know how the school will handle situations like this the principal came and said: give me your mom's number and she gave but her mind doesn't go to the fact that she's pregnant because she was still in shock of what she saw, after some minutes her mother came and the principal explained it all to her in my mom's present.
*This are my mentor and my sponsor*
Her mother was disappointed and she never asked her who was responsible for the baby she just grab her hand and off they went home when they got home the interrogation started
**Her mom**: why did you choose to disgrace me?
**My mom**: am sorry (crying)
**Her mom**: no you don't need to cry because the did have been done so who impregnated you?
**My mom**: my boyfriend is in my school
**Her mom**: yeh! am finished so it is your mate who can afford to feed himself that destroyed your life after all I did to save you? Eh Rebecca (crying) and you know I struggle so hard to give you a better life but you choose to do it this way Rebecca, what was my offense?
**My mom**: mom please am sorry it was just once we did it and I never knew this is how it will end, mom, please
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They both cried so bitterly because the girl was young and she never knew once can get her into this mess, her mom was disappointed because she struggled too hard to get her to where she is after one hour the mother wiped her tears and said: Rebecca it's ok let's go for a stroll they both change and went out for a fresh air.
On their way, they saw closing school students staring at them but the mother told her that don't mind them ok maybe this is how God wants it she encourage her child so that she won't go and take some dangerous steps and the girl never bother about the look on her school mate face.
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Because after her mother took her off the school the principal has announced it, in Africa, this is how they do but I don't know why because to me it is like exposing the girl for the world to mock but that's the rules and regulations so this makes everyone to look down on her but her mother stood by her and never leave her sight so that she won't think of anything bad.
`No matter how bad a child is her mother will never forsake her and that's how caring our mother are`
Hmmm am sure you will be thinking about my dad, yeah he never came back to say sorry about what happened and how do we do it but he stayed on a low key since my mom didn't mention his name to anyone not even her mom knew him but she knows that it was her boyfriend in her school that did that to her
Jonathan is in the picture now so how was life treat them both when raising Jonathan? that's a story for tomorrow don't forget this is **fictional** and not anyone's story thanks for reading.
Disappointment you never expected
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Good morning everyone and how was your night? Mine was great and smooth because there was electricity all through the night so I enjoyed fan till daybreak 😁 enough about how my night went so let's continue our story. Here is the previous story👉 link https://read.cash/@Esthery97/you-are-not-the-person-i-use-to-know-3ccd8558
There is a say which says that "love is sweeter than honey" yeah no doubt about that but only when you are with your Mr or Mrs right I believe we all know that by now so if your relationship is skipping and you have tried to make it work and it seems not working my dear go and look for your Mr or Mrs. Right.
The love chemistry started between my mom (Rebecca) and my dad (Johnson) when they were in college and am sure everyone knows how those teenagers behave when they are madly in love, in school they show it all to people and so many girls were jealous of my mom (Rebecca) for having such great guy to herself am sure you know how frustrating it is for girls to see someone taking away their crush from them.
So some girls began to get angry at my mom because my dad fell in love with her and not any one of them, so they plan to destroy the beautiful thing they both share.
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One day my mom has a very difficult assignment which was beyond her understand and since she has a very brilliant guy to herself she quickly took it to him and they began to solve it in that afternoon till 4 pm so my dad told her: am hungry and then she quickly ran to get something to cook for him since she's the one that delayed him from having lunch and when they ate finish they continue their assignment.
Been the first time together in a room with your boyfriend or girlfriend as a teenager can be funny, embarrassing, sweet, or something else but they choose the sweet part because after the assignment something happened between the two of them which I won't discuss and am sure you understand what might happens between them.
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After two months my mom discovered that she wasn't menstruating and she quickly Google what could cause that and found out that she might be pregnant and you know how this teenager girls behaves she didn't tell her mom because her mom is having a health issue (heart attack) and she's is here falling in love, well I think she made her choice and I don't blame her for that but you know sometimes it is not love we should be thinking of in such a situation and meanwhile nobody was there for my mom and her mom is just the two of them.
`Incase you don't know them yet they are my mentor and a sponsor as well kindly visit them if you haven't`
But as for my dad, I knew nothing about him because I don't think my mom knew him too well back then but all she knew was the love they shared, so on this faithful day one of these jealousy girls came with her assignment to my dad's room and he didn't refuse since he has always done it for her and he started answering the questions while the girl stood up like she wants to take something but instead she took off all her clothes and seduce my dad meanwhile my dad couldn't resist the body because he was lust in thought while the girl got down with him.
My mom was on her way to inform him about what happened to her on getting there she just opened the door without knocking since she wasn't expecting such a thing and everything she saw seems like a dream to her because she couldn't believe her eyes that day.
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This story is a very deep one and I will be talking about it in my next post because we all must know how Jonathan came into the picture and why he never wanted to remember his dad, meanwhile, I have some questions to ask.
**Questions**
Why is it that some girls are wicked?
Why did some people hate to see other people happy?
And the last one can someone be forced to love?
`Don't forget this content is fictional and not anyone's life story`
You are not the person I use to know
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My name is Jonathan the only child of the family, I am 20 years old and I love to mingle because am still single, this my introduction is enough for now as I write along you will get to know me better.
I am the only child of my mom but my dad didn't grow up knowing him as a father because each day I remember him it makes me cry so I decided not to think of him or what he did to my mom.
My mom sent me to school from when I was little till when I entered university and I have vowed that I will take good care of her no matter what it takes me and how much I have to give she must get a perfect life her husband which is my dad failed to give her, let me briefly tell you about my dad and mom
To the story my mom told me and the history I got from my dad's diary which he forgot to take along with him, my dad was a brilliant student in school (secondary school) back then and this makes every lady in school wants to be his friend but he was a novice then so he never take the chance of those girls
Some will come to his hostel room all in the name of the assignment and they will sleepover but he never think of anything dirty with them, while my mom was in another school but as fate wants to work my mom was transferred to my dad's school because of a teacher that tried molest her so her mother quickly withdraws her to another school so her life won't be destroyed.
The day my mother got into my dad's school they ran into each other by a mistake, my mom forgot to make a photocopy so she was running to get it done faster while my dad was running into the class so that he can meet up with the submission of assignments, that was how they bumped into each other's
All the photocopies fell from my mom's hand and my dad apologizes and helped her to pack it up (says the diary of my dad) and they smile at each other while they forgot to exchange names or numbers, my mom finally got into the school.
After a month which my mom has been in the school they bump into each other again while they are both running to meet up with practical in the lab but they are not in the same class, that was when they talk and say their first hello to each other, my dad felt something different that day (says his diary) even in the lab he couldn't concentrate on what his teacher was teaching him because the face of the beautiful lady that keeps bumping into him won't stop flashing on his mind, and then he keeps smiling even when there is nothing funny to him.
After the class (lab) he quickly ran outside to check some other lab so that he could talk to the beautiful girl (my mom) but he couldn't picture her face from the crowd in the other lab so he decided to sit at the entrance corridor to wait until they finish, after 15minutes of sitting he decided to take a stroll on getting back to the lab the class was over and everyone has left except for a slow writer that was trying to get her note complete which is my mom.
He was curious to see the face and then he entered and say: good afternoon
She: hi
Him: oh thank God it's you
She: hmm me what happened hope there is no problem
Him: oh no not at all I have been waiting for you outside since
She: but why?
My dad was shy he didn't know how to express his first sight love to her and then he said
Him: nothing serious I just wanted to say sorry for the other day and today again
She: smiled hmmm it's ok we were both at fault
This is how the love chemistry started, let's stop here for today, tommorow I will tell you how it feels to fall in love at a tender age hmmm love they say it's sweet but only when you are with you right man or woman.
`This content is just a fictional`
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