Past mistakes

I observed that many people still dwell and live in their past. most times decision taken about our life or things to do were taken in haste or we did not consider other things to do it and at the end we end up doing the wrong thing. some people what they did wrong in the past to hurt other people or things that they have done that is so bad now they turned a new leaf but that thing they have done keep ringing in their mind and they think it’s the reward for what they have done in the past some people made mistakes in decision or things they do as a result of advice given to them by family or friends and they now Blame the person for what happened and an even lose that relationship with the person HOW NOT TO MAKE MISTAKES firstly when you are about to do something thing about it well ,do research on it well before going ahead with it. secondly when taking advice from others don’t take it like an absolute solution but think through it too because their advice is just a suggestion Thirdly ask the right person for advice ,someone who knows about that thing you want the person to advice you on and not just anyone . HOW TO DEAL WITH MISTAKES -first know what exactly go wrong then think of ways to rectify it -don’t use the mistake to judge other things -move on and don’t dwell in that by reminding yourself of it but move on -don’t hate those that advised you to do it because you should have just think through it too i stop here for now hope this helped you