Every pawns has the ability to become a bishop, knight, rock, and even queen. Go take the challenge. Go out to your comfort zpne
Life makes us realize many things and taught us many lessons. When we were a child there were support in each steps we make, we are being cared and given affection, and things are spoon feed for us. By those we developed our skills and physical body. Exercising everyday, eating healthy foods, and taking rest. But how come with all those we can't felt growth? The growth not in appearance but in character. Was healthy lifestyle not enough? What is healthy lifestyle in the first place?
See, a child depends on adults because the child needs support as he takes small steps and still developing but we should know when it is the time to stop being dependent and start being an adult little by little. Normally, parents always look after their children regardless with their ages, but as parents it is also important to teach children at the early age about being independent and start supporting others instead of receiving supports.
There is no growth when we stuck ourselves in the four corners of our comfort zones. Trying new things challenges our brain and there is new input to be processed. Yes, it is very scary to step out but it is very terrible not to learn and grow. There is so many people that are still being dependent to their parents even after having their own family and it adds more pressure to the parents. There are so many youths being too impulsive and gone to miserable paths and end up, parents were the one cleaning their mess.
Two reasons why youths commit juvenile acts. First, they knew their parents would clean their mess. Second, they know their parents wouldn't mind and does not care about them. Children like to be challenge, which is in fact both an advantage and disadvantage for them. When a youth is being challenge to try vices, and being pressured constantly by peers, as he tried it and being accepted by the group he will feel he had achieve something. So that is why many does it all over again until they can no longer stop, new things excite people. But if we put it in a more positive context, when a youth is challenge to do things like business and he is put in constant pressure, once he achieve that he'll pursue it.
The moment we challenge youth, they'll never retreat as long as you believe they can. Yes, peers believe that you can do vices that why they constantly pressure you until you do it. Imagine if we believe in a youth that he can do much more than that. What do you think he'll become?
Sometimes, a person does not need a financial support or a person who always have their back, they only need someone that believes in them.
And as for the youths, please redirect your path because no one can do it except you being willing to do it. Life is short and maybe you wanted it shorter but onething I can say, You Can Always Be better than that. You have so many days ahead, and how your life started wasn't your fault, even if people make you feel that you. You are capable of making new decisions and redirecting your paths. Second chance is hard to regain so please don't pushed things to far, you might lose big things.