Love and lust?

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So let's get back to business "love or lust" talking about love some people must have mixed these two things because they work together when a lady loves a guy for one particular thing she will want him by all means which I called lust over him and the same thing goes to guys too.

But when someone is lusted and not loved that's when you see something like a man maltreating his wife because when they first met what he feels for her is not love but lust over her body shape or beauty and when the relationship gets to a certain point he might not see what he's lust over anymore then some bad act will be coming up from him towards her like shouting, beating, angry at any given time, etc.

Because if there is true love between them no matter what the guy will never get tired of her and the lady too will never see any bad in him as well, for instance, a lady they marry a guy because of money or gift that she sees from him when the money is gone what do you think she will do? And a guy who is running after a lady's nice shape and eventually get married then the lady starts giving birth which means her body will change a little am sure some guys can't even stand seeing their women when they are pregnant because of what they feel for them is lust and not love then they will begin to complain that she's too fat, bursty, and not beautiful like before.

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Just like what I saw on Facebook last night a man complaining about his wife's belly meanwhile she has given him 5 boys already and yet he still wants her to be sexy like before she gave birth then he started cheating with some other girls then the wife catches him so he said he no longer sees what he fell in love with in her in the very first time they met.

Does it have to be something to fall in love with in someone's body? What if that thing you fall in love with eventually left will you leave too says the woman and of course, the man said yes because that is how it works for men there must be something to fall in love with in a women's body.

I was surprised to see that some guys or let me say men still think of falling in love with body shape is love, I can't believe there are still guys who are in love because of how beautiful the lady looks in this kind of century that ladies now do anything to get a nice shape and makeup to look beautiful meanwhile there are some ladies who don't do away with all these things then when they get into the relationship pregnancy will now show their real life and the man will now begin to think she doesn't worth it anymore.

Don't get me wrong am not saying you can have all the body shape you want at all cost and do your make-up every day but some ladies don't even know what the man wants, sometimes let him see you I mean the real you so that he will fall in love with you and not lust over your shapes or makeup that will eventually go away.

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Love doesn't have to be something in your body because the body might change someday then what is left for you? Never lust over beauty or handsomeness because relationship is deep than an ocean it can take you to a certain level that you will get lost in it but when you are with the true love of your life nothing will shake you, in fact, you will live happily with him or her forever.

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