As humans so things are so natural to happen to us irrespective, You know that feeling when someone teases you so bad especially when they are saying the truth about you and everyone starts laughing hard at you, oh you might just be losing your sanity and getting angry all at once, what do you do in such instance? Many have a response of fighting back, yeah I did, I would literally fight you hoping the fear of not messing with me would caution you next time, but it only showed that they could get to me using that and I would only keep fighting, but against how many, it only kept getting interesting to laugh about for them.
Some others would try insulting back, hmm this is good though but its base on who has the funniest words, you might want to throw back at them but when you don't have that funny charisma and you can't pull the audience away from the other, you might only end up making it worse, some people are so talented that all they need to do is cough as you walk by and everyone's already teasing you, its embarrassing and you just wanna urrrghh go all rangers on them, but you can't especially if its a cooperate setting, maybe at work, office or school, where you have to respect the code of conduct.
Some others who are very emotional would cry and run away, awwn cry cry baby, one would think the innocence of this kind of response can stop it, well maybe a little out of pity, or someone can stand up for you especially for the ladies, but then you should just hope your enemy isn't there, cause they just found out something that they can use to get to you and believe me you'll be hearing from them soon, and this time there might not be anyone to stand up for you dear. So what then is the right approach to dealing with mockery, since fighting them might not be so good, what if they are more powerful and you'll just get beaten amidst the mockery, the aftermath of such anger can lead you into almost committing murder, so much anger. Also crying and returning the insult might not play out well, so what's a better alternative?
First off, shield your mind, if you wanna win this game, then you've got to shield your mind, so that whatever words they throw won't get to you. The main motive for the mockery is to get you into a bad mood, and they can only win when you truly get upset, so then don't get upset, or at least learn to hide within the smile. Tell yourself this and this is a fact " there isn't anyone who can't be mocked " even bill gates would get mocked at home or between close friends or even in public, we humans are amusing, so it depends on how you take it, moreover its words, I know words hurt deep but just for that occasions learn to shied that heart and take cover in a disguise.
Now what are you being mocked for? Think and get to know why, so is it something that can be changed? If yes then close that gap, work on yourself, so when the next encounter comes you can easily find confidence, but is it also something you can't change or it's hard to change? Then you've got to know it as truth rather than as an insult and find your way around it. Acceptance can do a lot than imagined and might be the only thing needed to start a better life. You can't change what you haven't accepted to be a fact, firstly accept and try not taking it as an insult first.
Have you tried laughing at their jokes, especially when it's true, not laughing because you are angry, but genuinely laughing because you're catching fun, its funny right and everyone is laughing, why would you miss out from the fun, join in and see how it would quickly die down and they would shift attention to the next person and then you might see that your response has been the fuel to the continuous mockery. Meanwhile its better to be happy and find fun always even if you're on the line, learn to find fun there and you'll be shocked they aren't finding it much amusing to tease you so much.
We often don't know how to get them to stop until someone shows us how, but you've got to be around to see how to either get them to stop it or get back at them, remembered even the mockers get mocked and someone someday would be bringing him a taste of his or her medicine, you better be around to take note. So rather than shy away, enjoy the jokes, it's life after all, make it boring for them by not making it get to you, you can choose to laugh back or just laugh away or simply ignore like it doesn't matter and just be happy, yet while working on yourself to close that reason for the mockery in the first place because its those truth about you that hurts deeper.
Its a word play and shouldn't spoil your mood for long or make the great day go bad, I've also notice that good days where you need to be happy to receive goodies from mother nature might want to test you into losing your mind and by anger losing the gifts, so you in turn should be sensitive to your happiness at all times. Yes it's a deliberate act. Push for your happiness intentionally, shun mockery, don't let it get to you.
And should in case you're the one always mocking people, please stop, those words hurt deep and could lead to depression, what do you stand to gain afterwards, find others way to make laughs and be sensitive to peoples emotions. Cheers!
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