Breakfast
. In the even when she came back from work she called me with a smile and said: Esther you are such a darling and I ask why she said her boyfriend just called her to come now that he wants to take her out then I ask what is now my own she said if she hasn't followed my advice to give him time she might think of something else, then I ask her something else like what? She said maybe she won't just call him again and let him be and I smile on the phone so she end the call. Only to call me in the night with a cry and said: Esther you won't believe what this guy did to me and I was like what did he do this time because the last time I checked he took you out for dinner and she said: he broke up with me (crying) guess what I did? I laughed because she's seeing the traces of breakup with him but she thinks is just a joke and I told her he has finally given you your breakfast because that's what we call breakup here. She cried so hard on the phone sand I had to beg her again because I know it is not easy, but the question is why did the guy broke up with her because the last time I checked she doesn't do anything to deserve that, and am not saying this because she's my friend am saying it because I know her to be too good for someone to break her heart but what can I do? **The question is**...... Why do some guys love to break people's hearts? Did some of these guys want someone that will always provoke them?. How can being cool and hardworking be a reason to break up with someone?. What is the meaning of a relationship? Is it just to date and dump each other because the rate at which guys are dumping ladies lately is high So back to my friend that says nothing is good about this morning, can we now say because someone chooses to leave us we won't live our lives again? To me, I believe if someone leaves you for no reason that means he doesn't love you from the start he just wanted your body and when he's done having it to himself then that's where breakup comes in. As a good friend that I am I called her boyfriend this morning after I checked up on my friend to see if she's still ok guess the guy's excuses are: *your friend is just too cool for a guy like me.* *she's a workaholic.* *all she does is work.* *she's not romantic etc.* hmmm but then I told him why don't you make her what you want instead of dumping her, why don't you tell her what she's doing that you don't like so that she can change, why don't you seat her down and discuss all this with her before breaking her heart, you should at least try before taking this huge step you took last night and to crown it all you took her into the restaurant to break up with her isn't that embarrassing? Then he goes like this: Esthery your friend is too cool and my friends always tell me that such a girl is not good for me. What? can you imagine what this life is turning into? Can you imagine that a girl who doesn't give a problem in the relationship is not good ha some guys are something else like seriously, anyways I hope my friend finds someone that will appreciate her calmness, coolness, and hard work because I don't see that as an excuse to end a relationship with someone. Thanks for reading, ***am off to work now***
19 comments
Your friend just got mixed up with someone who isn't similar to her in anyway....or maybe dude just got fed up or was just looking for an excuse. He might as well get himself a witch since he doesn't like cool girls.
Some guys are just something else how can you quit a relationship because your partner is too cool
He is just giving a silly excuse, how can someone be too cool? I hope he finds a lady that would be fighting and tearing his cloth at a single argument since wants a mad person.
Lol π€£ that one is for sure because I don't understand his lame excuses either
Association of boyfriends are on strike dear, smiles. Your friend should have understood her boyfriend better earlier. And it is not good for any man that your friends will be controlling your personal relationship
I wonder if it is his friends that wants to marry him
Such bulls**t! He must really be a fool if that's truly his reason, not to mention what i see as peer pressure there. I think your friend ought to take herself out and celebrate, she just dodged a bullet there. A life with that kind of person would have been misery for her
Hmmm I thought as much too that he can't be a good future husband for her but thank God he show his true colors now
Nawa oo, should I say I have been in the dark not knowing break up means breakfast ππ Well, my own say is that the best will always come no matter what happen. If someone leaves you, it means both of you aren't meant to stay together for long. This would always be my principle: if they are meant for you, they will stay no matter the reasons. Even if they leave, if it is yours, nothing will stop it. Tell your friend the best is coming for.
Yes o na watin them dey call am for Lagos be that o The best will definitely come for sure
It is better he acts like that now and she can get rid of him, and find a person that will make her happy. Breakfast I had not heard that before!
It's a slang we use for heartbreak here in Nigeria
Hmmm, that guy must be very dumb and stupid for saying his friends say this and that. He doesn't know what he wants himself, well the person who loves your friend will surely come , she should be calm and move on. Gbogbo wa la ma je breakfast.
Abi o gbogbo wa ni o but na time way we go chop am dey different Because I don chop am before too
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He is an idiot. Letting his friend's opinion determine his happiness. Your friend deserves better.
Anyone is always seek too much advice from friends that's what they get They always loose something good
Its just endless circle of demand, that don't make sense.. he just missed a gem. Tell your friend to never worry about that kind of person, you are good friend to as k the guy for a closure of what happened and it still doesn't make sense to me...
I was shocked at his lame excuses as well